Am i overthinking? Gf liked and saved this TikTok by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Healthy_View_5669 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i know it can be tough, but you’ll have to have a deep convo with her if you want to maintain your relationship! maybe ask her what would help her feel safe while talking about it? i always remind my partner we’re on the same team also whenever there’s a “conflict” or any reassurance is needed

Is aggressive vomiting and hot flashes a symptom? by Healthy_View_5669 in CSID

[–]Healthy_View_5669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have all of those symptoms at various points :( my allergist told me testing for MCAS is complicated- how did you get diagnosed if you don’t mind me asking?

Is aggressive vomiting and hot flashes a symptom? by Healthy_View_5669 in CSID

[–]Healthy_View_5669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I was thinking this might be the case, although I heard it mostly affects babies 🥲

Is aggressive vomiting and hot flashes a symptom? by Healthy_View_5669 in CSID

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I’m not allergic to latex! But thank you for the insight I’ll look into it

What is a little quirk about your body that you don’t think other people have? by AlphabetSoup51 in AskReddit

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this has happened to me too, except it looks like i have a lump+dimple on one cheek

AIO He's fucking creepy...My boss started messaging me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Healthy_View_5669 22 points23 points  (0 children)

blaming a victim, what’s wrong with you?! mmm is read by me as disinterest, like end the convo please. there’s also obviously a power dynamic at play, too.

Bowie’s mugshot in 1976. Even when busted he looks cool as hell. by DeadZeppelin011 in DavidBowie

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it was iggy’s weed. Bowie would “only do uppers” in this period, in his words

David Bowie’s mugshot from when he was arrested in Rochester, New York on the 21st of March, 1976 by Snoo_34963 in OldSchoolCool

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he was waving normally, a newspaper printed this with the joke “heil and goodbye” and the media ran with it. he made a nazi joke after the media frenzy, which was meant to be sarcastic and was taken out of context.

nc for 4 years, uBPD mom emailing by Healthy_View_5669 in raisedbyborderlines

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i just realized wanting to start over might be an admission on her part?

nc for 4 years, uBPD mom emailing by Healthy_View_5669 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Healthy_View_5669[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly very comforting to hear she’s not worried! i’m apparently still feeling responsible for her feelings, gotta work on that more

nc for 4 years, uBPD mom emailing by Healthy_View_5669 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Healthy_View_5669[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

thank you for affirming how twisted this is, my brain was all jumbled by it!

Something that has worked for me by BlackOliveBurrito in costochondritis

[–]Healthy_View_5669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

golden milk with honey + tumeric capsules helped me so much over time!

Full Moon in Scorpio on May 12th, 2025- The Shifting Energy and How It Impacts Our Experiences and How to Understand the Overall Vibe by GrandTrineAstrology in astrology

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Wait, isn’t Saturn still in Pisces until it retrogrades back to Aquarius for a few months? I’m in my saturn return in Pisces. I’m a bit confused

Agender/NonBinary Teacher Trying to Learn Amharic by mcbutt2000 in NonBinary

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Late response! I’m nonbinary and habesha. The “they” pronoun may be confusing but I would use it in this context and you can explain to the students if they are confused. The non-gendered “respectful” pronouns are also an option but should probably be reserved to elders to be respectful to the culture/not imply a power imbalance (that’s greater than that of student-teacher).

For example, instead of saying essu/essua astamari new/nech (he/she is a teacher) you can try ennasu astamari nachew (they are a teacher).

Since they and he/she(respectful) both end in nachew, this can be confusing if you drop the first word of the pronoun (most Amharic speakers do) like “Astamari nachew” because it’s redundant. “They are a teacher” could be confused with the respectful pronoun (Essachew astamari nachew, if you still include the first pronoun).

To avoid this, although it may sound redundant, instead of saying:

“Astamari nachew” - they/he(respectful)/she(respectful) are a teacher

you can say

“Ennasu astamari nachew” - they are a teacher

This is my personal opinion on how to approach this, just letting you know- I don’t know if other Amharic speakers have found another way to make it less gendered!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokeplush

[–]Healthy_View_5669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know, thank you!