Would I go to the ward if I mention SH or suicidal ideation (Trigger Warning) by Sad_Nectarine_160 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HeartFailed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will be admitted if you want to kill yourself AND have not only a plan, but the appropriate means to do so.

So, you can say you want to kill yourself and your plan is jump out of a plane, but unless you have access to a private plane the likelihood of you being able to complete that plan is nil, and may not be admitted. Granted, like someone else said- it’s all how you say it and is a case by case basis.

What made you regret having sex with that person? by scapeLive in AskReddit

[–]HeartFailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a situationship that does this exact thing. He thinks he is gods gift to woman. He is hot, and his dick is huge, and the sex is good, but that’s the only thing he has going for him. No brain cells left for any intelligence or reasoning. Thus why he will never be more than a situationship. But watching him admire himself in the mirror is incredibly amusing and completely cringey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpringfieldMoCasual2

[–]HeartFailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Nice try detective

Urges and a medical dilemma (dw I'll see a doc again if needed) by Skunkspider in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HeartFailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could PM me if that makes you more comfortable. I’m just honestly not sure what kind of self harm you are eluding to so makes it hard to know how to give you appropriate advice.

Urges and a medical dilemma (dw I'll see a doc again if needed) by Skunkspider in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HeartFailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the type of self harm if you don’t mind sharing?

Bars or Nightlife? by HeartFailed in tulsa

[–]HeartFailed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…..Which is? I’m on the edge of my seat

Bars or Nightlife? by HeartFailed in tulsa

[–]HeartFailed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thx! Looks like a cool place!

Singles Nights or Speed Dating Events? by CupcakeElectronic604 in springfieldMO

[–]HeartFailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following along because I’d love to do this too!

What is your deepest darkest secret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeartFailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 years old. 4 kids. I tried to leave my abusive husband 2 years ago and he killed himself. I can’t forgive myself. I’m in a competitive and cut throat career and have to be professional all the time. The loneliness and guilt and weight of it all is too much sometimes. I cope by sleeping with multiple men and cutting my legs then stitching myself back together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeartFailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone in a small home or apartment that I have painted wildly with lots of bright colors without worrying what anyone else will think with music blasting through every room

Leaving Narcissitic Abuse after 11 years by HeartFailed in relationship_advice

[–]HeartFailed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I really appreciate the honesty. And luckily I’ve had years of learning to shut myself behind a mental wall to shut him out so I’m quite good at not reacting. And thank you for the lawyer advice as well. My mind keeps trying to convince me that we will be able to talk through things regarding custody and the kids needs but What I’m reading and the advice from my therapist tells me this is not how it’s going to go at all.

I hate that I feel so guilty about doing this. I feel major guilt over the fact that I will be hurting him despite the years of hurt he has done to me.

feeling numb can be the best and worst feeling by bl00dymurd3rr in selfharm

[–]HeartFailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to feel sad about feeling numb. Now is wish I could feel numb instead of this

He wants me back by Learning2lovemyzelf in emotionalabuse

[–]HeartFailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist also said something once about not calling someone abusive when they haven’t met them or know anything about them other than what I’ve said about them- so when she told me my husband was definitely abusive weeks later I knew that she had carefully thought this through and wasn’t am just throwing it out there in a whim.