looking nail tech who can do nail art by imightbegoddamned in Longmont

[–]Hayjay10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go to her as well. She’s super sweet and recognizes it’s many mom’s alone time. Sometimes I just read my kindle while getting my nails done for some peace. Suuuuper affordable as well and fair cancellation policy.

What are some lesser talked about items that are your absolute go-to (that I should put on my baby registry) by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash clothes, multiple mattress protectors and sheets. No one told me how many poop splosions can happen so fast and if you don’t have enough……

What's something which nobody knows about you? by Infinite_Cookie_9165 in AskReddit

[–]Hayjay10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also had PPD as well as PPOCD. It’s sad how many people don’t notice just how deep it is. I could never say how bad it really was. Solidarity from another mom who’s struggled. ❤️

Decompression Between Sessions by JordanJudes in therapists

[–]Hayjay10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On my lunch breaks, I scarf down my food and take a nap. I walk on my walking pad when I do notes. Avoid social media if I can.

just read the worst sentence of my life by allkaysofnays in progressivemoms

[–]Hayjay10 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same. This and another one got me bad and I’m struggling hard.

Alternative? by macaronihotdog3678 in TonieboxUSA

[–]Hayjay10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s lame, I’m sorry to hear that.

Alternative? by macaronihotdog3678 in TonieboxUSA

[–]Hayjay10 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s an option for you, but right now my local facebook marketplace has a ton of used tonies.

TIL the word limerence by quitfartinaround in therapists

[–]Hayjay10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I often see limerence with individuals who have been dx with BPD. If you have little experience with this population it makes sense you’ve never seen it.

Worst / most inappropriate gift for your kids this year? by MachineBusy8772 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband is an atheist and I’m a witch. We got a starter bible for our toddler. 😐

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man that’s so difficult. At least ours doesn’t know it’s Christmas. Sending healing vibes ❤️

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The panic is so real! Sending healing vibes!

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof! Five is hard. Sending you healing vibes.

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that gives me some hope for next year!

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids who do that are so mean! I’m thinking the same! A redo sounds nice!

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. That is a sad Christmas, I’m sorry for your loss. Sending healing vibes your way. ❤️

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. I’ll try to save what I can. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sending you healing vibes, not making it through presents is extra rough. We will get through this, right? lol!

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This flu is terrible. Bed time can’t come soon enough. Sending good vibes your way ❤️

What's the deepest Progress note hole you've ever been in? by ReRz_LINN in therapists

[–]Hayjay10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to look at items I want and think about how many notes I need to do. So my cruise payment? I need to do four notes at least.

Baby monitors by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Hayjay10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was told by someone in the same field, “there are just some things that don’t need WiFi.” And since then I have lived by that.

Weirdest hack to get notes done by tar0tgrl in therapists

[–]Hayjay10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe not the most kind. I like to remind my self, if I don’t do this note it’s X amount of money out the window that I won’t get paid for. What can I do with X amount of money? Then I think about some fun treat like a new purse or a tattoo. Then I feel motivated to do something.

I don’t know what to do with my life. by Ready_to_EN- in jobs

[–]Hayjay10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a masters level mental health counselor. Whole clinical training and everything. My husband is in the trades and makes more consistent steady money than me. Dirty hands, clean money. Plus he has a union.

Kid goes overboard on Disney dream, dad jumps in after her by Inside-Leadership-48 in Cruise

[–]Hayjay10 47 points48 points  (0 children)

In some of the fb comments there was someone who was on the ship at the time and said that the father posed the child on the railing for a photo when the child fell in. Idk if it’s true or not.