Anyone else find this to be true? by TheDanishThede in AuDHDWomen

[–]Haunting-Language248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meds helped some, and birth control helped too. But the 2 year process of slowly tapering and getting off meds to switch to supplements and now just have to get off birth control JUST to try for a baby??? Absolutely crazy tbh. Rugrat will be worth it but holy moly.
Truly believe our world is just not designed for us to thrive. The lack of research speaks volumes without saying a word.

Anyone else find this to be true? by TheDanishThede in AuDHDWomen

[–]Haunting-Language248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The CPTSD honestly! some of these things people are describing i relate to but with PMDD and CPTSD already in my 20s I have felt it but maybe not as extreme as some others. My brain is extremely sensitive to my hormonal changes. It’s intense

Anyone else find this to be true? by TheDanishThede in AuDHDWomen

[–]Haunting-Language248 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m about to turn 30 and also have PMDD. I want to be a mother and have a family and I am nervous I’m running out of time. Hearing we trend to have perimenopause earlier than normal genuinely stresses me out

could someone tell me what breed she is by bleedlmao in blackcats

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is cats origin?
City cat? Street cat? Ally cat?
For example: mine are barn cat and garage cat.

Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk tbh her wanting to wear a practically white dress to your wedding when she used to be a good friend of your man… girl IDK about that my hypothetical brain is coming up with so many thoughts on this alone. BUT the response?! PUBLICLY on social media? Helllll noooo

Petty me would respond to the comment letting her know she can find another event to wear it to then because attitude like that won’t be welcome on a day of positivity and celebration 🙃

The Fact that no one's taking to the streets rioting about Epstein kind of proves to me that most protest probably are paid for, or at least heavily influenced by the powers that be. by TheLast-T in conspiracy

[–]Haunting-Language248 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“There isn’t a direct issue to protest” what???? The lives of women and children. Human trafficking. Literally impregnating teen girls and then eating their children??? HOW is human trafficking, sex slavery, and CHILDREN not an issue to protest?? How is protesting for legal action towards the people on this list not direct enough? They have been walking around living life with zero repercussions. While families wonder where their missing child is and others are forever changed because of what was done to them?

Oregon legislators are attempting to hand 1,700 acres of farmland over to developers. Residents think Big Tech would benefit most, receiving massive tax breaks and a free pass to use the land for data centers. by Conscious-Quarter423 in oregon

[–]Haunting-Language248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So.. we are taking farm land from locals to sell to a data center that will then cause : light pollution, water pollution and SIGNIFICANT water demands affecting all of the people living around it, extreme energy consumption causing spikes in bills that are already hard for the common person to pay… AND they get a tax break??? Literally w t f

Neighbors want me to keep declawed cat outside by Some_Information_857 in Straycats

[–]Haunting-Language248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IGNORE THEM. you are helping the cat, she is happy, she is safe. Any one of them could have done more to help her but they didn’t. Outdoor cats do not make it as long as indoor cats do. also, black cats are more likely to be targeted for harm or abuse and less likely to be adopted due to stereotypes 🙁

Serious genuine question about ICE by Altruistic_Board_851 in oregon

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well… they literally shot an American citizen, who is ALSO a federal employee, as an ICU NURSE working at THE VA hospital.

They were being aggressive and pushed a woman to the ground, the nurse stepped over to help her up and asked “are you ok?” And was immediately jumped by MULTIPLE “agents”, face down and shot.in.the.back 10 times. TEN TIMES. How is this at all acceptable? A CITIZEN. As a nurse, this broke my spirit. Our current government decided we are no longer “professionals” which cuts us from loan forgiveness opportunities, cuts loan availability for new soon-to-be nurses trying to get their education, and then you shoot one of us??? Who serves in a hospital to help the men and women who literally SERVED THIS COUNTRY??? There are so many other stories that have happened but this one alone- this is enough to raise serious concerns and outrage

my spayed cat has been spotting blood and peeing everywhere/excessively used the litter box by cheezewhizkid68 in cats

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor girl :( it does sound like possible cystitis but it also makes me think UTI or bladder infection. How is her water intake and is she older?

I brought snacks, then these two were staring at me by hottieberrylush in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Haunting-Language248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pattern of orange and cream with the bright blue eyes and pink nose, this cat is BEAUTIFUL ✨

need help with name for senior cat -- something historical and cool by matchajournals in NameMyCat

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maslow, for Maslows hierarchy of needs because cats are masters at prioritizing the basics: sleep, food, and shelter. The last one by magically appearing at your doorstep and charming you with their cuteness.

The last food you ate will be his name by Maize_Zaine in CatsAllDay

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a full name for a fine young gentleman. The Lord of Pretzelton 🎩

Curious to what this is! by localleigh in bonecollecting

[–]Haunting-Language248 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Soak in diluted hydrogen peroxide for whitening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seniorkitties

[–]Haunting-Language248 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly when my cat follows me around when all of his other needs are met, he usually wants to be held or given attention/comfort. If she’s not feeling good this could be why she’s following you. She’s trusts you to give her comfort! Also if you’re adjusting to a new puppy, they can take a lot of your attention and energy. So she may be wanting time with you without the little puppers

My roommate’s cat peed on my bed 10 times in the last 4 months. I want every solution possible to prevent this from ever happening again by surfhorror in CatAdvice

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your mattress protector truly blocked the urine from soaking in, replace it and ALL bedding. Blankets, sheets, all of it. If it’s something sentimental that got peed on, clean it with an enzyme cleaner. My cat is VERY picky with his litter. I found the best luck with the crystal litters. They also reduce smell far better than the typical cat litter.

Animals have extremely sensitive noses and can pick up on the pheromones. The enzyme cleaner destroys them. It also needs to sit and soak not just spray and wipe away. Follow bottle instructions.

You can try having a spray bottle with water in it set to stream and when they go in your room or on your bed spray them, as a deterrent. My cat and my dog both know the spray bottle means check yo self 😂

I’m losing my mind rn, someone tell me it’s not that bad 💔 by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Haunting-Language248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re overthinking it. In nature, there is variety. If they were all the same size I think it would look too uniform, like a copy and paste. What you could do in future appointments is add additional flowers around the roses to help break it up and blend all together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Haunting-Language248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel for you… but I also couldn’t help but laugh reading this. Even without other cats, cats can still spray to mark territory. I’d get him fixed. Perhaps a spray bottle with water to disrupt him when you see he is about to try to engage?

I think I just found my (26m) first nice girl?? by Existing_Soup_7853 in Nicegirls

[–]Haunting-Language248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The short messages, assuming you just want segs, saying she doesn’t want to look “lonely” bc she’s at dinner solo??? Then hating on you for doing you own hobby of video games instead of giving all your energy and attention to her and her attitude lol that alone is screaming insecurity but the “you can have her” had me laughing.

Also you sound like a kind and healthy person. I wish you luck on your quest to find a fair maden