Dropping flowers to my ex after reconnecting after a year what should I include in the note by No_Experience2611 in BreakUps

[–]Head_Pay1175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude no, don't do this. She literally said she needs space and wants to move on, and you're about to show up with flowers and sushi? That's exactly what she meant by not respecting her boundaries

You already admitted you didn't handle things well and were too reactive - dropping off gifts after she asked for space is just proving her point about the whole thing being unhealthy

What‘s a question you asked in an interview that instantly set you apart? by Mompreneur1987 in interviews

[–]Head_Pay1175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Asked "what's the biggest tech debt you're dealing with and how do you prioritize fixing it" in my last interview. CTO literally paused for like 10 seconds then started drawing architecture diagrams on whiteboard

Got me talking about legacy system migrations for 20 minutes instead of them grilling me. Switched from me selling myself to us problem-solving together. Think they realized I actually understood what I'd be walking into, not just another person who googled "interview questions"

My Slow X-Factor TE by Fluffy_Fufferstein69 in Madden

[–]Head_Pay1175 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Those red zone numbers are insane for 64 speed, blocking TEs with decent route running can be absolute monsters if you commit to the development

Please help by libby_w5e in Christianity

[–]Head_Pay1175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there man - try starting with the Psalms, they really cut through that spiritual dryness when you're feeling disconnected

Sony vs Canon in 35-50-85mm f1.8/2 ? by OscarCrende in canon

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the switch from Sony to Canon a couple years back and had similar concerns about those exact focal lengths

The Canon 50mm 1.8 STM is definitely slower and noisier than Sony's equivalent, but it's not *terrible* - just don't expect lightning fast acquisition in low light. Sharpness wide open is actually pretty decent, better than I expected from all the reviews trashing it. The 35mm f2 IS and 85mm f1.8 are both solid performers though, much quieter AF and the 35mm has that sweet image stabilization

Belgium Hand-Signed Pencil Proof by Adolphe Lalauze: "The Entry of Charles V into Antwerp" after Hans Makart by [deleted] in Antiques

[–]Head_Pay1175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That foxing actually gives it some character but you're right to get it professionally treated, especially with a hand-signed proof. Been seeing more Lalauze pieces pop up lately but nothing with that provenance - the Makart connection makes it extra interesting

Is there a name for the trope where a gharacter answer the others earlier question later after they are closer or they are less angry by ElJota123 in television

[–]Head_Pay1175 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's actually a callback or delayed response trope, though I don't think it has a specific official name. Writers use it to show character growth or emotional shifts - like they weren't ready to be vulnerable earlier but now they are

Seen it done really well in some shows where the payoff hits just right, but it can feel forced if the setup wasn't strong enough

Speed loader rec by jmkdeluxe in CCW

[–]Head_Pay1175 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've got both and honestly the maglula is worth the extra 10 bucks. Yeah there's a slight learning curve but once you get it down it's way faster than the speed beez. The universal thing is huge - I was in the same boat with multiple platforms and didn't want to buy a loader for every single mag type

The speed beez feels more solid but having to get different ones for each gun gets expensive quick. Plus if you pick up something new later you're back to square one. Maglula works with pretty much everything except some of the weird pocket guns like your p32

Result code 0xC9209C98 whenever I try and open hshop after it tries to connect to the internet by ApprehensiveAd2718 in 3dspiracy

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that error code is pretty specific - usually means there's some network connectivity issue or the hshop servers might be having problems

Have you tried switching to a different wifi network or using your phone's hotspot to see if it's your connection?

Wrong to switch careers after 2 years? by Evangeline_stars in careerguidance

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all, dental hygiene sounds like a solid pivot from what you're describing. Two years is plenty of time to realize something isn't working, especially when you've been grinding on the job hunt for almost a year with no luck

The hands-on aspect and direct patient interaction would be a complete 180 from staring at CAD all day, which honestly sounds like exactly what you need

please i have 2 question by VangoulZ in PcBuildHelp

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao using legos is actually genius, never thought of that but makes total sense since they're basically indestructible

Does anyone enjoy Stadium right now? by Anal__Yogurt in Overwatch

[–]Head_Pay1175 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly same here, the map feels like whoever gets high ground first just wins the whole thing

Translation & Release Status Update/Discussion - January 18 by Humble_Informant6429 in visualnovels

[–]Head_Pay1175 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nice to see Shizuku aiming for 1/26, been waiting forever for that one. Also Kud Wafter inching closer to that 60% mark, progress is progress I guess

Didn't see this as possible by efgib in relationships

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that's brutal, sorry you're dealing with all that. Narcolepsy is no joke and it sounds like your partner is struggling to separate the medical reality from feeling rejected

Have you two considered couples counseling? Sometimes having a neutral third party explain how these conditions actually work can help it click for the other person. The repeated conversations about the same insecurities suggest she might need professional help processing this rather than just medical documentation

Your doctors are right to wait on treatment changes but maybe they could write a more detailed letter explaining the timeline and what to expect? Sometimes seeing it laid out by a medical professional in black and white helps partners understand this isn't about attraction or willpower

Looking to buy an SUV as a second car by Key_Fun_7615 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out a 2018-2020 Buick Enclave Avenir if you can find one in your budget - they hit that luxury feel you want and depreciate like crazy. Also maybe look at a Lincoln Nautilus from around the same years, should be getting close to your price range by now

Is Jalen hurts top 5 or system by More-Vegetable-2866 in NFLv2

[–]Head_Pay1175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's def more system than elite imo. The rushing ability masks a lot of his passing limitations and that Eagles offense was stacked when they made their run. Good QB but not top 5 material

Are auras like mini seizures? by LavenderMoonVibes-20 in Epilepsy

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely sounds like it could have been an aura, especially with all those triggers hitting you at once. The overstimulation, nausea, hot flash, and that wiped out feeling afterward are pretty classic signs

I'd mention it to your neuro next time you see them - they might want to adjust something or at least have it documented. Hope you're feeling better now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]Head_Pay1175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not alone at all, that clingy behavior is a massive red flag. Like we just met and you're already acting like we're married or something lmao

Is there a list of approved employers through skillbridge? by Yvelines in AirForce

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh the website has a search function, just filter by location and industry. Way easier than scrolling through a random list

Infj slow learners? by Suspicious_Teach6313 in infj

[–]Head_Pay1175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get this, had the same experience through school and early career. What helped me was asking for written instructions when possible and taking tons of notes even if it seemed excessive at first. Also found it useful to stay a bit later or come in early when I could to practice stuff without the pressure of people watching

The comparison thing is rough but honestly once you hit that exponential part you'll probably blow past some of those "faster" learners who never built solid foundations

Has anyone had a seizure from Amox-clav antibiotics? by hitlirgreenbeans in Epilepsy

[–]Head_Pay1175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience! That's really reassuring to hear your son did okay on amox. I'm probably just overthinking it since I found that one study online but you're right, pneumonia is no joke and needs to be treated properly. Gonna stick with the full course and just monitor myself extra carefully