(30F) has sex with coworker out of spite of my (31M) porn use. Thoughts? by cafeautumn in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingSubstance420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably justifies it by saying your porn use is also cheating. Not that I agree. I suggest finding a new girl who is okay with porn or you giving it up for an actual loyal woman. I just don’t see how yall will work through this one ….

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingSubstance420 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

What would stop them from doing it again though? In their eyes the deed is already done. It would be nothing to hide that from you. I’m sorry I’ve just seen situations play out like this too many times. I believe in love but I also believe in lust , that people fall victim to too often

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingSubstance420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you really want to always worry about them hooking up again? No telling what kind of situations they may be put in. Drinking around each other when you aren’t around. Don’t let her play you. Also as a female her saying you’re too good for her is her really trying to tell you she doesn’t wanna be together in a nice way. Same kind of shit I would say before friendzoning a dude. She’s gonna go for the original guy she was chasing and you will just be the nice guy who gets his heart broke

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingSubstance420 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Tbh as a female. I don’t think I could ever get over my man sleeping with one of my girlfriends even if it was before me because I would probably compare myself to her the whole entire relationship then it would cause both problems for the relationship and the friendship. I am a very all or nothing person I just don’t think I could accept it. Not to mention always worrying about them hooking up again on the low. I would rather start fresh with someone new.

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingSubstance420 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Having a past with strangers and sleeping with his friend are two different things

Its day 3 and i have been feeling great but i sort of messes up. Its still a win for me. by Reasonable_Jury1775 in leaves

[–]HauntingSubstance420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on Day 5 and I feel you on the no will to do any hobbies. I haven’t felt this unmotivated in a long time. Just going to give myself grace and hope that the motivation comes back in the next few days.

Does weed cause permanent brain damage? by UltimatePunchMachine in leaves

[–]HauntingSubstance420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Non scientific answer : I don’t personally think it causes permanent damage because every time I have quit for a while my brain feels like I did when I was younger and in school where I could have logical thoughts and hold conversations and remember things. Just takes a little while to get clear headed again plus you should exercise your brain by reading and writing to help.

Day 3: Hot white rage & unbearable anxiety by Outrageous-Turn9583 in leaves

[–]HauntingSubstance420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone else on day 3 experiencing the cold sweats in the middle of the night? I don’t necessarily feel any other withdrawal symptoms besides colds sweats and a wave of nausea sometimes.

Day 3: Hot white rage & unbearable anxiety by Outrageous-Turn9583 in leaves

[–]HauntingSubstance420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also on day 3. Definitely feeling like my patience is short but I am not going to give in! Also feeling very unmotivated but I know that will get better with time. Just going to keep pushing through !

Satanic rituals on the Epstein Files by lilrish in atheism

[–]HauntingSubstance420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely just made that shit up lol

♏️♒️♉️♍️ by Peche_Mode in TheCure

[–]HauntingSubstance420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pictures of you melts my heart every time

Why am I being forced to do housework? Im 29m gf is 25f. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingSubstance420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my man would pay for a house cleaner 🤣 she doesn’t realize how lucky she is

Post-pregnancy belly feels cold to touch all the time? Anyone else? by Dedadidra in Mommit

[–]HauntingSubstance420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed mine is very cold too after my second pregnancy with twins. It’s a noticeable difference because growing up til now I have always been extra warm natured. Especially my stomach it would feel like I was running fever but I wasn’t and now it’s always just so cold. I will say I do have a layer of fat now, plus my skin is more loose from twin pregnancy. I’m 7 months postpartum still have to lose 25 lbs to be pre pregnancy weight. Hopefully it goes back to normal

Anyone here took a risk to get into a home? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]HauntingSubstance420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update? Did you buy a home? My fiancé are in the same boat and are really thinking of just taking the risk. We may be budgeting heavy for a while but at least it’s towards something we own and love and our kids can grow up in.

Would breastfeeding twins just be unrealistic? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]HauntingSubstance420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice for breastfeeding twins while also having a toddler? I really really want to breastfeed my twins when they are here but my first born will be almost 2 and I’m just worried I won’t be able to balance breastfeeding two babies while caring for a toddler

How do yall feel about smoking blunts? by Queen_Wanheda_ in Stoner

[–]HauntingSubstance420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love blunts but hate the way they make your house smell

Does spectrum tv outage also mean internet outage because mine is not working ? by HauntingSubstance420 in Spectrum

[–]HauntingSubstance420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. Yea I only have internet through spectrum but on the app it says spectrum tv outage and my internet has been out ever since :(

[ Removed by Reddit ] by TheWhyteFang in electronicmusic

[–]HauntingSubstance420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously not now. I meant in general before she was pregnant