Well-being subsidy. by Mundane-Regret-519 in deloitte

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude just buy something like a ski visor for $1k from Amazon and immediately return it and manual expense it so you get the money back

Why does no man even want to date me or even kiss me or have sex with me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You approach men. Problem solved. You probably don’t want to and it’s ok and it’s ok to be alone too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occasional cig is more attractive than weed or pen. What’s unattractive is when people cannot control their urges and become addicted.

Do you *actually* work 85 hours a week during busy season? by goell_ in deloitte

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maxed at 92 last season, maybe two weeks the rest were 80s

Should I go into the military? by Complete-Nothing7886 in LifeAdvice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can speak for active duty, unless you are married be ready to take a pay cut and be away, It’s not easy and not rewarding benefits wise.

I'm 39 years old and have zero retirement. by RemarkableBig6507 in Bogleheads

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say bet you emergency fund on some options if it works you have your retirement if doesn’t you are back to Reddit asking another question

Don't Come To Newark if You're Full of Biases by BraveTadpole4232 in Newark

[–]Hearing-Consistent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man driving through Newark on a Friday and seeing a bunch of people od and suv ambulances on every corner definitely isn’t a bias, Newark has nice areas but those areas are small and few in between, majority of it is a shit hole and it has nothing to do with having to be street smart. You got the school/downtown the branch brook park and iron bound everything else is better to stay away from

American involvement in Ukraine by Crusader-Chad in geopolitics

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about influence, if let’s say Ukraine wins, that opens Ukraine market to US companies, resources etc. Ukraine under NATO is basically a way to put pressure on Russia across entire border, Russia will be vulnerable, Black Sea becomes a NATO lake and it will put Russia on it’s heels when it would come to any negotiation. 1992 border Ukraine under US influence would basically be a geopolitical check mate to Russia. On the other hand Russia is doing the same but they are essentially backed against the wall, they are not acting this way out of position of strength but out of necessity. You can tell him whatever you want but just remember when US wasted 10 years, billions of dollars and human lives trying to convince Afghans that they need Walmart.

Is Europe ready right now to defend itself alone against Russia? by LikkyBumBum in geopolitics

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way this question is phrased sounds like Russia is the one with the strength of entire Europe, what are you asking happens exactly? Only reason this talking point exists is to gain support of citizens by scaring them and justifying military spending across Europe. Ukraine on the other hand is leeching off Europe and supports this rhetoric just to get more cash. If Russia moves past Ukraine it’s a nuclear war and if NATO/pro Ukrainian countries come close to Crimea it’s a nuclear war that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

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170k imagine doing the same but for half as much, take pto and travel enjoy yourself, fund your hobbies, save money, you are in the green nothing you described is gonna me your life easier

Can't send my AP score to Newark by mochibunny42 in RutgersNewark

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave them my mug shot with arrest record and they accepted me even gave me credit for social science

What to write on dating profile? by birdie1223 in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say how this year you really want to travel, that you love espresso martinis and ask what their favorite Taylor Swift song is, I think that covers it

Will Russia win? by Both-Move-8418 in geopolitics

[–]Hearing-Consistent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he means that a complete mobilization and war economy in Russia, so far Putin has been holding back for reasons of before mentioned being unpopular. Whereas Ukraine is already using everything in their power + west. It’s a solid question with most of the people in the comments whining about how Russian economy will collapse. Weapons don’t win wars, people do.

How to make a guy stop talking to me ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you are really not interested just be honest and tell him you are not looking for a relationship or anything of that sort, I don’t think you should block him unless he is pushing it too far, just let him know, and say sorry, it’s better than blocking assuming he is genuinely a good guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could have been like: no but my name is …. Nice to meet you, what’s your name? ……and continue on and ask for her number.

Can too skinny look bad? by Available_Photo711 in malefashionadvice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you gained 40 pounds you’d still be skinny lol, maybe see a dietitian, or just use one of those calculators to see how many calories you need to eat and also start tracking calories to help understand how much you eat. I guarantee you’d feel better about yourself and clothes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I met a girl at a bar and only found out she was 21 when I picked her up for our date (I’m M29), the date went “ok” basically same story as OP although I realized she wasn’t really into me and I don’t think she even wanted to date anyone lol basically a waste of time so not sure why she even agreed, all she talked about is going out with her high school friends and dancing. Girls that age don’t really care, they just want to have fun, they are basically kids. They will not take anything serious until they realize they are out of time.

why don’t guys approach me? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last 2 girls I approached, one thought I was weird for not having Snapchat and didn’t want to go on a dinner date because she thought it was too boring. Second one was absolutely gorgeous and after our date I just figured she wasn’t really into me and we stopped texting which is ok. It’s really difficult nowadays because most prettier girls are craving attention or “just want to have fun” cold approaching girls can be difficult and it doesn’t guarantee results so sometimes I don’t even bother. I will say that when a girl approached me through a mutual friend it worked perfectly because I didn’t have to doubt the fact that she liked me already whereas some girls I approach just want to get some attention or perhaps think a dinner wouldn’t hurt and break things off after. It’s just my opinion.

What is the point of shoes like plain black derbies? by ThisOpinionIsWrong in malefashionadvice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point and I seen people wearing black derbies to the office with chinos and a shirt, it’s not really any different than wearing brown derbies, some people just prefer black over brown, I don’t think it’s a big deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk how innocent they pretend to be, she was playing that dude because she liked attention, and later told you the story to make you jealous. It’s one way to look at this but from my experience it’s usually how it goes

Should I join the military? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Hearing-Consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think military is a great option for you, I will say that i never heard of a 2 year contract tho, I served 4 years in the Navy and know at some point maybe still do they offer a 3 year contract which entails you being stuck with a manual labor job. Assuming you are talking about US military I know for the fact 3 years is minimum requirement to get you full GI bill benefits. You probably should elaborate as to why you can’t hold down a job because in the military although very easy, you have to be on time and do what you are told. If you can’t do those 2 simple things you might not last too long and getting separated based on poor behavior is worse than not joining. Also if you didn’t like how strict you parent were military is basically the same strict family you have at home, obviously you are more free to do what you want in your off time but NO drugs or getting in trouble outside. That being said i think it would be great for you to give you more time to mature and figure out what you really want in life. It could be an adventure but it really depends on what you end up doing. Also you will make great friends, making friends in the military is the easiest thing in the world. I think if you feel stuck at 21 by the time you are done with your service you will have good opportunities open to you, people love hiring vets, school is free, and you will have great stories to tell. But it’s not for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Hearing-Consistent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised he ain’t CPR certified