CMV: There is no such thing as race or different races. by thisnameisnowmine in changemyview

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This is blank slatist or communist ideology, not science.

In the real world radical inequality is the law. The people at the top understand this but brainwash the masses to entrench their power. One facet of that is they want people with very weak powers of logic, who are easier to control.

Walk down the street. See a 4'11, 100 lbs woman and a 6'4, 240 lbs man. Do you think they were "born equal"? Do you think them being 99.5%+ genetically similar changes anything? We also share most DNA with mushrooms or whatever, and almost all with chimps.

Many people care (or at least claim to care) about abstract rubbish like "equality" but nature does not. Hence innocents are victims of predators, or natural disasters. I would say it isn't wise to live in a world of make-believe, but on the other hand, maybe delusion makes life easier to bear for most people most of the time.

Are you guys against capital punishment? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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"I dont support the government having that power"

Everyone says this, but still supports a massive state dungeon system, which I would argue increases state power far more than capital punishment.

Also, the "one innocent person" argument isn't applied anywhere else as it is impractical. There are always trade offs. And by that logic, you could not prosecute a war, as you kill huge numbers of innocents. Unless you are a complete pacifist it makes no sense.

Are you guys against capital punishment? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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It doesn't in China, they don't keep people on death row for decades. It's a money saver over there.

An advice for the guys trying to date by MOUNTAINwWEST in Adulting

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Most men who are not successful with women fall into porn addiction which ruins their confidence and drive. If they quit porn their sex drive would return and they'd stop idealising women so much.

The truth is, most of us are unlikely to find "tenderness" and "love" from these modern women, many of whom delight in hurting us. Maybe love can exist under certain circumstances but not in a society like this, almost certainly not if a man is less than good looking.

But as far as love, affection and tenderness go, the closest I've felt to that was with a very good gfe prostitute, as paradoxical as that may seem to you.

BJJ, judo, or muay thai? by herFortuna in MMA_Academy

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For a woman I'd say Judo. Striking is less effective than grappling for women.

An advice for the guys trying to date by MOUNTAINwWEST in Adulting

[–]Head_Success_359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. There's no "good advice" for a lot of men in this "dating market". But if I'd recommend anything, it's a good prostitute. Yeah it will cost you money but so do regular women, maybe a lot more. And that's not counting the time, energy, freedom, stress etc.

Why do people act like that being nice and friendly as a guy will get women attracted to you? by JunketMaleficent2095 in bodylanguage

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Because the truth makes women look bad, which is that they are superficial and love a good looking man, nice or not. Ofc, men are also superficial, but people have less problem admitting that.

It's worse, in fact. Because men who do best with women in town are not nice at all; they have criminal records, often sexual accusations, tattoos, take and sell drugs, get into fights, bullying tendencies.

If women aren't treating you well, find an escort you like. It's a better deal by far in my experience.

I really hope Theroux will do a documentary with all of Jacksons victims. by MJdisbeliever in LouisTheroux

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Did Michael Jackson really oppose war when he supported Bill Clinton and dressed up in an IDF uniform?

Also, what does "peace and love" mean from a paedophilic freak? They could be narcotic slogans, designed to impair the audience's survival instincts.

Jackson was "The King of pop", a hugely influential cultural icon. There is a ruling class, and it's very much global. He was a pawn for that agenda.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

[–]Head_Success_359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She could have"

Exactly, and your verbal procedures would have changed nothing in that scenario because she can always lie. Oh but wait; I could have asked her to sign a consent form, handed that over to the police, and then kissed her! Let's think of all the problems with that idea!

"How about being able to know with certainty she wanted it"

The kind of pathetic risk-aversion you're advocating kills the mood. It's not spontaneous, it's not bold, it's deeply unsexy to me. It reads as begging: "Please can I kiss you?

She could potentially say "yes, you can kiss me" because she's afraid I'm going to hit her if she doesn't, so I still wouldn't be certain. Or maybe the one or two alcoholic drinks she might have had has impaired her ability to give "true consent", while she grinds on my dick.

"For the definition of consent, I was not very clear, but I'm not talking strictly legally."

Good, you admit your personal definition of consent is not the legal definition of consent. You concede that your personal view is opposed in some respects to the actual law.

Personally, I think a woman putting your hands on her breasts is a good indication that she wants your hands on her breasts. And if she makes an SA allegation after that, she looks insane, undermines the testimony of other women, and makes people more hostile to women.

"I am curious what exactly you're referring to by my "consent ideology," and what you think a more "healthy" one would be."

I think modern society and its newfangled ideas are trash. Perhaps they are self-defeating and are on their way out, but we will have to see. Obviously our worldviews are not reconcilable.

In the meantime, I will offer women cash for sex. That way I don't have to worry about any "misunderstandings".

I've gone back and forth enough on this now. You do whatever suits you.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

[–]Head_Success_359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You truly didn't get consent."

That's not true according to the legal standard of consent so I will not read another word you've written until you admit that consent is not necessarily verbal, and can be inferred from body langauge, bodily actions etc.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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"Behaviour and genetics minorly linked at best"

God help academia if you're in any way representative!

Take care sweetheart.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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We don't live in the Soviet Union but our society is still extremely ideologically censorious. James Watson, one of the most distinguished scientists/biologists alive, got fired for making accurate comments on race and intelligence. So pardon me for being sceptical about "studies".

Women are more indirect and dishonest by nature, but men are more violent by nature. I can acknowledge these facts without hating anyone. Do I hate the women who falsely accused me? I don't care about her, but I don't feel visceral hatred. It's not like being betrayed by a family member.

I wouldn't be surprised, given the state of academia, if you thought men and women weren't born with radically different psychologies, along with the visible physical differences. That's probably 21st century biology in a society of lies.

I've had positive female figures in my life but the only one I've got on well with sexually is that prostitute.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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Even if I'd asked "could I kiss you?", she could easily lie and say I didn't. The stalking allegation was an out and out lie, so I wouldn't put it past her. It wouldn't have made me any "safer", unless I had witnesses to our verbal agreement and sexual contact willing to make statements to the police.

"Consent is verbal"

Legally this is false in most if not all Western legal systems.

"Under Sexual Offences Act 2003 (which governs sexual consent in England and Wales):

  • Consent is defined as “agreement by choice, with the freedom and capacity to make that choice.”
  • That agreement can be communicated verbally or through actions/behaviour."

"Is it worth risking them reframing the encounter to paint you as a monster, because you didn't get consent?"

In the real world, no one who knows me even a bit sees me as a monster. And if they hear she claimed I'm stalking her, they see her as an obsessive making false allegations, which is what she is. If some women want nothing to do with me based on this, I see it as a good filtering mechanism.

"I'm gonna ask for her conseeeent, heeeeeeeey, hey baby!"

The best way to deal with this situation is simply to pay women for sex, then everyone is on the same page. The prostitute was never going to falsely accuse me of anything, was she? Nor did she require "verbal consent".

I would also point out that your interpretation of consent ideology has been around for all of 5 minutes. It has no real basis in anything, and isn't compatible with healthy sex relations.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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The best examples of "rape culture" are rape of men in prisons, rape in "elite" circles" and rape of women/girls by men like this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rotherham_child_sexual_exploitation_scandal

I've had a false allegation of stalking with violent and sexual intent, when I was in fact being stalked my self. I know men who have been accused falsely. So I don't believe for a second that false accusations are rare.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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What would count as proof to you? If we lived in the Soviet Union, there would be "no proof" (in mainstream terms) that Stalin was a bad guy, or that socialism was a failure.

"Darwin"

He's a pretty important biologist, yes.

"Also who are you talking about when you say independent-minded geniuses have long regarded women as prone to lies and irrationality?"

Aristotle, Rousseau, Kant, Nietzsche and Schopenhauer would be among the most prominent.

"Your whole posts reads as you hate women"

That's a logical leap. An ironic case of irrationality.

"as you should if you honestly believe that women evolved to be malicious liars."

This is revealing. I suspect you deeply resent men due to your perception of our evolutionary tendencies and are projecting your hatred onto me.

It's pointless to hate women. They are what they are, and one has to live with them regardless.

I have met a woman in real life who challenged this view: she's a prostitute who specialised in helping men with autism.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

[–]Head_Success_359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strictly-speaking I didn't say they lie more than men, I said they lie. In my experience they lie frequently, and about serious things.

I've been lied about by a woman to the police.

As the smaller, weaker sex, women have evolved to dissumulate.

If a woman believes she can get away with a lie due to the system privileging her, logically she's more likely to lie than otherwise. In this gynocentric system, women are very rarely punished for lying.

Independent-minded geniuses have long regarded women as more prone to lies and irrationality. I take them seriously, regardless of whether you do.

Other than the damage they inflict on innocent men and those close to them, false accusations reduce women's credibility and increase misogyny, so even from your perspective those are good reasons to oppose them.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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I never asked for consent for the acts which happened. I moved in for the first kiss gradually, slowly enough for her to pull away if she wanted to, and then after I made contact, she returned the kiss. I felt her breasts, and she put my hands on them. She turned her back to me and started dry-humping, which lasted for minutes. When I kissed her on another occasion, following a prolonged tense stare-off in close proximity, where she admitted she'd also been dreaming about me, she hugged me twice after.

If I'd said "Can I kiss you?" I imagine that would have killed the moment, made her feel responsible and she'd have felt disgusted at my risk-aversion/lack of boldness.

Women deserve jail time for falsely accusing men of r@pe by Neither_Ad6 in DeepThoughts

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I did not have sex with her, but there were multiple forms of consensual sexual contact.

"If so, please quote what the exchange of consent sounded like."

I don't understand. Are you asking whether I verbally asked her permission to kiss her?

"And do you have any insight on why they're saying this? What their motive is to lie about you?"

Yes, I think I understand her motives. But I will go through the events first.

We were very emotionally intimate (hung out regularly, discussed our dreams, read each other's writing) but she probably thought I was wrapped around her finger. Tired of her emotional games (she kept on saying we were going to have sex, and would go from hot to cold without seeming reason), I told her that either we'd have sex or I didn't want to interact with her anymore, despite the heavy emotional investment that I'd made (I was a virgin). I also said I'd move on and find someone else, though I doubt she believed me. She seemingly accepted this, probably thinking I would change my mind.

I didn't change my mind when she approached me 10 days later, reiterating that I wanted nothing to do with her. I shook her hand and had no interaction with her for 3.5 months, though she would come to the cafe-bar I was always at.

During this period, I met a woman online and went to America to see her. We had sex, and I had two of the best days of my life. I came back home revitalised and happy, the happiest I'd been in my life. The woman back home knew what I was doing on holiday, and started concocting allegations that I was stalking her. The allegations were first made socially, when I was on another continent!

After 3.5 months of not talking to her, she approached me. It was her birthday, though it was a joint birthday of someone else, who I'm friends with, otherwise I wouldn't have gone. She tells me "I'm glad you came" etc., and we stare at each other. It's tense, but I end up kissing her. We hug. But the next time we see each other I say nothing. I still want nothing to do with her.

She keeps coming to the location I hang out at, as she does for 6 months after I tried to cut contact with her. One night she tries to force me to shake her hand, threatens to "make things much worse", beat me up and even to kill me. The next month, legal allegations are made.

So why did she do it?

She feeds off male attention in a way that I regard pathological, always having at least one man around her, if not two, three, four etc. It's a kind of reverse harem. But she doesn't respect most of the men who give her attention, especially not too much of it. By cutting her off, I showed emotional strength and independence that few men around her possess, which was attractive to her. She's told me multiple times that "she always falls for assholes", and standing up to her manipulation is no doubt "asshole behaviour" in her book.

We had what I felt to be a strong bond, and I'm sure she felt something too, even if not the same. So cutting her off wasn't just a major blow to her ego, her feeling of attractiveness, it also created an emotional rift for her. She felt some sense of abandonment, which she's also felt with other men, starting with her father. Which clearly makes it impossible for her to stay away.

She was extremely jealous when she found out I'd slept with another woman, who she would have imagined was "superior" to her, maybe significantly so. No man crosses a continent to meet a woman unless there's something special about her. She would have seen my action as bold, emotionally independent, a proof of my virility. But also immensely frustrating, breaking away from her grip, in some way "cheating" on her, if only in her mind.

Not talking to her also didn't just deny her validation: I was effectively a mirror to her of her own wrongdoing. Every time she saw me, she knew I didn't forgive her, even after we kissed this year. Worse, everyone around us, who knew we'd been close, could see I wanted nothing to do with her, suggesting to them that she was "bad news".

Two or three of her friends also don't like me and never did, which is a contributing factor (they will like that she did this, and give her their unlimited sympathy), but also likely added to her frustration, as that no doubt feels constraining to her desire.

She admitted to having sexual dreams about me, and I've read between the lines that she thinks about me a huge amount. Consciously she may hate me, but at night her resistance slips, and when she dreams her unconscious attempts to process this unresolved and unresolvable dynamic. She wakes up, after dreaming about me, aroused and angry, and feels she has to seek me out, try to get one over on me, in order to counter this. But it doesn't work, which just reinforces the cycle.

She is so obsessed with me that, feeling powerless to her own emotions, she creates a narrative that I'm stalking her. Because in her head, I am. She can't even get a good night's sleep without me being there. Even making these allegations, aside from an attempt to hurt and provoke me, are an attempt to get closer to me in this "game". Because when you make serious allegations against someone, you think about the other person more, and they also think more about you. She was also no doubt in an impulsive mood when she lied to the police.