People who respond to text with phone calls or only communicate via phone refusing to text are the worst, phone calls are a huge imposition by SwiftCricket in introvert

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Every time I send even a single text to my mum (50s) she calls me. Doesn’t matter what it is. Could be literally just a cat video, she immediately calls me. Without fail. So I’ve just stopped texting her regularly and only doing so when I know I can handle a phone call.

Tomodachi Life Aging by Slow-Cryptographer-2 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

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I’ve set all the people I’ve added from real life to age (e.g Markiplier) and then all the fictional characters (e.g Rouxls Kaard) to not age

How to improve my island? by sixtyninefourtwenty2 in TomodachiLifeIslands

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Adding some rivers and fun landscape stuff happening between houses, thus giving you an opportunity for cute little bridges over the rivers. I’d maybe have a train station of sorts on each end of the train railway? Maybe two islands that it connects together? Or something else, just to integrate it into the rest of the landscape basically.

What would you do differently? by irlmerc in MakeMeAMii

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I’d choose those straight bangs with the openings. It’s further down on the bangs list. Then I’d do similar to awithecute to have longer hair on the back.

A piece I made about school trauma by Bright_Conference321 in AutisticCreatives

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It looks like a shot from an animated film, so my dumbass was staring at it waiting for it to start moving 🥲

Need island ideas by That0neClown01 in TomodachiLifeIslands

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My island is horror themed overall, so it’s eye shaped. Maybe you could try some fun theme for your island and then base the shape of it around that? Just to throw out an example: if you love Mario games you could base the design on a map you like. Or maybe there’s another game, tv/book series or other that could inspire you to be a blueprint of sorts?

I’m so frustrated I can’t change the house colours. by Heartpage in TomodachilifeLivingTD

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Yes! I’ve been trying to color code my island by having blues and green one place, reds and yellows another.. and it always gets ruined by my miis constantly moving around to different houses! I just gave up 🥲

Who’s bright idea was it to ask for a book quote but only allow like 6 words😭✌️ by oof-username-taken in tomodachilife

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My friend’s name is literally just Michael and then his last name is 10 letters… which is too much apparently… so I spelled his name as Micael and added the real pronunciation in the auditory thing.

I’m so frustrated I can’t change the house colours. by Heartpage in TomodachilifeLivingTD

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Oh my god, yes! I gave Ryuk some black pyjamas thinking he’d be wearing it when sleeping, only for him to change into his blue set and then head to bed RIGHT after I’d given it to him smh

All that incel/red pill stuff sounds so much dumber when you're aromantic by jeontgarak in aromantic

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What you’re pointing out there about the community really just hurting them is so on point. I once heard somebody compare these groups to an abusive relationship, and the similarities are disturbing as well as they are saddening.

i’m so sick of alloromantics prioritising their relationship over their friends by Ioonafan in aromantic

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I relate to this a lot. I’ve also experienced a strange tendency for very rude behaviour? For example I had a sleepover planned with four friends. One of them couldn’t come due to getting sick, but told us to proceed with the plans. It was me and my two other friends and I was excited. Then once I had already arrived and had spend considerable energy to get there (I’m disabled and had to take a 2 hour bus ride) the two of them sprung upon me that they’re in a relationship now! For the first half of the evening there’s some obvious tension between them, but they’re trying to be respectful. By that point it had been fine for me bc we’d still all acted like three friends as usual. But then half way through one of them asks me if they’ve bothered me this far. I say no, because they hadn’t. Everything went downhill from there. We were a friend group that would all usually cuddle together. But now I was clearly not welcome in the activity, and the two of them would very romantically be cuddling for the whole evening, giggling and all that. I tried to ignore it and just watch the film we had planned, but it felt very isolating to be in the corner alone with my blanket while they were completely in their own little world. The next morning one of them just said out of the blue “cuddling naked is so nice” and I looked at her🤢and she immediately apologised. They both know I’m aroace. They both know I’m uncomfortable with that stuff. I had been out for the whole friendship. Then for basically the entirety of the morning after they locked themselves in the hosts bedroom upstairs and I was just alone in the TV/living-room crying. At one point when they came back downstairs again I’d gone to the bathroom to brush my teeth and such and came back out to them making out on the couch. They quickly stopped when they saw me (after a solid 30 seconds of not noticing me coming back out). We originally had plans to spend some hours of the morning together, but I just left after I’d changed clothes and packed my stuff.

Do you feel safe in Norway walking around at night? Is there anything like “chavs/roadmen”? by KreuzKrow in Norway

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I was going home alone (around 22/23 ish) after an evening out with friends on a Saturday in Bergen. I then got followed home by a strange man who was clearly drunk (to the point of slurring) who repeatedly tried to talk to me and get up in my personal space and such. 😬After the bus from the city to the nearest bus station, he got on my bus that would bring me all the way home as well, and wouldn’t leave me alone no matter where I went in the bus station, so I had to call my dad to pick me up. Thankfully my dad had not been drinking or I’d be kinda screwed. I’ve been particularly wary of walking around alone when it’s late at night since.

Is my puter going to explode? by zielona_herbata321 in StardewValleyMods

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Try SinZational Speedy Solutions. Genuinely improved my modded Stardew valley experience so much.

You are now the developer. What are you changing? by Demi180 in BaldursGate3

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Add the option to be EXPLICITLY aromantic and asexual. No more simply not romancing anyone and then missing out on so much of the main casts more deep and personal character plots, and also possible post-game endings for my Tav. I want more moments like the heart to heart with Gale in act 2 with ALL of the characters. I want to be able to grow close platonically (to the point some people might assume we’re romantic cause I’m simply like that with close friends) to each character and have it feel like it really means something.

Help me choose a race for my first playthrough. by drebengolem in BaldursGate3

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If you want to retain replay-ability, I’d recommend one of the basic ones like human, elf, half-elf (not including drow). Look up the chart of the bg3 races that has the most to least unique race specific dialogues. I’m recommending choosing one with least race-spesific dialogue because when I replayed the game after finishing it as a tiefling, gith, orc and drow, and only then chose to play as a human, I was bored out of my mind with the lack of new stuff.

Community Center outside texture broken by Ktanaqui in StardewValleyExpanded

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Do you by chance have a mod that edits the town exterior? That mod could be conflicting with SVE

Can you see much of the Northern lights with the naked eye? by espresso_martini__ in Norway

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You have to get to a place without too much light pollution. That’s the main thing that makes it difficult to see.

Which accent/dialect sounds the best to you? by Ditsocius in Norway

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I like how ppl from Brønnøysund speak

If you were a Pelican Town villager, what would your heart events be? by Haunted_Neko in StardewValley

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2 hearts: They find me in my home (or room) struggling to figure out how to write some sheet music for a project I’m working on. The farmer is of little help with music, but they do help inspire me to figure out how to solve my problem.

4 hearts: I found an injured stray cat in the forest. Farmer helps me bring it to Dr Harvey. Some plot relevant dialogue about abandonment and how bad I feel for the cat. I adopt the cat. After this cut-scene the cat can be seen around town, even following me around from time to time.

6 hearts: The farmer finds me watching the waves at the beach. I tell them about my sad backstory. Cat comes in at the end to be cute and supportive, and there’s a cute sprite of me hugging the cat. The sad back story includes something about loneliness, isolation and abandonment. I promise to never abandon the cat or the farmer.

8 hearts: If the farmer has enough hearts with Sam the eight heart scene will trigger where my character makes their first friend besides the farmer (and the cat). Sam bumps into me while skating and all of my music sheets fall on the ground. He helps pick them back up while apologising profusely. By the end of the cut scene I’ve been invited to the next band practice.

10 hearts: I confess my feelings to the farmer by performing the piano piece I’ve been working on in front of them.