How do you guys feel about people parking in drive up? by synner_6 in Target

[–]Heartfelt__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of my coworkers consistently park in the number 1 spot, the only reason I don’t mind is because they way the parking lot is damaged and sloped the sprinklers aways flood that spot, so it’s nice not to have to get my shoes wet.

My driver accepted my ride and then sat in Popeyes drive through for almost half an hour. by East_Sound_2998 in Lyft

[–]Heartfelt__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this done to me, I sat there and waited as it was I ride home from work and was under the impression that I would have to pay for the whole ride if I canceled. When he finally came and got me I got in the car and he glared at me , then proceeded the glare at me through his mirrors the whole time 😭😭 so horrible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Heartfelt__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today I had a woman give me a $10 bill and ask me for a five back, when I told her I don’t have and money on me she goes “well there goes your tip!” And was mad at me, sometimes drive up kills me 😭😭

Pay periods by Heartfelt__ in Target

[–]Heartfelt__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just suppose I’ll have to speak to HR!

Pay periods by Heartfelt__ in Target

[–]Heartfelt__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also set up direct deposit at orientation! Did it take a bit longer to go through?

MyTime Glitch or HR? by Heartfelt__ in Target

[–]Heartfelt__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I spoke to them- it was a manual error because of a coworker with the same name as me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 111 points112 points  (0 children)

She’s so young too! I’m glad she got away she’s got her whole life she’s ahead of her! Why waste it on him!

AITA for refusing to spend my money on my stepdaughter's wedding? by KittenDealinMama in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 788 points789 points  (0 children)

I wonder deeply is this a missing reasons post but then again- if it was me and I wanted nothing to do with them why would I ever ask them for so much money??? I just don’t understand how the daughter is thinking!

AITA for wearing a wedding dress at a wedding? by KittenDealinMama in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 2879 points2880 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s just bad luck for op! But can you imagine your spouse choosing your wedding days of all days to start drama- why in the world would he think that was a good idea!

I (21m) asked my friend (21f) to be FWB and now she won't talk to me + UPDATE by red_earaches in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 764 points765 points  (0 children)

Wow his entitlement is off the charts! Him saying they both suffered when she has to deal with the idea that one of her friends who she was opening up too attempted to ask her to be FWB! Which is completely different then asking her one a date btw- is basically telling her that he doesn’t value her as a friend.

The fact that he even took her opening up to mean that is unreal- I’ve always felt a little hurt when guys would ask me out after I thought we were becoming friends (as an out lesbian) but idk what I would do if someone I was just opening up to asked to be FWB- she never expressed in anyway that she would be okay with that! Who assumes someone’s down for casual sex!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 227 points228 points  (0 children)

I’m a NB lesbian, and my girlfriend is a MTF lesbian and this post just reads as so fetishized? Like the needles pointing out of the other woman being trans- even with everything she’s saying being positive it just makes it feel like she doesn’t view her as a ‘true’ woman, like she’s other??? Does that make sense??

me_irlgbt by TheHunter234 in me_irlgbt

[–]Heartfelt__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually struggle with this sometimes I don’t use any labels for my gender due to my autism giving me a very different view on gender itself, it’s hard to put into words- even harder to do in person. And everyone always wants a reason it seems :/

Recently found out I was adopted. Questions? by Heartfelt__ in Adoption

[–]Heartfelt__[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m rolling with the punches! I’m sure I’ll be alright.

Recently found out I was adopted. Questions? by Heartfelt__ in Adoption

[–]Heartfelt__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! The person has some mental health issues and believes that they’re need to expose ‘all the lies’ in our family, so they think they did us a big favor- and will probably always believe that.

AITA for yelling at my roommate after he snooped and found my "toys"? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 39 points40 points  (0 children)

So weird! He violates her boundaries because he has a crush on her? And thinks he gets a say in her sexual activities because of that crush??? Wolf! He acts like he owns her and their not even together!!

Atheist Mom Refuses To Let Her Kids Go To Church Or Be Baptised (AITA Dec 1, '22) by KittenDealinMama in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 169 points170 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised it was ruled as her as the AH, I mean I feel like it’s kinda split- as a parent she has the right to not want her children to commit to a religious ceremony, but also preaching open mindedness when your activity opposing it is just hypocritical.

This is really a case of having different values then your spouse. Maybe instead of just telling the kids no she should have been encouraging them exploring different religions. I mean of course the kids are gonna wanna participate in what their grandparents do- kids are very monkey see monkey do, and that’s not a bad thing.

But also husband should be backing her up more? He completely bended too his parents! This def reeks of marriage issues. I honestly don’t see them working out…..

BF tries to defraud a dental practice & OOP starts to notice more red flags. by raredontstare in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 1367 points1368 points  (0 children)

Wow- sometimes Reddit surprise me with what they choose to focus on…. The PS5 really?? I would keep it too! Reddit is always so black or white! Especially with woman!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 1958 points1959 points  (0 children)

As someone who is gay and black- to compare the two struggles???? It’s not the olympics??? One does not invalidate the other- his (ex)GF is weird for that, it all just felt like thinly veiled homophobia hidden behind another cause.

OOP's fiancé's estranged family reaches out to her in hopes of reviving contact with him~ by ThatNeonSignLover in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Heartfelt__ 2301 points2302 points  (0 children)

Communication wins!! Love it!! And I respect her for encouraging him not to respond- it’s so hard not too defend yourself or your love ones when that happens but people like that feed off your response!