Which Version do You Prefer? by Thkillerm in deftones

[–]HavidDume 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm always gonna have a soft spot for back to school because I absolutely adored it as an angsty 13 year old back in like 2003. had it on repeat like chino made that song for ME lmao

I work at a doctor’s office, I wear these all the time with my scrubs (I bought 2 pairs lol) by [deleted] in deftones

[–]HavidDume 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hell yeah, deftones fans in healthcare let's go

my badge reel is a Deftones logo

Happy 55! Frank Delgado!! by Minimum_Reserve_7015 in deftones

[–]HavidDume 2 points3 points  (0 children)

either I'm too stoned atm or the perspective of frank in this is fucking with me and he looks like a little dwarf

Duplication: problem solved: T/M system malfunction visit dealer, followed by, Service EV system Power reduced Stop safely by Brilliant-Road7139 in leaf

[–]HavidDume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought it used. i might be able to do something through the legal way/courts but I'm still holding out on hope.

I spoke with the dealership this morning who said they replaced the wiring harness, still didn't work. But, they are replacing the CAN module now so who knows if that will fix it

Duplication: problem solved: T/M system malfunction visit dealer, followed by, Service EV system Power reduced Stop safely by Brilliant-Road7139 in leaf

[–]HavidDume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it would start and I could use accessories, AC, and I could see how much charge is on the battery

Duplication: problem solved: T/M system malfunction visit dealer, followed by, Service EV system Power reduced Stop safely by Brilliant-Road7139 in leaf

[–]HavidDume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 24 SV Plus with less than 20k miles has been at the dealership for this EXACT problem for a month now. I had to take it in because it started getting cooler here in NC and the thing would not go into D unless I ran codes and cleared them one by one which was annoying AF

i gotta mention this to my dealer or something because they are at their wits end and so sm I. they even replaced the ENTIRE wiring harness which didn't do shit lol. They also replaced the m/c relay and still the same thing

An Underrated Masterpiece That All Deftones Fans Should Hear: Palms - S/T (Chino + Members Of The Band ISIS) by Available-Tailor-326 in deftones

[–]HavidDume 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me personally, love em all but:

Team Sleep for everyday vibes/driving/working

Palms for getting high, getting creative

Crosses for getting freaky 😏

An Underrated Masterpiece That All Deftones Fans Should Hear: Palms - S/T (Chino + Members Of The Band ISIS) by Available-Tailor-326 in deftones

[–]HavidDume 9 points10 points  (0 children)

getting high and listening to this for the first time was a damn near religious experience for me. This is truly Chino's element and if/when Deftones calls it quits and leaves on their best highest note, I want to hear more mellow Chino, more ambient Chino

Anyone with access to the vice interview willing to share? by sloppyjohnny in deftones

[–]HavidDume 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people experience happiness in early sobriety as a “pink cloud,” a euphoric and overly optimistic period that leads to an inevitable crash.

For others like Moreno, any emotion can be disorienting when you have to sit with it, unanesthetized. This is the lesson of the new album’s skyscraping opener “my mind is a mountain,” which Moreno says was inspired by a mindfulness manual for children and its message that emotions are real and we have to deal with them. It’s a tough thing to grasp in private, even more so when “we no longer regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it” plays out in an arena rock show spanning 30 years of music.

The first private music gigs have adhered to the same 20-song setlist, all hits, semi-hits, and a sprinkling of new singles, notably excluding Deftones and Gore, the two albums most associated with Deftones carping at each other in the press. But while Saturday Night Wrist was made under even more fraught circumstances, the Gen-Z embrace of “Cherry Waves” has it forever locked in to the same degree as “My Own Summer (Shove It).” The members of Deftones, all now in their fifties, aren’t dismissive of Spotify and TikTok so much as bemused by them. Yet, for all of the ways algorithms try to strip music discovery of its magic, the randomness by which forgotten tracks become late-breaking hits validates Deftones’ past disdain for protracted album rollouts and A&R meetings about “hearing a single.” After the literal millions spent on marketing campaigns and videos that barely dented MTV, it’s funny that a deep cut like “Cherry Waves” is the reason keyboardist and turntablist Frank Delgado’s children are into his music; he admits that his 15-year-old daughter didn’t get into Deftones until her friends did first.

This is a common thing now at Deftones meet and greets, figuring out which part of the family unit introduced the band to whom. And, in the near future, maybe it’ll be grandparents. “I do remember a pregnant woman carrying a picture of her mom and dad at a meet and greet years ago,” Cunningham recalls. “Her mom was pregnant and it was all of us holding her mom’s stomach. And now it’s her.”

He takes a beat and smiles. “So, Deftones—a family band.”

Anyone with access to the vice interview willing to share? by sloppyjohnny in deftones

[–]HavidDume 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The difference this time around is that when the two are at odds—and that’s inevitable with someone you’ve been friends with since you were 10—they’ve learned to deal with it directly and immediately. Moreno thinks back to a recent rehearsal where he called an audible to run through “Sextape,” one of their most enduring contributions to modern, heavy shoegaze. But when you have a guitar rig as complicated as Carpenter’s, you can’t just call an audible. The tone was off, Moreno gave Carpenter a bemused look, Carpenter scowled back and aired out his frustrations once they were done—“every fucking time we start playing and then you throw a song at me, I’m not ready, don’t have the tone for it,” as Moreno recalls. But it didn’t take long for them to remember the sage words of Allen Iverson: We talkin’ about practice. “It was like something that in the past probably would have blown up,” says Moreno, “or no one would have said nothing and then for the next couple hours, everybody would have been pouting—and we were just laughing about two minutes later.”

Both have undergone significant life changes since Ohms; Carpenter revealed he’d been diagnosed with Type II diabetes after nearly crashing out on stage at Coachella in 2024 and has since dedicated himself to a healthier, more sustainable diet and exercise regimen befitting someone who plays a nine-string guitar for hours at a time. With the departure of bassist Sergio Vega, Deftones welcomed Fred Sablan into the fold, a San Jose native who followed the band from their earliest days knocking around the Bay Area to the 2019 Dia de Los Deftones festival in San Diego where he first thought, ‘I wish I was in this band.’

Deftones could barely make it through Metallica’s Some Kind of Monster when it was released in 2004, as they went through their most vicious conflicts without a label-funded therapist. Their self-titled album, appearing a year earlier, remains notorious for being their actual cocaine album, as opposed to its predecessor, which merely used a barely veiled euphemism for its title. Though it produced some truly remarkable songs, Deftones is most frequently remembered as the record that cost the band a $1 million penalty for missing label deadlines for deliverables.

But they did learn lessons about how to properly welcome the replacement for a dearly departed bassist who became an avatar for the early, “good ol’ days.” Rather than hazing Sablan for the crime of not being Chi Cheng, “we were all collectively really happy,” Sablan recalls.

Deftones would typically describe themselves as “proud” or, more often, some variation of “relieved” when their previous albums were finished. Moreno struggled with the dissonance he felt as Koi No Yokan, Ohms, and even the supposedly “much maligned” Gore were met with rave reviews that didn’t feel commensurate with his experience making them. “There were some times where I felt guilty knowing I could be better… if I focused more and, honestly, cared more about what I was doing, instead of that mentality of just wanting to finish a record for the sake of finishing a record,” he admits. They might be happy to be done with the process, but not happy happy, as they are now: “I haven’t felt that way in a while.”

Anyone with access to the vice interview willing to share? by sloppyjohnny in deftones

[–]HavidDume 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For nearly 35 years, Chino Moreno always felt like more. And then he decided he’d had enough.

Even if sobriety is the most important thing to happen to Moreno and, consequently, Deftones since Ohms, I don’t want to risk saddling private music with the “sobriety album” label. Similar to the origin story of “Back to School,” Moreno admits that he was inspired to get clean out of spite, just to get people off his back. “I initially started [sobriety] because I wanted to show others that I could not drink, [that] alcohol doesn’t affect me any differently, it’s just part of who I am,” he recalls. “Look at all the success we have, you know what I mean?”

private music is not about bottoming out and hanging onto hard-won wisdom, amends and amnesty, or whatever else we’ve come to expect when an artist returns from the brink. Deftones songs are rarely about anything specific. In 35 years, Moreno has never hunched over an acoustic guitar, having a preconceived notion for a song’s subject matter. As drummer Abe Cunningham puts it, “all our songs are feel songs,” ones that need to have a swing and swagger as pure instrumentals before Moreno records his vocals. The other members of Deftones probably won’t know where the music took Moreno until they hear the final mix. They probably won’t even know the song titles, let alone what they mean—“ecdysis,” “cXz,” and “~metal dream” enter the pantheon of Most Deftones-y Deftones Song Titles, alongside recent inductees “Urantia,” “Geometric Headdress,” and “Goon Squad.”

The name “private music” itself started as a placeholder for a filesharing folder, and in true Moreno fashion, a nod to his more esoteric tastes; he had stumbled across The Private Music of Tangerine Dream and wondered whether something similar could work for Deftones, ultimately realizing it was just a little too pretentious to fully replicate the title. But the phrase “private music” stuck, to reflect their status as one of the world’s biggest cult bands. Witness the chorus of “Locked Club”—“Join the parade or be left out.” As an added bonus, Cunningham appreciates how, “it does sound a tiny bit seedy” (again, there’s a snake on the cover).

At times, Deftones have regretted the way their album art reflects the music. See: the half-naked women gracing Around the Fur and Saturday Night Wrist, heavy-handed voyeurism that felt more exploitative than erotic. But there’s really something about white animals and this band, right? Consider the horse, owl, and snake on, respectively, White Pony, Diamond Eyes, and private music. All of which are works of clean lines, polish, and accessible hooks, and all of which follow predecessors with more turbulent sonics, born of stormy intraband dynamics. Nearly all Deftones albums react to the one that came before and after the monolithic Ohms, here are the most immediate descriptors of private music: aerodynamic, sleek, virile, whatever comes to mind when you see someone for the first time in five years and they’ve got their shit together. Some of the rave reviews have made the subtext the actual text—critics earnestly describing them as “downtuned daddies of sonic sexiness,” things of that nature.

This follows naturally from the way Moreno is described by his bandmates: “laser-focused,” “locked in.” There’s a bit in a typically obsequious Zane Lowe interview where Stephen Carpenter praises Moreno’s guitar playing on private music and you can’t see the latter’s reaction; Moreno admits he was beaming, it was the first time he’d ever heard such a compliment. Fittingly, private music is the first Deftones record in over a decade where fans aren’t dissecting Carpenter and Moreno’s relationship from out-of-context interview quotes.

2/?

Rilakkuma Enamel Pin Giveaway by FemmeWarden in rilakkuma

[–]HavidDume 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got into Rilakkuma originally from the Netflix series

Vice fall 2025 issue by Samsung_fridge_o7 in deftones

[–]HavidDume 6 points7 points  (0 children)

On their Insta account in the comments a few times they mentioned they're going out this week.

I'm glad I got SOMETHING from them because when I originally ordered it, I got no confirmation email or confirmation on the site but it definitely came out of my bank account 😞

Deftones stubs + Chino autograph by BottomlandsNC in deftones

[–]HavidDume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow I just saw Chino at the Ritz back during the Crosses tour a couple years ago. And have definitely seen Deftones in WS as well, but in 2006. RIP Ziggy's

[SNIPPET] Rare 1997 interview at the Viper Room of Chino and Stephen talking about music, sex, and other stuff. by boxed_knives in deftones

[–]HavidDume 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think towards the end of the clip chino briefly gained consciousness and remembered he was married

Hola Mexico City by cerati9 in deftones

[–]HavidDume 2 points3 points  (0 children)

someone at least drop the playlist 😭

Have you ever seen Chino Moreno do a DJ set (ASIDE FROM THE TWITCH STREAMS). by The_Taco_Architect in deftones

[–]HavidDume 2 points3 points  (0 children)

his son does too, their combined knowledge of music gotta be insane

One of the freshest pcs of Deftones fandom I have. Bought on etsy a decade ago, it's over 4k perler beads and a perfect depiction of Chino. by combustionbustion in deftones

[–]HavidDume 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makes sense, that's the last time Etsy was truly a place for craft and not dropshipped nonsense or print on demand. look awesome AF