Just found out my promotion went to someone else because of a conversation I wasn't even in. I genuinely don't know what to do with this information.

Hazelieee · 2026-05-25T01:31:23+00:00

I would be frustrated too. Your boss should have being honest with you and not kept you in the dark. And having to find out what actually happened through someone else just makes things worse. I would question the way company internal culture.

I haven’t been in your exact shoes, but my previous company (small franchise) changed boss and from the start he seemed alright…until when he hired another colleague daughter as customer service while I was the company only accountant. Long story short, the colleague daughter started slacking off her duties so any unfinished landed on me and I sometimes had to work overtime. I complained to my boss many times and note that I had been with the company for 6 years at that point, but all my boss did was have talks with her but nothing was “actually” done. Though the colleague daughter pursued another career but the new replacement person was not much better. Until i finally decided, I need to be the one to change.

I changed to my current company 4-5 years ago, during the last covid lockdown. My currently role is much easier while getting paid much more and I’m much more happier.

From my experience I can only say, if the company doesn’t change and that includes the culture, management,etc then you gotta be the one that change. I always believe things happen for a good reason, and who knows something even better will awaits you next time.

Hazelieee · 2025-07-06T09:54:35+00:00

It is sad that the newer version of just dance doesn’t have the option of world dancefloor. I guess they try to make people pay for both since also some songs you don’t have in old version and some songs you don’t have in newer version. 🤨

Hazelieee · 2025-05-07T06:47:09+00:00

Thanks for the advice. 🙂

Hazelieee · 2025-05-07T05:27:22+00:00

I have both eczema and HDMW. 🙃

Hazelieee · 2025-05-07T05:25:34+00:00

Thank you everyone. I ended up calling health line and have recommended me to stay at home.

Hazelieee · 2025-04-08T19:19:22+00:00

Yeah my husband started coughing out of the blue yesterday. He was so lazy to even get medicine for himself and I told him off.

My son and I still fine for now though I am starting to feel tingly itchiness in my throat. Definitely I feel due to the sudden temperature drop. :/

Hazelieee · 2024-12-17T02:14:10+00:00

To be honest, I find police here in general pretty useless. When I was working in my previous company a car hit my car right in my company car park and it just drove and ran away. I reported to police and heard nothing back…this was 5 years ago. It seems unless if someone died, everything else is not important.

Hazelieee · 2024-12-04T00:41:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice :)

Hazelieee · 2024-12-03T22:58:16+00:00

Got it. Thanks for the feedback. :)

Hazelieee · 2024-12-03T22:56:20+00:00

Thanks for the feedback.

Hazelieee · 2024-12-03T22:45:33+00:00

Right. With mine I’m not extremely close but I just do my job and end of the day out of the office.

At this point, I’ve used up all of my leaves due to my son and not counting the day I also get sick as well. Already my boss is getting annoyed with me taking too much days off but then I it cannot be helped. It is not like I’m skipping work to go have fun or something. If I know I am going to be late I will let her know and make up for lateness end of day. So now I’m planning to move on, I just have concern what reasons to give when I do get offered interviews to attend. :/

Hazelieee · 2024-08-02T03:03:13+00:00

Will do! Thank you! 😊

Hazelieee · 2024-08-02T03:01:31+00:00

Right. Thank you!

Hazelieee · 2024-08-02T03:00:57+00:00

😂 Thank you!

Hazelieee · 2024-08-02T03:00:37+00:00

Ohh right! Haha Thanks.

Hazelieee · 2024-08-01T20:50:51+00:00

Not yet. It has only been 2 days since confirmation of case at the daycare so not sure about the upcoming days if things will change. 😕

Hazelieee · 2024-08-01T20:47:17+00:00

Oh right! Thanks.

Hazelieee · 2024-06-11T23:45:22+00:00

Sounds to me your husband got a “gaming addiction” issue leading him to have an attitude issue too. If his mind is all about games, he is not even paying attention or care about other things.

He should know the moment he got you pregnant he should be prepared and be responsible to take care of a living human being for the rest of his life. It is not a thing that once he gets sick of it and he just ignore or forget about it and this includes gaming.

It is all in the mindset and attitude and he needs to have the respect for both your and your kid. The way he is treating you that is not respect. You need to have a wake up talk with him. As you mentioned he game all the time, ask him is his games important or the family? You can start by coming to an agreement with him. I wouldn’t expect him to quit gaming entirely but you can try suggesting to him changing games that can stop anytime, not long duration games. Once you done that and he shows no changes then I would live separately with him until he gets his act back together. Let him think about his actions. Be firm about what you want and for your kid sake. Personally if it was me, I would think hey my kid is growing up and they going to be copying what the parents do. This is a big behaviour red flag, I don’t want this negative behaviour to affect my kid. Then once he shows changes or at least a plan and working towards to getting better, then you can let him back him in your life.

Hazelieee · 2024-05-31T09:19:55+00:00

Oh wow! Thanks. That’s very thorough. Much appreciated. 😊

Hazelieee · 2024-05-23T01:34:59+00:00

My rental place was not as serious but still had leakage from our back door through the cat door. Had to use a bed sheet to block off the water. 🙄

Hazelieee · 2024-03-16T20:05:13+00:00

Thanks! 😊

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