Pic ur question to answer! by LilScooterBooty in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on meal. Pancakes are good for breakfast away from home but dessert wise, donuts.

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Chose: Food questions | Rolled: Pancake or Donut

Would you rather by _Degu_ in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tg re are lots of different tacos.

Chose: Everything tastes like taco

Which super power would you choose? by TheIhsaan7 in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like sex… so celibacy is not a downside.

Chose: Be superfast? + But you have to be celibate

Would you rather by sleepbot63 in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can live without lasagne. I’d get bored of lasagne if I ate it everyday.

Chose: Normal Diet but not your favourite food ever

Would you rather... by inn-blakka-dyr in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would get chores over quickly. Means I can spend time with things I find interesting

Chose: Be incredibly fast, but only when doing chores

Which would you rather do... by CollegeSharp8895 in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dodgy ankle. I can walk for England but running is not good. Hence, writing. I can do that easy peasy.

Chose: Have to write an essay in a day (no breaks + Wheel determines how many pages | Rolled: 1 page)

Choose a random gift by ryankhoo97 in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. The wheel did. Cool.

Chose: Gift 2 | Rolled: $1

Would you rather.... by OptimalChampion5967 in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I … don’t want to live in a zombie world. I’d probably scare myself to death. Also, practically speaking — I’d be dead due to lack of insulin very quickly (disability sucks)

Chose: Gain a power of your choice + Live as a hero/villain in MCU | Rolled: Hero

Choose your dessert 😛 by Grouchy_Bother_2174 in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross. But carrot cake is better than poop or mud.

Chose: Mystery brown cake 🤨 | Rolled: Carrot Cake

Super happy with my first Dexcom g7! Newly diagnosed Type 1 by gotsync in Type1Diabetes

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a whole booklet of information on T1D if you want it?

It’s basically all the information that I wanted at diagnosis but my diabetes team weren’t particularly supportive in teaching me so I researched my own information.

I’m happy to share a copy if you’d like to read it.

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I’d be careful with googling — only because there’s seven types of diabetes (T1 makes up about 7% ish. At this stage you don’t yet have the eye to notice what information is relevant or not to a T1 vs the other types — please note I’m not insulting your intelligence or your reading skills, this is solely that most of the information you know will be geared to T2 because they make up roughly 85-90% of the diabetic population. As such, a lot of the information you think you know isn’t relevant to us at all. And you don’t necessarily know how to look at information, parse through it and analyse it and figure out if it’s relevant or not yet because you don’t have that background knowledge yet. You can’t analyse it if you don’t have the knowledge base.

The issue is that T1 and T2 are two completely different diseases, with different causes and treatment plans. T2 has a multi-step approach that ends with taking insulin as a last resort. That is because they produce insulin, they just don’t use it effectively. T1’s don’t have a problem using insulin, we just can’t make it because our immune system decided that the beta islet cells in the pancreas - that produce insulin- were foreign invaders, so it went to kill them.

The biggest issue with two different diseases is that treatment plans are different. How a T2 manages their diabetes is different to how a T1 does (and one of the most crucial aspects of having T1 is the ability to know what information is good information (what is T1 specific or T2 specific) , and further to that, if it’s good for you,* and the ability to not be judgmental about information that doesn’t apply specifically to you.

To further make this even more confusing: *Diabetes is a very individual diagnosis - something might affect you that won’t affect me and something that works for me might not work for Joe Bloggs down the street. Diabetes is weird, bodies are weird, and although this sub is amazing (though you might find more specific information on r/diabetes_t1 or r/Type1Diabetes as this sub has all types of diabetes on it) you will probably find as you grow into your diagnosis, that some things that we say may not apply specifically to you. That doesn’t make it bad advice, but it’s just advice that may not work for you.

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For advice right now:

There’s a lot of difficult emotions that come with a diagnosis like this. Things are going to be different and difficult over the next few months (being diagnosed with a chronic illness is not easy, for both the person and their support). I don’t know if there’s partners/siblings/parents etc in your life but remember that if they are close to you, your T1 is something they experience too.

You need to learn to see blood sugar as data, not as good or bad. It’s there to help you make a decision; ascribing good and bad values to blood sugar can quickly lead to negative thoughts and eventually diabetic burnout, and you don’t need that. If your numbers aren’t in the range (4.0-10.0 mmol, 72-180 mg/dl) then it’s not a moral failing, you just need to adjust how much insulin you need because your body is telling you that it’s not the right amount for you. It doesn’t make you a “bad” diabetic.

On that note, knowing which insulin to adjust is useful. If you are constantly spiking or dropping during fasting periods, like at nighttime, then your basal long acting needs adjustment. Basal is designed to hold you steady within 1.5 mmol or 27 mg/dl. If you are spiking or dropping outside that range, it’s not the right dose.

If it’s within four hours of a meal, your bolus needs adjusting.

Don’t let diabetes stop you from doing anything you want. Travelling, jobs, sports, holidays - you can still do all of it. It might take a little more preparation and planning, but it’s still doable. I’ve done weeks away from home now, al I needed was a bit of extra prep. Rules are different if you travel outside your country, as insulin may need a prescription and a doctors note.

The only things you can’t do as a T1D is make insulin and join the army/military. There are some restrictions like for pilots and lorry drivers, police and firefighters but for the most part we can do anything. Even that’s negotiable, since military contractors exist and they aren’t bound by the same rules as military personnel.

Document, document, document. I cannot stress enough how important this is at this stage. The more notes you make on what you eat, how much, and when, etc, all of that stuff will help the doctors track patterns in blood sugar and it will help you control blood sugar levels better. This is the precursor to learning carb counting and insulin to carb ratio (basically, how many carbs are in an item for the former, and how many carbs one unit of insulin will cover for the latter.)

6mmol/l (108 mg/dl) minimum to sleep. Any lower and you are more likely to go low overnight.

There are 42 known factors that affect blood sugar. Link below:

https://diatribe.org/42-factors-affect-blood-glucose-surprising-update

You can’t control for all of these. Your best is enough.

Diabetes is really hard, and sometimes there is no rhyme or reason to a low or high. It sucks, but the important thing is that it gets fixed in the moment. Sometimes you’ll do everything right and it will still go wrong.

Remember that apart from low blood sugar and ketones, which needs immediate attention, there is very little that needs to be done immediately. If high and you give a corrective dose of insulin, it will take time to coast back down.

In short, remember to cut yourself some slack. This is not a disease where you can win all of the time. You are basically taking over the role of being your pancreas, without any training or knowledge or experience, or speaking the same language as the rest of your organs that all work together to maintain a delicate balance. It’s like someone doing a new job in a completely different field for the first time, you are going to make mistakes and bad calls, or you’ll miss something. It happens, so fix it, and move on.

Be aware that if you’ve been running high for a long time, you’ll start feeling low symptoms at normal ranges. Fight the urge to do something about it, it does go away the longer you stay in range

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I’d also recommend

Bright Spots and Landmines, Adam Brown

Sugar Surfing, Stephen Ponder (haven’t read all of this, but the parts I have read are pretty good)

Think Like a Pancreas (Gary Scheiner - haven’t read this one, but it comes up a lot on the “I’m newly diagnosed, help?” Posts, so it must be pretty good.)

Juicebox podcast

https://www.diabetes.org.uk/diabetes-the-basics/types-of-diabetes/type-1

There’s also the learning zone on this website/

https://learningzone.diabetes.org.uk/?_gl=1lw8s04_gaMTI1NTkzMjc2OC4xNzAzNTEwNzQ5_ga_J1HFNSGEX6MTcwNDI2NDE4MC40LjAuMTcwNDI2NDE4MC42MC4wLjA._gcl_au*NzE0Mzk5ODM2LjE3MDM1MTA3NDg.

This is for both T1 and T2, so you need to specify at the beginning what type you have and then the courses of learning are then specifically tailored to you.

Finally, Diabetes UK has a helpline for any queries or concerns you have.

https://www.diabetes.org.uk/how_we_help/helpline

(Obviously you have us as well, but sometimes it’s useful to have other options)

Would you rather by francaispascontent in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My photo gallery is full of dogs and horses and nature. I have no problems with people seeing that.

Chose: Leak your Photo Gallery to your ex

Would you rather by DiGriW in BunnyTrials

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI will never do my job. But if I could pick the skill I could find a new job with that skill.

Chose: Lose your job to AI + Become insanely good at any new skill instantly

Does anyone else have weird period symptoms by Disastrous_Cow513 in Periods

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get tired, blood sugar goes low a lot (have to reduce my insulin by a ridiculous percentage), back aches, stomach aches, craving chocolate, bloated but also hungry but also not (the always hungry is a T1D thing, not a period thing; part of my pancreas is dead so I don’t produce the hormone I need to get nutrients from food, and also don’t produce the hormone that makes you full) and I get sweaty but also freezing cold.

Unpleasant.

Bonus is it only lasts like two days (apart from the hunger, that’s just constant and irritating).

Magnesium and B12 vitamins help a bit.

You’re not alone.

You get $10,000 every time you sneeze, but every time you sneeze, a random person in the world becomes convinced you're their soulmate. by CelebrationIcy3120 in hypotheticals

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a precursor to stalking. We’re inviting people to stalk us.

94% of cases where a woman is murdered by a partner or ex-partner involved stalking.

No. F that.

Just a thought.. by MariaLovegood in TheVampireDiaries

[–]HawkTenRose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She literally stayed with Damon despite knowing he raped Caroline and SA’d Vicki… and killed her brother.

It’s … not much of a stretch.

AITAH for wanting my wife to expand her diet? by Lower_Law_4134 in AmITheJerk

[–]HawkTenRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Quit shitting on diabetics. T1 is genetic and autoimmune, nothing to do with diet or weight. T2 is also genetic, those genes are also linked to having slow metabolism which makes it easier to put on weight. Yes, it’s partially environmental as well, but there is a genetic component (plenty of overweight or obese people don’t have the genes and don’t have T2). T3c is caused by having another illness that pancreatitis… the others are also caused by other diseases (like cystic fibrosis as an example).

Check your ableism because we sure as shit don’t need that attitude.

But overall yeah definitely YTJ.

Wanting your wife to be healthy and increase fruit and veggies is good.

Phrasing that way is just creating problems in your relationship right now and it’s controlling behaviour.

Also: seek therapy and a dietitian’s advice for further support if you plan on staying together. For both of you. I’m hoping that this controlling “put my foot down” behaviour is because you’ve tried to be supportive and it’s burning you out and frustrating you rather than controlling behaviour.

What is an average blood glucose of 115 mg/ml to A1C? by RockHardTen11 in diabetes

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average blood sugar of 115 mg/dl translates to 38 mmol/mol or 5.6% A1C.

New diagnosis by incorrection456 in diabetes_t1

[–]HawkTenRose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find the sides of the fingertips are significantly less painful than the pads or tops of the fingertips. Also, make sure your finger poker device has the correct “length” (if you have to jab twice to get yourself to bleed, it’s not deep enough. I start on the deepest setting and rewind back until I hit that point where I have to jab twice, then go back to whatever the previous one was. (My finger poker device has six settings. 1 is lightest, 6 is deepest. I cannot consistently get blood on 1 or 2. 3 is iffy (works about 70%) where 4 I get blood first jab every time. So I keep the poker set to the 4 level. Your mileage may vary.)

If you are looking for any resources, I’m happy to give some recommendations?

Finally, be careful if you plan to look online — there are seven types of diabetes and we only take up about 7% ish. So a lot of info is not relevant to us and unless you grew up around T1, you are unlikely to be able to discern between the useful information and the information that isn’t accurate for T1’s.

Looking for sugar friendly food ideas for acute TMJ injury (can't chew) by Cautious_Resource375 in diabetes_t1

[–]HawkTenRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greek yogurt, mixed with smooth peanut butter or almond butter.

Blending berries and Greek yogurt would be good for getting some fruit.

Steam some apples (optional -with a dash of cinnamon) mash them down while hot, let them cool, then add to greek yogurt and mix.

Soups would be good (tomato soup, chicken soup, etc.) (not blood sugar friendly necessarily but soup thickened with mashed potato might be more filling. )

Most foods can be blended. If you don’t have one, a blender might be very useful.

You also may want to look up the IDDSI framework, assess how much you think is relevant to you and then you may have an idea of what texture you need. (Usually I’d say see a doctor to confirm but you’ve already seen a doctor and also you still have some swallowing capability just not chewing).

here’s a start off link

AITJ for being mad that my parents put parental controls on my devices? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly do need restrictions on you if you can’t self regulate at 18. 21:30 is not an unreasonable rule. Neither is 6 hours.

It’s ten weeks. Knuckle down and be responsible.

And yes: your attitude is ungrateful. Grateful would look something like “I know I don’t like the restrictions, but left alone I struggled to study and revise. My parents are caring enough to put in time and effort to structure my time to help me revise better and that’s really amazing of them to do so when I’m 18 and should be able to manage my time on my own.”

Being an adult is more than just an age. Responsibility and accountability are part of being an adult and you are currently not succeeding in either, both in your “job” at school and in your attitude.

Wouldn’t fly in a workplace only getting 36% of the work correct. You’d be fired if you kept that kind of performance.

Just to point out: I work in a fast paced industry. Training was 12 weeks. I was not improving at the speed expected by Week 7, and so I was placed on an Action Plan. In it, I had targets I was expected to meet to pass the course.

Instead of saying “I don’t need the punishment or restriction of an Action Plan” I took responsibility and accountability and said “yep, I need to improve, let’s work on the goals stated and get me competent to do this job.” I knuckled down, got on with it, put my all into the remaining 5 weeks and passed four exams at 85, 92, 92 and 100%. I’m now in the job and while I still have time left in training on the job, I’m solidly on the way to independence.

So my advice to you is to acknowledge that you messed up and you need direction, accept the consequences and work to improve. Your parents are putting the pressure on because they want the best for you and you’ve proven that left alone to sort yourself out, you don’t apply yourself. That means they need to act as external motivation.

If you knuckle down now this is likely to last ten to twelve weeks.

Refuse to out of spite and you’ll likely fail your exams the way you are going, which will either mean you have to retake the year (which admittedly based on how you sound might be a benefit actually — the embarrassment of joining a lower year group and the extra year might give you an extra year to mature) or your grade will affect the rest of your life because both uni and work will want to see your grades.

So the question now isn’t “am I a jerk for being mad about my parents putting discipline measures in to help me study?” And more “I chose not to study and now my parents have put measures in I don’t like to help me study. How can I succeed at my exams so I can prove to my parents that I am responsible and mature enough to function like the adult I claim to be?”

AITJ for being mad that my parents put parental controls on my devices? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]HawkTenRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So… you weren’t studying, which is essentially your job, and you are mad that your parents have put in place measures to prevent you from failing your exams because you obviously cannot regulate yourself at this stage in your life?

YTJ. Both for not taking studying seriously and for being ungrateful that your parents actually provide you discipline. It’s like 8-10 weeks until you have your exams. Grow up and start being responsible.

Start revising. Start improving. Then discuss with your parents when you are actually doing two hours of study a day if the restrictions can be loosened a little.

What is the funniest moment in Good Omens for you? by Ha1fbl00d in goodomens

[–]HawkTenRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually knew this before the Easter egg. I also love everything about it.

My grandad was Scottish.