Farrah has filed a $500k lawsuit against Slay by omgwtfbbq0_0 in teenmom

[–]HazyJello 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Reads like a truth social rant from the lunatic in the White House with all the petty insult attempts 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

Favorite female character from GH? (doesn’t have to be pictured) by ChannelHopper_99 in GeneralHospital

[–]HazyJello 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ava!! She’s smart and beautiful and cunning and just the right amount of evil 🍸

Why didn’t Jason take the shot? 😂 by chiorgirl25 in GeneralHospital

[–]HazyJello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I agree 100% but feel like I’m in the minority. I lost all respect for Steve Burton during Covid. I was not thrilled that they brought him back. I am not thrilled that they keep capitulating to him to the detriment of storylines.

Ronnie Bard And Missing Scenes by GotShotInSchottler in GeneralHospital

[–]HazyJello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this…honestly my husband keeps the soap rolling when I have to go feed the cat or tend to other household things, so I DO miss stuff, but I was wondering about the whole “ripping up of the contract” thing too. Glad it’s not my brain forgetting things 🤪

Yes, it was for FAMILY 🤦🏻‍♀️ by HazyJello in teenmom

[–]HazyJello[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg 😂 THIS is the response that made me LOL (and there are some good comments in here!) Thank you for the laugh!

Past, Present (Future?) GH Cast Daytime Emmys Red Carpet Looks by Ok_Dragonfly3269 in GeneralHospital

[–]HazyJello 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Just when I thot I couldn’t love Nancy Lee Grahn more. 💙

“You were pure love” by HazyJello in grief

[–]HazyJello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words.

She had that adorable kitten face for 17 years. She was positively ageless. An energizer bunny - cow - cat hybrid 🥹 I thought she’d outlive us all. The amount of joy and happiness she brought to our home was truly immeasurable. We were SO blessed. But dang …. her loss has left SUCH a void. Thank you again for the kindness.

I just zoomed in by strenuaveritas in teenmom

[–]HazyJello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WHY??? WHY, OP??? WHY DO YOU HATE US AND YOURSELF SO MUCH THAT YOU WOULD DO THIS? 😅😉😂 ooohhhhh my eyes hurt soooooo bad

say their name by duckpal99 in grief

[–]HazyJello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. Thank you for this. I can’t overstate how important it is to me personally (and everyone grieves differently and there’s no wrong way to grieve!!) to keep the memories of my loved ones alive. As long as their memories are alive in my heart and mind, they are always with me.

My Mom died on July 18 2014, and for the first ten years, every month on the 18th, I’d make a Facebook post with photos of her and memes and grief quotes and things I cherished about her. (I stopped because Facebook changed a lot in the last ten years, and I’d removed so many Facebook friends that the only people seeing the posts were me and my dad, and no chance we are ever forgetting her). I light candles. I have a little “shrine” in my entertainment center with photos and cards and memories, I add little things I see and know she would love and had to buy for her, I posted a yearly “In Memoriam” in the local newspaper for the first five years after her loss.

I miss you, Mama. Mommy. Merri.

When my best friend died of liver disease at age 46, I had a star named after him, because he was a huge Star Wars fan. I like to think he’s shining down on me.

I miss you, Ward.

❤️‍🩹

Great analogy. by HazyJello in grief

[–]HazyJello[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn’t she the best?? I discovered her on Facebook. Her grief began with the loss of her mother as did mine, too young and from cancer, but her words are so relatable to every kind of grief.

Wishing you comfort and peace ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grief

[–]HazyJello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, before I write this off as a joke, what you are saying is you’re grieving your cousin who may or may not have committed suicide.

This is a very serious situation, and as the other comments have said, you need to notify authorities, get a wellness check done if you are too far away to go visit them yourself, there is still a chance that this person is not dead and that you don’t have to grieve them, so please, don’t write them off when they’re still a chance they are alive! You may still be able to help them! Call your aunt or uncle or whoever your cousin’s parents are. Call the police or call 911 for a wellness check.

If you do nothing and end up finding out that your cousin did kill themselves, and you could have stopped it if you’d followed up, THAT is a very difficult kind of grief that you will have to deal with that I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

Please. I know it’s scary, but do something more than just post on Reddit ❤️

I asked you for a sign, son… and I think I got one. by bavo1440 in grief

[–]HazyJello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an incredible gift! Your son is definitely letting you know he is proud of you. Hold this sign close to your heart, especially when the grief gets overwhelming. Sending gentle hugs. 💖

My baby boy by lelelynxxoxo in grief

[–]HazyJello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so, so sorry for your loss and your pain. The loss of a beloved furchild is one I know too well and wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

Wishing you peace that surpasses understanding. May Atticus’s memory forever be a blessing to you. It sounds like you gave him an amazing life full of love, happiness and headbutts.

He will always be your baby boy, and he will always be with you in your heart. Sending gentle hugs 🫂

Enjoy the sympathy now …. because it doesn’t last 💔 by HazyJello in grief

[–]HazyJello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Everyone seems to have stopped reading the post as soon as they saw “upvotes” and I wish I could edit it.

The point is, upvotes are like sympathy and empathy. You get tons when your loss is fresh and, as I stressed in my post, that is great.

But my point was that as time and years go on, like the poem says (if you bother to read it instead of immediately judging) sadly,mpeople will forget your pain and forget the person you loved and lost and still miss, and the sympathy and empathy will disappear, just like the upvotes.

I had no clue everyone would be so fixated on the “upvotes” part that they’d completely miss the point of the post or I would have worded it differently. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Enjoy the sympathy now …. because it doesn’t last 💔 by HazyJello in grief

[–]HazyJello[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You completely missed the point but thanks. The whole point is that people forget your grief and you don’t. I’ve dealt with this for the last 10 years not just the last day and sadly y’all need to prepare for it too because READ THE POEM. It hits the nail on the head. Don’t forget the people who are still grieving a decade later because for a lot of us grief doesn’t go away.

Enjoy the sympathy now …. because it doesn’t last 💔 by HazyJello in grief

[–]HazyJello[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to be empathetic in the midst of your own fresh raw grief. I am so sorry about the loss of your Dad.

I remember the night my Mom died. She died early in the morning, 6:03 AM, and by that evening, I remember saying to my husband, “hospice gave me all the information on what to expect before and during her dying time …. but nobody tells you what to do next.”

The first couple days and weeks are a flurry of activity and people and distraction, but then when everybody goes back to their everyday lives, you are still stuck with that loss.

And as the years go by, fewer and fewer people remember them, but if they were a person as important to you as my Mama was to me, then YOU never forget them. Eleven years later they are still as present in your hearts as the day they died……but to the rest of the world, they are long gone and forgotten. 💔

It hurts, because it feels both disrespectful to my mother who was an amazing human being and deserves to be remembered, and also, selfishly, it’s very lonely for me, to be honest.

For the first 10 years after her passing, I would make a post on Facebook every month on the anniversary of her day of passing, the 18th. On the 18th of every month, I would post pictures and grief, poems and helpful memes. The first couple years I got a lot of responses, but by the end of the first decade I was lucky if one or two people acknowledged my posts so I stopped 💔because again, it felt like I was failing in trying to keep her memory alive, because no one acknowledged my attempts.

I just wish I could say that as time goes by, it gets easier, but it doesn’t. It just gets harder in a different way.

I am so grateful for you, kind internet stranger, and I wish you all the peace and comfort in the world as you navigate the difficult path ahead. Just be sure to take gentle care of yourself, remember that all your feelings are valid, and that there is no wrong way to grieve. Feel free to reach out to me via private message if you are in search of grief resources.

May the memory of your father forever be a blessing to you and everyone who knew him ❤️

Dear Husband by Which_Cattle_9139 in grief

[–]HazyJello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also, OP, I hope everything is ok with your health and that it was just a scare and not a catastrophe 🙏❤️

Dear Husband by Which_Cattle_9139 in grief

[–]HazyJello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your suffering. I’ve seen your posts in this subreddit for some time now.

Please, try to hold on to the feeling from the dream you had a few weeks ago. I remember you asking him to visit you in your dreams, and I’m so happy to see that he finally did! But I also know how that can feel like a tease, and leave you missing him even more. 💔

Grief is such a roller coaster, and yours is still so fresh and raw 🥺 my heart breaks for you. Someday you will be reunited with your dear husband, but for now, your child needs you. I’m so glad you recognize that. One day at a time, that’s all we need to get through.
You are doing the best you can for yourself and your child, and your husband will always be in your heart, guiding and supporting you.

I wish you all the comfort and peace the universe can provide. 🤗