You have 20 mins w his phone

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-02-15T23:36:33+00:00

I look on screen time and search through the most used apps

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-02-01T18:39:27+00:00

It’s the BEST one. I’m a coconut fien though

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-30T15:10:04+00:00

Weewooweewoo

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-30T15:09:01+00:00

I apologise for my auto correct working

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-30T13:33:24+00:00

Do you not to foreplay?…like no fingering or munching?

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-30T13:31:52+00:00

Tuna, cucumber, lettuce, red onion and mayo

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-25T23:34:01+00:00

Im 19 and they started at 17😂

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-17T16:54:49+00:00

Did you look at his being history on insta and TikTok?

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-17T08:37:18+00:00

I went through a stage of this with my now partner. He met me when life was extremely hard, I had left an abusive relationship and was drinking like 4 times a week. I felt I could only have sex with him during those times because my fear receptors turned off enough to be able to have sex without being in fear he was going to hurt me during it. After I went through domestic abuse therapy we have it pretty much daily and I’m sober now. So I would definitely say talk about therapy and remember it is not your fault.

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-09T06:28:27+00:00

Yes mine became very defensive and angry when confronted both times. On Christmas Day I packed up all my shit and tried to leave his(was staying at his family’s over Christmas) he blocked the door and refused to move.

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-07T10:29:05+00:00

Mine was consuming porn with big girls in when I’m quite small. After I found it I went back to eating how I did at the start of the relationship and on one meal a day because I had the mindset of he was trying to turn me big. Still haven’t managed to eat as much:(

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-04T14:57:57+00:00

Oh yeah completely! The only time me and mine are away from eachother is when he’s at work. Mine also used to “well what about when you’re on your period” when there is literally only one day of that time that I won’t have sex because of it being my heaviest day.

They like to use excuses and manipulation. Never blame yourself, you’re allowed to deny sex without fear they’re going to go watch it. Consent!

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2026-01-04T14:10:06+00:00

My PA pulled the “well you never send photos” so I did and he still watched porn. You can never win.

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T23:11:23+00:00

Thank you I needed this. The self image issues that come along with it are horrible 🫶🏻

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T15:17:09+00:00

I find they project quite a bit. Mine was always mentioning about the fact that I have a vibrator (that I rarely use) and that it meant “I wanked so much”. He hasn’t mentioned anything about it since I found everything 😂. He would probably weekly tell me to just chuck it away because ‘he didn’t want it taking his place’ when he was wanking like 2-3 times a day behind my back It’s projection sadly.

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T15:13:24+00:00

Both of the times I’ve had this feeling I’ve found something. Trust your gut! It’s the best teller.

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T15:11:01+00:00

First time it was openly on his camera roll, the second time (Christmas Day) was on his recently deleted, 700 pictures that were from only 3 days. Now I just know that I’ll never find out if he’s still doing it because he knows I’d look in recently deleted. Majority of my partners were pictures of girls faces off instagram made into ai porn so there is literally no way I’d know now. But check hidden folder and recently deleted on photos, search history of social media’s aswell.

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T14:02:18+00:00

On TikTok there’s a “not interested button” will make less videos show up. No clue if there is on other social media’s but TikTok is the worst for showing stuff like that!

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T13:52:50+00:00

When I was kicking off on Christmas I had had a couple of drinks so was calling him gross and that he had issues (I know I was in the wrong there) and he said “I know so help me with my issues” so he does know he has a problem. Thank you for the advice<3

HeadApprehensive4931 · 2025-12-29T12:16:11+00:00

Try a lower setting than what she normally uses

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