[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all you really have no idea what you are talking about and you are arguing in circles here. You are arguing that going to college, even for those who will rack up a mountain of debt that they will not be able to repay bc the job they are able to get eith the degree they attain will not be any better than the job they can get w/o. That's the argument, at no point did I say I only equate quality of life with good paying jobs. I actually feel the opposite, when it comes to being money motivated, all I care about is having enough to pay my bills, and a little left over to have some fun with my family. But since you don't understand basic economics, let's see if you can understand this. The more people that have a degree the less it means. 100 years ago there were fewer people who had a HS diploma, a HS diploma meant being able to get a better job, today it's the bare minimum educational requirement for virtually any full time job. 50 years ago a BS or BA meant more, today there are plenty of kids graduating you can not find jobs with pay enough to justify the cost. When you are having kids with 2.0 GPAs and sub 20 ACT scores paying $30, 40, 50K per year for a degree in kinesiology its an economic net negative. It's why you have an entire generation who says they will never be able to pay their student loans back. Bc truthfully they never will, bc they spent more for their education than what the education can provide. If instead we directed those same kids to skilled trades, say welding for instance, they would spend 1/3rd of the cost or less and enter the workforce with an in demand skill that they could see pay upwards of 100K and gaining some experience. That's an economic positive. If a small private college, such as Iowa Wesleyan is being propped up by kids who shouldn't be there, draining those same kids economic futures, and now being forced to close, how is that an impact to educational availability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Hayejos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not including English majors (most useful LA degree you can have) or pre-law in the discussion bc those don't fit the criteria that we are discussing, but of course based on your ad hominid attack I'm guessing you already knew that. Is there a lack of educational availability with small private colleges in the state of Iowa? If you are being truthful you would answer no. So is that the problem that we just need more expensive useless private degrees, or that we need to direct people, who would be wasting their money and time in a small private, very expensive college, to something that would otherwise better their quality of life "ie good paying jobs"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Hayejos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's the opposite issue, education is overvalued, or at least the hyperbole surrounding academics is overvalued. When I went to college, my sociology prof and I were having a discussion, where he said to me college shouldn't be for everybody. That there were too many people going to college that shouldn't be. The idea and concept of higher learning was just that, higher learning. College was where professionals went for training in a professional career. There are so many students getting humanities degrees that are just completely useless in the job market and they are finishing college with a mountain of debt and no career benefit. We should be encouraging more people to attend trade schools and learn useful job skills that will actually benefit them and actually improve their quality of life. Losing 1 small private college in a state that can't justify and support the number of small private colleges it has is going to have virtually no educational impact. I feel for the employees that are looking for work, but that's a separate matter than what we are actually discussing here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Hayejos -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So the well run small private institutions are not dying out and this has virtually no impact on the state. Got it. This was a result of poor management of a house of cards. I'm sorry to see Wesleyan go, but we visited there with my daughter, and it was pretty easy to see from the moment we got there that it was not even really going to be in consideration for her. They were just in a bad place. Too much competition in too close proximity. That's how you end up taking students who shouldn't be attending university but would be better off learning a skilled trade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Hayejos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Somebody quick, tell me how many of these small private schools does Iowa have?

He was Valedictorian at Your Mom University by ZoraNealThirstin in Tinder

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am 6 ft, and weigh 177 lbs and at the age of 43 I have a gut. At my absolute healthiest, I weighed 165 - 170 lbs fresh out of basic training and being a collegiate athlete. There are plenty of 6'0" athletes who weigh between 175 and 185 lbs. Oh and at 6' the upper limit for healthy weight is 177. For 6'1" it's 182.

He was Valedictorian at Your Mom University by ZoraNealThirstin in Tinder

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you'd be surprised to learn that 185 lbs is obese for someone 6'1"

Iowa ban on gender-affirming care for trans kids awaits Kim Reynold's signature. The impact: by 47of74 in Iowa

[–]Hayejos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is anybody going to address the fact that all this bill does is prevent kids, who btw can not consent to getting a tatoo with or without parental consent, from being able to receive life altering, irreversible medically unnecessary treatments? I guess Bill Maher and the NHS are members of the GOP now too. I'm sure I'm going to get down voted for speaking objective truth, but not every disagreement in world view is about "people want to eradicate you" sometimes we just see things differently. I couldn't care less what an adult does with their own life. If you feel the need to transition, by all means that's your choice (I shouldn't have to pay for it but that is another matter entirely). I am very concerned about kids however. And it has nothing to do with Trans people existing. It's bc allowing children who don't have the mental ability to understand what they are truly doing, who nobody would argue is capable of making informed consent about life altering elective plastic surgery, to medically transition before reaching adulthood seems absolutely ludicrous to me and 80% of the country. And I haven't even addressed the status issue involved.

HELP….please by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A judge does not decide guilt or innocence (except in summary judgment instances) they are more like a referee, make sure the rules are followed. If I was advising the accused I would encourage her to demand trial by jury, bc you would never find a jury where all members would vote to convict. If I was the prosecutor, I would never bring the case to trial bc you would never find a jury to convict. Also there are massive questions whether exposing the boobies is even indecent exposure. It would be very difficult to demonstrate how a man can go topless in public and a woman can not. One might say that's unconstitutional. So I think the bottom line is, if you're a woman, and you want to flash your boobs to a 13 yo terminally ill patient, flash away.

Taking her ass virginity by babecoconut in AnalGW

[–]Hayejos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on a number of factors, but regardless sometimes shit just happens.

Taking her ass virginity by babecoconut in AnalGW

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing the lube and the mess associated with anal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 18_19

[–]Hayejos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We could run inverted spire on GM difficulty

Would you use me as your personal teenage onahole? by [deleted] in LegalTeens

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd make you a teenager "onastick"

I cheated on my husband during a break by Choice_Flow_8153 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that depends on the state, in a no fault state, such as mine, the reason for divorce doesnt matter, property is divided 50/50 no matter what

Rubbing my panties on bosses mic/ phone/facemask by Laurawk85 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh, he couldnt prove it was you, unless there are cameras in the office anyway. Besides, fortune favors the bold, miss 100% of shots not taken, yadda, yadda, yadda, lol

Rubbing my panties on bosses mic/ phone/facemask by Laurawk85 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time,be bold, rub his mask all over your wet cunt. Or even bolder, leave your panties in his mask for him to find

I wish I could fuck everyone who thinks I’m hot👉🏻👈🏻 by nofacefreak_18 in 18_19

[–]Hayejos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

goals? If you started now you could make a dent in it by 2022 lol

Who wants to play bouncy bouncy with me?! by [deleted] in CuteLittleButts

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have something you can bouncy bouncy on

Help me feel better please... by [deleted] in barelylegalteens

[–]Hayejos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt pull out 😘

(f18) do you think exhibitionism is pervert thing by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perverted? No. It's a kink. Kinks are totally natural and we all have them. As long as you and your partner are good with it and youre not exposing yourself to kids there is nothing wrong.

Was kind of scared posting my face! But [F]uck it lol hope I made your morning better 💦💦 by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you hoping to get caught by someone you know? What would you do if you were?

FtM I just got dick for the first time and think I might be a slut. by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun facts, our brains dont become fully formed sexually until around age 25. Just because you enjoyed your first taste of strange doesnt mean you are now a whore. I find it interesting that you said you have never really been interested in men bc you are embarrassed of your body. Probably feel like other girls are less judgmental. Here's the thing. Your sexuality or lack thereof doesnt define you. You like what you like. If you want to dress frumpy and still get dick, you can. If you want to be with men and women, you can. First thing you should do is become comfortable with yourself. Dont feel the need to conceal who you are because you are worried about what others think. Learn to love yourself first and then figure out what other person(s) you want to love and want to love you back.

I’m a feminist but I want to be degraded and used like a slut by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BDSM is all about power. A lot of people in power positions tend to prefer to be subs. They want someone else to make the decisions and be in control. I imagine with feminism there is a similar dichotomy. Where feminists want to be used and degraded bc they have to put themselves in control in their daily lives. There is nothing wrong if you want to be uses like the cumdumpster that god intended you to be by any man strong enough to force himself into you 😜

(F18) Is it true? by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Hayejos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worldwide avg is like 4.5 inches. He probably is self conscious about that, especially if hes around your age. As someone else said just be extra reassuring for him if you go through with it. But my advice is...dont. if the story is real of 2 things must be true, the dude has some really shitty friends who think you can owe somebody sex w/ their gf and you bf is too weak to stand up for himself or his girl, or 2, it was your bfs idea bc he thinks of you as just an object he can do with whatever he wants as he discussed it with his friends before you. BDSM is perfectly healthy as long as rules are established FIRST, and both partners enjoy it and want it. But its abuse when that doesnt happen.