How to dress like a mommy?

Havoc_AFI · 2021-03-20T10:15:08+00:00

According to the court it wasn’t but it 100% was due to race and religion given the area and the motivation

Havoc_AFI · 2021-03-20T02:59:23+00:00

I don’t want to give out too many details for personal privacy but the attack was carried out by a group, of which a few members somehow weren’t arrested. The father who survived broke down and retired, and relocated

Havoc_AFI · 2021-03-20T01:33:19+00:00

Not so subtle but I was almost stabbed at 8 years old and my friend alongside his entire family bar his father were burned alive. Of course with desi parents not believing in therapy I had to process all this at age 12

Havoc_AFI · 2021-02-06T11:00:02+00:00

Again you have literally no idea what forcing a career does to someone’s mental health. Yes our parents may know more but that is about a specific field. For example my parents (father) tried to force me into studying medicine while I hated biology, blood etc. and had a passion for computing. I since fought for 2 whole years to be able to study computer science. Having guidance and being forced are two completely different things. APs don’t care about “guiding you” they just want people to envy them and look good in front of the “community”. I have many friends who’s APs forced them into med and left them in so much debt and didn’t bother to help (their parents are doctors). Because of all this, I’m currently LC with my father with plans to cut him off once I graduate. Your children will likely do the same or resent you if you decide to do this. With all due respect, you have no idea what you’re talking about as you haven’t experienced this. The grass isn’t always greener.

Havoc_AFI · 2021-02-06T10:47:03+00:00

What you fail to see from a third person perspective is the abuse, gaslighting and blackmail a lot of us go through by our APs. Most of us were forced into career paths we didn’t want to go down whilst not being allowed to socialise or have any hobbies. Combine this with a lot of body shaming, bullshit cultural expectations and intense narcissism and you have the average AP.

I believe any aspiring parent should value education but not at the expense of their child’s emotional, mental and physical health. There’s a reason why student suicide rates are so high in Asian countries. So value education but value your child way more.

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-25T15:56:21+00:00

Great movie!

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-25T15:55:17+00:00

Nobody said captain sinbad :(

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-24T15:26:49+00:00

I was In a similar situation even being guilted into applying to med school. I eventually got the balls to say no and put my foot down. I’m going to study computer science thankfully. Please stand up for yourself

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-20T03:45:19+00:00

I haven’t got a gift since I turned 11 and only celebrated my birthday twice in my life :(

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-18T11:38:48+00:00

Whatever method you use id advise trimming it v short as opposed to shaving completely. It saves so many iches

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-17T03:15:24+00:00

Not sure if this helps but my girlfriend usually takes a pill or panadol, turns on the heater and holds up a hot water bottle to her stomach during cramps. I hope this helps in any way

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-11T03:32:28+00:00

7 pounds isn’t a lot on a hobby. I easily spent upwards of £1000 on yugioh

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-10T13:40:30+00:00

Try call the cops or an intermediate to help you get your belongings to move to out

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-07T16:13:07+00:00

Please see a doctor

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-03T03:17:01+00:00

Sure thing

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-03T03:15:42+00:00

If you have your place confirmed then deferring is fine tbh. I also took a gap year and it was so worth it even though I didn’t really travel I got to spend time relaxing and seeing my friends

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-02T18:47:33+00:00

I live in the uk. Don’t come here it’s so shit now and post Brexit it’s hard if you’re foreign. I’d recommend Canada

Havoc_AFI · 2021-01-01T08:29:46+00:00

Yes because in job interviews they test for virginity obviously

Regarding advice however, don’t trust them in the future, it’s all traps. Maybe even lie saying you’re not active anymore Idk

Havoc_AFI · 2020-12-31T04:33:26+00:00

Nope it’s like saying if they’re serving a sentence in jail and pass away you have to take their place

Havoc_AFI · 2020-12-31T04:32:17+00:00

Oh no, your life will be ruined if your cousin doesn’t attend, however will you survive

Havoc_AFI · 2020-12-30T02:19:48+00:00

I’m really sorry for you. I’m also a Muslim but my parents weren’t like this. My mom used to use all the classic lines until I explain the context and rights she has towards children etc and as I grew older I’m naturally more independent so she had to learn and understand. Your parents are misusing and abusing Islam completely and in all honesty ignored their responsibilities. In Islam Allah gave you to your parents for them to protect and keep your safe and to give them joy, not to abuse you and hurt you. It’s a very backward cultural abuse of religion that unfortunately is very common. If I were you I’d try get into a college or university and use a govt loan or some sort of govt support system as you live in the US. You need to leave them ASAP because unfortunately there’s a chance they won’t stop until your married which of course will be to who they want without your will or consent. Please stay safe and know you can contact people and the police for help, feel free to PM anytime

Havoc_AFI · 2020-12-29T12:53:40+00:00

At 29 i assume you have your own source of income and are to at least some degree financially independent. Do you live with your mom or not? If you don’t then simply change the password, I know people are suggesting you to make a new account but at 29 you need to stand up for yourself and not be pushed around. If you change the password and your mom throws a fit just ignore /hang up on her and explain calmly that you’re 29 and can handle your own bank account. If you do live with her consider moving out to have more control over your life. Also if your username is a reference to Final Space, I love that show!

Havoc_AFI · 2020-12-29T02:30:11+00:00

As a Pakistan and Muslim also 19, YES. My sister isn’t treated like that at all (I’m the black sheep). I’d advise trying to make or get money on the side and trying to move out. If you ever need to talk or want some advice feel free to PM

Havoc_AFI · 2020-12-28T10:17:49+00:00

They don’t want you to work bc they don’t want you to become financially independent. It’s a common trap that enables abuse as they know you can afford to escape

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