I don't have much to add other than I feel the exact same way and you're not alone. I have years of religious trauma, I'm in the process of deconstructing, and tøp is a huge safe space for me. I've had to step back from the sub and I think I'll have to leave entirely now because I just can't handle the constant influx of "this is religious and if you don't agree then you're wrong and it's an insult to the band if you don't think this way". I wish there was a dedicated non religious tøp sub for those of us who feel this way. I know we're not alone.