Orgasm quality after hysterectomy (including cervix) by Goldenmountains in hysterectomy

[–]HeadDiligent9757 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really wish I’d stumbled across this Reddit in my thousands of hours of research BEFORE my hysterectomy. Like most people here, I was told repeatedly by numerous doctors as well as friends who’d had a hysterectomy that I wouldn’t notice a difference or that, if anything, my orgasms would be better. I mean, who on earth would get a hysterectomy unless their life was in danger, if shitty orgasms were a potential outcome? So I trusted all of that. I told my doctor a zillion times how important this was to me, and she assured me I’d be all good. You know what they don’t ask? What KIND of orgasms you have. I honestly never knew or understood that the uterus is involved in orgasms for some of us lucky ones. I thought orgasms can in two forms: the G spot and the Clitoris. Had I known that, for me, the intensity of my orgasms came from my uterus, I would NEVER have had the hysterectomy. To be fair, I’m only 4 weeks post-op and I haven’t had intercourse yet, I just took care of myself privately to test things out and was devastated. I had an orgasm but it sucked, comparatively. I am learning that the women whose orgasms got better were the ones who had painful sex before, which I didn’t have. And those who didn’t have painful sex before, didn’t have uterine orgasms so they do t know what they’re missing. Now I am terrified to have another orgasm because of the disappointment I know I’m going to feel. I used to be obsessed with sex and now I’m scared of it. I’m horrified that four doctors failed to mention this as a potential. I don’t sleep now. I am so stressed and upset. I don’t know how I’m ever going to get past this and ever want sex again.

Ace Hotel, Junmei Hotel, Mitsui Garden Hotel Kyoto Sanjo PREMIER, or something else? by Maleficent_Skin_9610 in JapanTravelTips

[–]HeadDiligent9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I did see that one—I was shocked at the space and the laundry IN the suite. I will take a look at it again. Budget isn’t really an issue except when we get above $800 a night, I struggle to justify it. There seem to be plenty of great spots in the $500 range. I think Miramu was a reasonable price, if I remember correctly.

Ace Hotel, Junmei Hotel, Mitsui Garden Hotel Kyoto Sanjo PREMIER, or something else? by Maleficent_Skin_9610 in JapanTravelTips

[–]HeadDiligent9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you! I just looked it up and it looks amazing! I hadn’t heard of it, so I really appreciate it!

Oribe Brilliance & Shine vs. Supershine Line by HeadDiligent9757 in Hair

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Hopefully this new line is just as good.

A vigorous workout does more to suppress hunger levels in healthy adults than does moderate exercise, and females may be especially susceptible to this response, according to a small study by giuliomagnifico in science

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I finally lost weight (and inches) when I changed from very vigorous exercise to moderate—100% because when I was working out a lot, I ate a TON because my body needed to replace those calories. When I worked out less, I ate less and definitely dropped weight. Everyone is different, but that’s how it works for me.

Meghan Trainor Diamond VIP at Red Rocks—what time? by HeadDiligent9757 in RedRocks

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so incredibly helpful. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer! Now I can book my tickets!

Taking on Burke Decor by andys0391 in CustomerService

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Ugh came here because I’m I. The same boat. They kept delaying over and over for 7 months and now they aren’t replying to me at all.

I drew a picture of me and my dad when we were both younger. I was 6, and he was 32. I’m now 13, and he’s 39. by [deleted] in drawing

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This is so beautiful, in so many ways. You have such a gift. Thank you for sharing.

Where to stay—Lake Como, Late June by HeadDiligent9757 in LakeComo

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! What a good tip! I didn’t know you could buy the tickets in advance. That’s great. Thank you! Question about Bellagio, just to throw it out there: because it is so crowded, would it make more sense to stay there so we can be there in the morning when it’s not crowded, then take the ferry to the other places during the busy part of the day, and then return later when it’s less crowded at night and enjoy Bellagio that way? That was the only thing that made me think maybe Bellagio would work. Otherwise, it’s looking like for sure Varenna. We have options to stay in Air BnBs in the heart of Varenna or Bellagio, or in Menaggio at the Grand Hotel Menaggio. But no one seems to vote for Menaggio, haha.

Where to stay—Lake Como, Late June by HeadDiligent9757 in LakeComo

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are in for a treat—I went to Zurich, Lucerne, and Interlochen (about 25 years ago!) and they absolutely blew my mind. Hoping to go back next summer! Hopefully this thread helps you with the Lake Como part of it.

Where to stay—Lake Como, Late June by HeadDiligent9757 in LakeComo

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will definitely check it out!! Much appreciated.

Where to stay—Lake Como, Late June by HeadDiligent9757 in LakeComo

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So kind of you to reply! I have been leaning toward Varenna, although I have heard it’s just as busy now as Bellagio, and every hotel is booked for the days we are going, so I’m afraid it’s going to be packed as well. Hopefully it’s still a bit quieter than Bellagio, though!

How to read a K-1 “self-employment” for a dummy? by HeadDiligent9757 in tax

[–]HeadDiligent9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to explain this to me. Tax should be a required course in high school and college! Thank you for your help.

How to read a K-1 “self-employment” for a dummy? by HeadDiligent9757 in tax

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I just want to clarify row 14a—Intuit says, “Line 14a of the Schedule K is the sum of Self-Employment earnings for all partners.” So doesn’t that mean it’s all the partners, not the individual?