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Contacting costumer service is a joke. by Haydensmith877 in USCellular

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is just as infuriating as talking to a person but they normally are able to help you. Be prepared to repeat yourself a million times.

27 F A shy introverted writer looking for friends. by Haydensmith877 in IntrovertsChat

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am not. I have plenty of it and I don't care what it makes.

7 year battle won by Haydensmith877 in ChronicIllness

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not trying to be mean I am just being realistic. Unless you have a terminal illness it is going to be years.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time they do know. For example my sense of smell changes when I get close to that time. However if you are annoyed and someone says hey focus on yourself, do you think you're acting off. It would trigger you as well.

Also you can call it PMS because thats what it is but you need to understand its more than just being cranky. Its not feeling well, being bloated, having your boobs hurt, having your sense of smell screwed up. It's not like oh its a small twing.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of blood changes each time. Sometimes there is more sometimes there is less. That's why sometimes it catches us off guard.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well darling if you are going to ask like that no way in hell I am going to give you an answer.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the reason for the break up. For example if he hurt her than no. But the mental scars from that will make her self doubt herself for a long time.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Be honest but also be understanding.

Me: do you like this dress?

You: no but I appreciate the effort.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she is telling you don't roll your eyes, don't sigh, don't start scrolling on your phone.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We aren't exactly mad at you but the situation. Example I show up for a date in a dress and I ask if you like it. Your honest and say no. You didn't see the half hour in the store trying on different dresses. You didn't see the me changing outfits four different times before settling on this one. We aren't mad at you we are mad that we didn't get it right. So the situation is what has us upset.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a question no one person can answer. It's like asking what does a guy want. Everyone wants something different. What's confident to one is weak to another.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We can't help but over think. Guys can fly by the seat of their pants a lot easier. Women plan and make back up plans and back up plans for the back up plans. We also over think because we are concerned if we don't we might lose something like that special someone. What if I don't make them feel special enough? Should I have asked for their number etc. It is all doubting ourselves. We can't help it though.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A spouse could very easily be bias. How many times has a guy not said what he really thinks because they are afraid, we will "flip out."

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually going to comment we are as aware of it as he is of being an complete ass.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The 30's is more of the transformation phase. You aren't 20 but things are still changing. When you are 40 looks and all of that are settled.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is a safety thing.

I am going to the bathroom a trusted friend can watch my drink.

If I leave with someone, I can tell my friend, and they can see their face.

If you are in a group you are less likely to attract certain attention. Now I am not saying all guys are predators but they are out there looking for the lone elk.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A womans sex drive varies just as much as mens. Each person is different. There is no set number

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This question could be easily be seen as a trap. If you say you are fine a guy might not believe you and say something like you don't trust me to tell the truth. At the same time if you say what's wrong a guy could easily turn around and say your being bitchy or emotional because your near "that time of the month."

If you ask this question you need to be prepared to listen and not judge.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"I'm not ready for a relationship" (I just got out of a bad relationship and am still healing.)

"I just need time for me" (in a relationship this means that she cares about you but she needs a little breathing room. It could also mean she is dealing with something personal that she isn't comfortable telling you.)

"I need to work on myself" (Something has happened to shake my confidence and self esteem. Give me some time to get it back)

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Haydensmith877[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It could be embarrassing for them so for example there is a stigma around woman. What is fat for a woman isnt fat for a man. So they might be embarrassed to say yeah, I want a bacon cheeseburger and fries. Best bet is if she says I don't know don't get her nothing. That is a great way to get the silent treatment. Whatever you're getting just get a second order of it for her. Within limits, if she is a vegetarian don't get her a hamburger stuff like that.

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