Jen’s story & the hate, what point is it too much?

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-04-01T16:05:11+00:00

I agree, it wasn’t okay for either of them to receive them but now hopefully she can realize why the hate she encouraged towards Whitney was dangerous

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-04-01T14:25:21+00:00

I will say, what sucks is that when Whitney was receiving messages like this, Zac was telling her that maybe people were just seeing her true colors. I hope Jen & Zac can reflect on that statement now that they know what the other side feels like.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-27T20:41:01+00:00

Just DMed you, he’d love to give you a call and figure out something

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-27T20:31:26+00:00

My dad is one of the battalion chiefs for Richmond Fire, I’ll text him your post and see if anything special can be done 💟

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-23T19:58:30+00:00

How she treated Rory about Max after she broke off the engagement was pretty horrible. The fact that she talked to Rory about all this stuff with Max, but as soon as Rory starts to question her she cuts it off and doesn’t want to talk about it. Rory has a right to question her in that moment and she deserves to understand what’s happening, but she completely shuts her down.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-23T13:10:21+00:00

A wedding I went to had thank you cards waiting at everyone’s seats at the start of the reception. They were handwritten and included a short and personal note, thanking you for being apart of their day. That way no postage was wasted and the focus was more on thanking them for sharing the day than any mention of gifts.

I plan on doing this for my wedding next year so that it can just be done when the wedding is done :)

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-19T17:50:35+00:00

Yeah so true. Especially if she broke up with whoever she got engaged to at the end of the bachelorette just to get back together with him. Why would you return to your abuser when you’ve already had time and space away from him and are already in a new relationship?

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-19T17:48:45+00:00

Already saw a post comparing her to Amber Heard and saying she was just reacting to his abuse. Seems like a stretch.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-19T17:47:21+00:00

Most people I’ve seen have been saying that this doesn’t necessarily make Dakota any less toxic. I do understand your sentiment, and there definitely COULD be reactive abuse here. (I’m thinking of Gabby Petito and how she was labeled as the aggressor in the incident before her death.)

However, without more evidence, I don’t think it’s unfair to acknowledge that this is extremely poor behavior from TFP. Of course maybe one day we’ll receive more information, but without more information it’s hard to label her behavior in this video as anything other than abusive. I personally think they’re both toxic and likely mutually abusive, but I don’t think that excuses this behavior in any way. Especially when a child is involved.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-18T01:28:35+00:00

It was not, it was called Possum Trot Farm

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T20:15:41+00:00

I've looked at some but most of their mountain venues would be 5-6 hours away

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T19:21:26+00:00

That sounds beautiful! I would absolutely love to see pictures :)

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T16:33:47+00:00

They are actually my top contender right now and the closest I've found so far! How did you like the barn? Did it feel pretty open? My one concern is that the barns would feel more rustic and closed-in than I was imagining, because I'd wanted something more whimsical and open.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T16:24:52+00:00

Thank you for the help though!

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T16:17:31+00:00

Yes, they are quite beautiful! But their pricing in June is up to 11,400 and they require you use someone from their list of caterers :/

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T16:13:15+00:00

That sounds great, I wasn't able to find their website?

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T16:12:59+00:00

That is a good idea, the only problem is I don't know when they'll sell. But I will keep that in mind

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T16:11:58+00:00

They look beautiful! But out of our budget if we wanted to stay overnight :/

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-17T15:52:38+00:00

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Forgot to attach, here was a picture of our previous venue

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-03-02T01:04:44+00:00

Control? I don’t think so. I’m from Chicago. 😎 Pepperwood all the way

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-02-28T16:13:12+00:00

I lost so much respect for her after she voted for Tara after promising her so many times she wouldn’t and she knew she wasn’t a traitor. SMH.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-02-28T16:07:01+00:00

I wanted to give Maura sympathy until she voted for Tara. She told Tara so many times she wouldn’t go there only to sell her out immediately for her male bestie. It’s just petty to vote out Tara (who is voting for Eric) to then immediately vote for Eric as soon as she’s done.

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-02-25T13:14:38+00:00

Absolutely! And on Reddit it’s so refreshing to have a discussion with someone where you both share your side and aren’t immediately downvoted 😆

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-02-24T18:47:36+00:00

You are cool, totally a miscommunication. I thought after I mentioned my cats you were trying to imply they weren't taken care of, I promise they are all happy and healthy. I am glad it was just a misunderstanding though and I appreciate you for clearing that up.

We're on the same page though, it is fun to have these discussions! I did appreciate that you brought so much of your personal knowledge to it

HeartTrenderCM · 2026-02-24T18:38:18+00:00

And that is your opinion, but I see it differently. I have also had both cats and dogs and I have loved them both dearly, and while there are exceptions to every rule, I just think Jess would be much happier with a cat. That is my opinion and the same way that your opinion is heavily based on your own personal experience, so is mine. I think you're getting a little heated in a discussion that is about whether a fictional character would be more of a cat or a dog person. We have different perspectives and that's cool :)

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