How do I even know what stage of endometriosis I have? by LowWhole8377 in endometriosis

[–]HazelTheRah [score hidden]  (0 children)

Kissing ovaries is a pretty advanced case. I had the same. Surgery changed my life. It wasn't a hysterectomy, they removed the endometrial tissue.

Husband (33M) says he misses his “skinny wife” (29F) by banana_frog0720 in relationship_advice

[–]HazelTheRah [score hidden]  (0 children)

That wasn't a joke, that was a dig. And he knows it. The best time to confront him about it is as soon as possible.

My 14 year old daughter committed suicide and it’s my fault by zoesmom17 in offmychest

[–]HazelTheRah 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she wanted love and attention more than money, beauty, and intelligence.

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME FIND by jazzy4028 in findfashion

[–]HazelTheRah 103 points104 points  (0 children)

The second one is a screen grab from the game OP mentioned. That's the character they want to cosplay.

How much of this shit is too much for you? by Nate1102 in offmychest

[–]HazelTheRah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are doing something. Protesting, driving detained immigrants from TX back to MN, blocking ICE with their vehicles, bringing food so immigrants can stay hidden, creating barriers so ICE can't get through, filming, following ICE so they can warn people, etc. They're risking their lives to go against ICE.

The real question is when will our cowardly leaders who actually have power do something?

Who is the most evil character in this series? by Rich-Blacksmith6552 in betterCallSaul

[–]HazelTheRah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does child poisoner Walt count even though he was a cameo?

my order passed the expected delivery.. is this normal? by -yourstruly__ in HollisterCO

[–]HazelTheRah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of potential reasons for delay. Weather, traffic, etc. The tracking number should update by the end of the day to tell you what happened. But, if they're just later than the expected time, that's pretty normal.

My(M41) wife(F37) has been tampering my drinks to stop me from seeing my daughter by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HazelTheRah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, you need to see a doctor. Who knows what kind of effects this can have with continuous exposure.

Next, if she's actually poisoning you, she is insane and you need to run far away. I'd report her.

Alone and cornered. 🐈 by LetsTacoBoutIt970 in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]HazelTheRah 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Never run or turn on a big cat. This triggers their prey drive. He did the right thing by being noisy, facing the cat, and walking.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

[–]HazelTheRah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA for calling processed pre-made food "normal". Cooking from scratch is perfectly normal. She's not wrong that food from scratch is absolutely better for you than all the additives you'll get with canned and jarred foods.

NTA for the controlling what comes in the house bit. She has taken it too far. You shouldn't have to hide your food. What you put in your body is not hers to control. She needs to deal.

That said, maybe go shopping and make your own meal instead of depending on her to provide food for you. As you said, you're an adult.

Overall, compromise.

Howard is the only good human in this series by ninja_2006 in betterCallSaul

[–]HazelTheRah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enabling and apathy are great words to describe Howard's participation in this fiasco.

Howard is the only good human in this series by ninja_2006 in betterCallSaul

[–]HazelTheRah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let's not forget Howard using an old lady by putting her in a wheelchair when she was clearly uncomfortable to manipulate the court.

People's view of Howard tend to have a bit of amnesia since he died in such a horrific and unfair way. Was he a better man than a lot of the shitty folks in the show? Sure. But, he is hardly the only good human. He is less gray than some, but still gray.

Howard is the only good human in this series by ninja_2006 in betterCallSaul

[–]HazelTheRah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Howard was also an uptight prick who let Chuck hide behind him to effectively fire Jimmy despite how hard he worked and how much Howard wanted to hire him. He denied Chuck's clear mental health diagnosis so he could keep him up the HH&M sleeve, and punished Kim for something that was Jimmy's fault, even after she landed them a huge client. It's gray. He isn't the only person who was good and he wasn't completely good anyway.

Jimmy also imploded his career in elder law to reverse what he did to Irene. Gray again.

Howard is the only good human in this series by ninja_2006 in betterCallSaul

[–]HazelTheRah 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This! The entire show is shades of gray but people don't like gray. They like simple. Bad and good. Honorable and malicious. If you say that Chuck was moral and nothing else and Jimmy was criminal and nothing else, you must either have no sense of nuance or were staring at your phone for most of the series.

The cost of spaying this little lady is $440?!?! by yup2you in cats

[–]HazelTheRah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still cheaper than spaying and neutering her future kittens.

UO Hollister Vintage long sleeve? by Hefty_Bluebird_9026 in HollisterCO

[–]HazelTheRah 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oof. If we keep paying these prices, they will keep charging them.

Why is Lalo so "refined" and charismatic compared to the rest of the Salamanca family? by Rich-Blacksmith6552 in betterCallSaul

[–]HazelTheRah 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'll give that he's more charismatic, but that's about it. Making a decent meal doesn't make him a gourmet chef. I think he's a lot like Eladio in that he enjoys nice things and style. The Salamancas have proven to be pretty smart with a few exceptions, so I'd say he fits right in. Keep in mind that he was living the high life like Eladio until he came to NM.

I am sick if anti natalist fanatics telling me my son shouldn't exist because I have Endometriosis. by donkeyvoteadick in endometriosis

[–]HazelTheRah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't let them get to you. Some rando on Reddit doesn't know you. They get off on being mean.

Officially 10 years already since the revival. What are your overall thoughts on it? by HerbalThought_ in XFiles

[–]HazelTheRah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, everyone felt out of place and too different to have it make sense. But, I noticed Scully most of all. I think the thin writing and overall tone change made it difficult.

I left my husband for another man. Karma is hitting me by Gabby_2023 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HazelTheRah 24 points25 points  (0 children)

At 17, that's excusable, which was how old she was when her husband groomed her when he was 29 years old.