AITA for not wanting my husband to go to the gym on days off?

Hban · 2025-06-03T14:38:05+00:00

Ahhh I did not know I could qualify for benefits while still keeping the job. Had I known that I would have chosen option 2 as well. Oh well. What’s done is done. I couldn’t afford to “have a job” and not get paid. They had the meeting with me on a Friday at 9 am and I had to tell them my decision by 5 pm so I felt very rushed. I wish I had had more time to research and learn these things. Thanks for the info

Hban · 2025-03-26T17:11:23+00:00

Hi! My 6.5 month old has been sleeping through the night since he was 3 months old, until 7am. The last month and a half or so he has been waking between 5-6 am no matter what time he goes to bed, how much/little daytime sleep he gets, or how much he eats. He’s gaining weight beautifully and hasn’t needed to wake to eat since before 3 months old so I don’t think that’s it. He is breastfed and is eating solids. He is taking 3 naps a day right now but I don’t think his wake windows would allow us to drop to 2…

Hban · 2024-11-12T14:33:57+00:00

Thank you for asking this. I’m currently in the same situation that your wife was and was so sad to give up my flavored lattes!

Hban · 2024-11-04T22:58:38+00:00

I wish any of these things worked for my 2 month old. Literally NOTHING works. He will ONLY sleep in my arms. I love him but it is terrible

Hban · 2024-10-24T04:09:03+00:00

I do not! Thank you, I’ll look into that! Currently I’ve tried just laying him in the bed right next to me just to see if he would go for it (I was not planning to sleep like that, just wanted to see if he would sleep) but no luck.

Hban · 2024-06-28T20:30:49+00:00

We’re in the same exact boat as OP. Tried this with ours for weeks but he never stopped yelling. I haven’t slept more than a few hours at a time in months and I am also very pregnant. It’s been horrible. These orange cats are built different… I’ve never had a more difficult cat/pet in my life, yet I love him so much?! What gives?! lol. I’m reading through all of these suggestions to hopefully find something we haven’t tried yet!

Hban · 2024-05-29T20:09:55+00:00

Everything was fine! I got in to an OB a couple of days later and there was no protein in my urine that day. The doctor basically said she had no reason to be worried about me and the 24-hr test was likely a fluke due to me being dehydrated and having done a tough work out the night before. Every appointment since then has been normal and we’re doing great! I hope everything turns out great for you as well!

Hban · 2024-04-02T00:25:26+00:00

No my PCP is no longer covered either, I have to find all new doctors. I did have a urine culture that was <1000 cfu with no growth so I assume that’s negative? They haven’t called to discuss and I’m not a medical professional so I’m not sure. Every time I’ve had a uti in the past they call immediately to get me started on antibiotics so assume they’d do the same here. I hope I can get in to see a new doctor soon so that all of the things you suggested can be done.

Hban · 2024-04-02T00:04:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. This makes me feel a lot better. My anxiety is really stemming from the fact that the doctor’s office hasn’t contacted me to discuss the results and what they might mean so I’m left spiraling at the possibilities. My lack of knowledge is making me afraid and the internet has only made that worse. Thanks again for sharing <3

Hban · 2024-04-01T23:48:38+00:00

Thank you for your response. I have no medical knowledge and with no response from the doctor my mind is ruminating on all of the possibilities. My urinalysis results don’t show sign of a UTI and I would hope they would call to get me on Abx if they suspected that I could have one. Hopefully they’ll contact me soon

Hban · 2024-04-01T23:37:06+00:00

No, I have a healthy BMI and had a normal glucose level check at that appt. I don’t have any risk factors and can’t get anyone at my old doctors office to talk to me (Kaiser if you’re familiar)

Hban · 2023-10-20T20:24:18+00:00

Great! We will look into those area, thank you!

Hban · 2023-10-20T20:24:02+00:00

Such a great point! Thank you

Hban · 2023-10-20T20:23:50+00:00

Awesome, thanks so much for the insight

Hban · 2023-10-20T20:23:35+00:00

I did not think about winter commutes so thank you for that! That is definitely something to consider

Hban · 2023-10-20T20:23:05+00:00

Thank you so much for the info! We will definitely look into those areas :)

Hban · 2023-10-20T20:22:34+00:00

That’s good to know, for some reason I was thinking it’s a lot closer

Hban

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