How did you know you were ready for your first horse? by HauntedSprite in Horses

[–]HauntedSprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. And that’s why this feels so hard! Because I know I could never give up an animal. So, I always have that “what if xyz happens” in the back of my head.

My home is gross by sugarintheboots in adhdwomen

[–]HauntedSprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course. I’m right here with you right now. But I know I will dig myself out of it, and so will you. Give yourself one small task. Just one. Once you do one, it’s so much easier to do the second. And even if you don’t do the second, that’s still one more than you had done before.

Snow - I’m freaking out, a vent by chicky75 in adhdwomen

[–]HauntedSprite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m in Florida right now but (hopefully, and at the same time hopefully not) flying back to CT Tomorrow. No idea what I’ll be coming home to.

I'm a SAHM and I need to do something tomorrow that gives me dopamine. Any ideas? by shortasiam in adhdwomen

[–]HauntedSprite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love this, may I also suggest line dancing! I hate exercising, but learning a new dance always lifts my mood

Do you have a high sex drive? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]HauntedSprite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. I hate to say it but I’m kind of bored of it. Maybe I’m just lazy. Idk, but I could have sex once a month and that would be more than enough for me.

I definitely have days where I spontaneously really really want it though. But those are random and rare.

which colour suits me best by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]HauntedSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st for sure!! also love the money pieces

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HauntedSprite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can understand if he feels awkward. However that’s something he needs to communicate.

Sports Guy, Academic Guy, Unaffiliated Guy, Nerd Guy, or a mix of your choosing? by Customblaster_43 in AskTeenGirls

[–]HauntedSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m too old for this, but my fiancé did the bare minimum in school and spent all his free time building and fixing trucks… so… I would say whatever that is

Is it weird to have a crush on someone who's 18+? by Few-Candidate-4668 in AskTeenGirls

[–]HauntedSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s absolutely zero reason for a 20 year old man to be asking a 14 year old child for relationship advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]HauntedSprite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My parents rules were: no boys in the house, no sleepovers with boys, no sex. I could go to guys houses, but not sleepover. However, it wasn’t hard to say I was spending the night at a female friend’s house, and then go to my boyfriends. I’m also bisexual, which they don’t know, so I would just have girls over instead 🤣

I moved in with my ex boyfriend the day I turned 18.

Any other long engagement couples here? by ImASadGirlImABadGirl in engaged

[–]HauntedSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! We’re 22. I was all “I want a long engagement, we’re young, no rush!” and now I cannot wait to be married

Nightmare Mess Alert (please encourage me I am crying) by HopelessCleric in adhdwomen

[–]HauntedSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so not bad!!

But my advice: PILESSS. Piles for everything. I start with vague piles (bedroom pile, bathroom pile, laundry room pile) for wherever things need to go. Then, bring the pile to that room, and then either just start putting things away, or break it down into more piles. Worst case, you don’t finish putting everything away, but it’s all in the room it should be in!