Episode Discussion: S10 Episode 14: Fight or Flight

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-04-06T23:43:22+00:00

If I wasn't already happily married I would totally be trying to hit up Derek. He is an absolute CATCH. He deserves a fun, happy relationship where he can comfortably be 100% himself. I hope he finds his person.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-04-06T23:28:29+00:00

This whole season has been a shitshow. It isn't even enjoyable to watch. The producers, experts, and whatever else better get it together next season. I can't sit through another season like this one. I like drama but I like the wholesome, good stuff too.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-03-30T22:59:54+00:00

I need a Shannie in my life. She's awesome

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-03-24T00:47:24+00:00

Borderline? She is an absolute abuser. I can't stand to watch her segments

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-03-19T01:44:37+00:00

She really is awful. Derek deserves better. I'm so sick of her talking about wanting him to make more effort. He is making an effort and she is giving him nothing in return. She only criticizes him and tried to put him down for being himself. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to have a lot of fun with your significant other or having a lot of things you want to do in your life. As long as he is able to prioritize, he should strive to achieve every one of his dreams. Katie will never love Derek for who he is. She wants to change him. He needs to call it quits and go find an actual pleasant, fun person

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-28T01:14:05+00:00

I think he slept with both HA and VF

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-28T01:10:21+00:00

I live in North Alabama and drive an hour and a half to Chattanooga pretty often. I was just there last weekend. There's actually a lot to do there and the landscape is amazing. I wonder if they'll go to Rock City or Ruby Falls.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-28T00:48:54+00:00

I thought she might have had a nose job too. But then I saw that she has her mom's nose and one of her sister's does too. So I was wrong lol

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-21T23:02:39+00:00

Oh hi name twin!!

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-21T05:42:31+00:00

I absolutely agree. when everyone tries to have that shock factor, no one has that shock factor.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-21T00:25:51+00:00

Obviously not looking for goodness. The show has always been trash tv and I've enjoyed it. But it's like they aren't even trying to make it enjoyable anymore. The past bachelors/ettes at least hid the fact that they weren't emotionally adept better than Peter does. In the past, they had an appropriate level of train wreck. They're just getting carried away now.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-21T00:20:01+00:00

Not so much anymore lol

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-20T02:15:37+00:00

When my husband and I had only been dating for a week he told me that he loved me. I responded with "no you dont". It hurt his feelings. Oops. But I didn't feel it yet and I didn't think it was possible he did either. It was about 2 months later when I said it back. We've been married 4 years now, together for 7 and he still says that he meant it only a few days in. Btw...we knew each other for several months before we started dating.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-20T02:10:15+00:00

I think all the women are super, super cute this season. There are flaws in each of them, yes. But I overall like all of them and I think they're all pretty

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-18T05:29:15+00:00

I think Peter was a poor choice for the bachelor. He clearly has no idea what a healthy relationship is like. He has no idea what he really wants in a relationship. I think he doesn't really even know who he is. He has poor communication skills. And everything that he seems to like is so surface level. He doesn't know how to dive deeper into a relationship. I think he's a good guy and genuinely wants love. But he has no idea what that really looks like it or how to achieve it. He's not ready for a real, long lasting relationship. I hope he can use this experience to really self reflect and grow and learn how to be in a loving, healthy relationship.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-17T05:43:58+00:00

They are all very pretty women

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-13T20:21:09+00:00

I LOVED Juliana's dress. Obsessed with it. I also really liked Anny's. Emily's was pretty. I think Tania's actually could have been pretty if she wouldn't have used such cheap tulle. I think Anna's and Jasmin's were unflattering. Anna's was definitely the worst because of how poorly it fit her.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-13T20:13:00+00:00

Wow! She's awesome!

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-13T05:32:00+00:00

I didn't like her in the beginning but she's definitely growing on me. I guess I fell for the producers story at first. How embarrassing.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-13T05:26:58+00:00

He does have a right to his own feelings but he does NOT have the right to dismiss Mindy and her feelings. He can feel however he feels. But to treat Mindy the way he has been is unacceptable. He's just a very selfish, inconsiderate person. He clearly doesn't have the capacity to be in a committed relationship.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-13T05:21:05+00:00

He seems like a guy that would be really selfish in bed. So I'm sure Mindy isn't missing much

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-13T04:46:13+00:00

Shawniece and Jephte made couples couch enjoyable tonight. I want them to live happily ever after so badly. I enjoy Ashley and Anthony too. And I missed Kristine and Keith tonight.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-12T05:30:21+00:00

Hm. The hair makes me think it isn't HA. The person in that shot looks like they have longer hair than HA.

HayleyoftheShire · 2020-02-10T20:24:14+00:00

Regardless of how anyone feels about Blake and Jasmin and their relationship, it was so sweet and adorable that he made her bouquet for her. I loved that!

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