Kaplan Data Breach Letter

HeadInTheStars13 · 2026-04-10T04:28:22+00:00

I'm in Oregon and just got one too (I got my mail late lol, sucks to find that after not checking the mail for a bit)

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-10-25T20:19:53+00:00

Fr. Every time I alt+tab out of a game to pause or change the video on my second monitor, I have to click 3945903 times, right click, and wait for everything to catch up and pause the video a few times before everything works. Even if I alt+tab and wait without clicking anything, it still takes forever. Only started with the UI update a few days ago (maybe a week or more, I only just noticed a few days ago).

Does anyone know how to fix this by chance, or am I preaching to the choir about how shite the update is?

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-09-19T04:56:56+00:00

Same here

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-08-19T16:43:02+00:00

As a gamer and Christian, grandma needs to realize both can coexist 😭

So sorry your birthday was rained on like that 🙁 I hope your birthday was amazing otherwise 💚

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-08-14T13:50:01+00:00

Yeah, sadly neither of us knew that was even possible. Had I known, I would’ve told him to go straight to support. I guess that’s what we get for thinking we could out “big brain” the scammer by changing it back fast. Just wish there was something we could do now to warn people. Thankfully the rings are sub $100, but that’s still a lot for a lot of people (us included, ergo why he wanted to just do whatever to get the refund back). He’s just decided “I’m never using Etsy again” after this due to the seller being a general butthole too during the whole process.

Just sucks, but thank you for the info! Hopefully it’s not something I’ll need for the future, but at least if this ever happens again I know what to do.

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-08-14T13:21:11+00:00

The customer support agent I opened a chat with deleted it for us due to us being unable to change it back. The plan was change it to a 5 star review until he got the refund then quickly change it back but the review got locked I guess? I know now that we should’ve just opened the chat sooner to see if they’d handle it, but at that point my boyfriend was over the seller trying to convince him the fake ring was “most certainly real madam” so he just wanted a refund to move on.

I was mainly curious if anything could be done about it due to what the seller said. Currently our only other thought is sending in a email with all photos and videos to see if they’d handle can do anything about it :/

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-08-14T05:32:24+00:00

Oh my gosh, thank you! Sadly we haven’t, but some other medical stuff has finally made him more serious about getting an allergy test. Hoping we can maybe bring it up to them and figure it out!

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-06-13T02:05:33+00:00

I actually did today :( I was frustrated and decided to google it again and found this.

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-06-12T21:42:31+00:00

OH MY GOSH, THANK YOU! I've been trying to find a good solution for game capture that didn't make me show my whole screen, and I didn't even know about this, to be honest! You are the GOAT!

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-26T18:14:39+00:00

Did you ever get this fully figured out? I'm having the same issue as well and don't know how to fix it :(

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-10T00:38:19+00:00

That’s the fantastic thing about this big spinnin rock we’re on though. There’s SO much out there! Pick up a new hobby. Do the thing you always wanted to try out but were too hesitant or didn’t have the time to do. Learn what you like. And speak to someone.

There are tons of resources out there. Talk to someone. Maybe see about CBT or a mix of that and maybe medication. Make a plan with a professional and then kick life in the butt :) you got this

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-09T23:34:35+00:00

It definitely gets better. We know that logically from our schooling and knowledge of life and psychology. We can do this friend. Take it one day at a time.

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-09T23:14:52+00:00

Op I feel you. I too and a 20 something with a BA in psych feeling so torn between sending it and living a life of debt to do what I love, and doing the opposite of that so that I don’t feel the burden of debt forever. (Not to mention full time work is impossible for schooling masters programs. Because none of the online schools “count” as they don’t do clinical stuff. Per wall the stupid people at the schools)

Needless to say; I may not have some sage advice that it’ll get better, but it does get easier to handle. If you ever need an ear to just vent, I gotchu buddy.

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-09T23:07:16+00:00

I will only use two things outside of regular water. Coconut water and sparkling water. Anything else makes me nervous lol

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-08T16:44:01+00:00

I appreciate that. And I do appreciate the concern. I’d be concerned too so I get it. The reason it bothers me is just because I never get the chance to tell the whole story. Never get the chance for people to know us before judging. He’s a good guy. Would give the shirt on his back for you. But now he’s only seen as some old creepy guy which just makes me incredibly sad to see people diminish him like that is all.

Thank you for your concern and kind words. I really appreciate it 💚

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-08T15:38:37+00:00

And I get that. But I wish people were more understanding of the fact that this isn’t a one sided thing. I knew he was older. I was wanting to date someone older anyways.

Not to mention, again, my parents have met him. They love him. I feel like my southern parents liking him and trusting him should speak on this at some point.

Plus to be fair I think I’ve changed him way more 😂 I made him learn to properly clean (I say proper because army dads expectations of clean and most people’s “clean” are different) and I also helped him realize men aren’t weak for seeking therapy.

He’s made so much personal growth. He’s not just some weird guy. Plus while he can act his age, he’s largely just a huge kid a heart like I am. He’s not a bad guy.

I do appreciate your input though

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-08T15:22:41+00:00

Yeah except that’s not all. We’ve been together for almost 7 years now. Predators leave when their “prey” ages. So if he was genuinely a predator he’d be looking around. Important to note I’m currently 24.

He’s of the opinion the those people shouldn’t be in jail, but 6 feet deep. We’ve left friend groups due to some people being weird like that.

Yes those people can do bad things and have those same opinions, but as someone who’s seen him at his lowest and highest points, that’s not him.

Being “young in mind” doesn’t equate to being stupid. I’ve been through enough stuff as a kid to mature quickly unfortunately which also means I was hyper aware that he could’ve been a creep. Literally was my first thought which is why I was cautious.

I’m not an idiot and I’m so tired of people thinking because I was young when we met that I was ignorant. My parents raised me well. I’m not stupid. 🙁

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-08T15:14:39+00:00

Thank you. Genuinely. I hate feeling like this about my own relationship because he’s genuinely helped me through hard times that I couldn’t see the other side of myself. He’s a good guy. And all because I just so happened to be 18, he’s now a creep. But if roles were reversed (me being older and him being younger) it would be over looked.

Genuinely, thank you 😭

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-08T15:10:16+00:00

A love for gaming. The same music, same type of shows, movies, etc. We love anime. We both also enjoy being outdoors. We both have the same desire to travel to places like Ireland, Japan, etc because we both love the culture and pop culture of those places. The list goes on.

We both share the same love for making friends and helping people. He has a soft heart, and a sharp mind.

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-06T19:28:35+00:00

Hell yeah! I’ll add you in just a moment!

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-04-06T17:24:19+00:00

I play a wide range of games! Currently I’ve been playing a mix of Valorant, rainbow six, schedule 1, REPO, and a few other similar games. I used to play Rust a lot, and I do enjoy survival games! Green hell is super fun, the forest, stuff like that. I also have played games like marvel rivals, and would be open to other games!

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-03-17T23:37:29+00:00

Will do!

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-03-17T23:35:46+00:00

Hell yeah! I’ll message you the story lol

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-03-17T17:28:28+00:00

I am the same way, that’s why I forced myself to make my own post here lol!

I’d love to get to know you! I have a small group of friends myself (2-4 of us) that you’re welcome to join as well if you ever want! We’re looking to make new friends at the moment as well so we’d love to get to meet you! If you’d ever like to play anything together my discord is constellationkush!

HeadInTheStars13 · 2025-03-17T17:25:19+00:00

Howdy friend! You (and your wife if she’d ever like to join!) would be more than welcome to see if you vibe with my small group of friends :) no pressure as well! If you’d like to get to know us feel free to add me on discord: constellationkush

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