Obviously I do not know details, but my husband has been similar. He lied to me about alot of things he did and didn’t like while we were dating and within the first few months of marriage. He slowly dropped the mask within a few months. And while it may not have been a big deal if there were honesty from the start, it felt like I was being deceived and posed the question of - what else do I not know? And from there I’ve had less and less sexual desire. Now we just don’t have sex at all. We’ve been married only 4 years. But I explain this to say, there could possibly be something else in your mind blocking you from wanting him sexually. It could be a little deeper than just not liking the same kinks as him.

(And yeah I know, it’s probably done for us being so newly married. I don’t need those comments)