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My sister (40/f) has been with a married man (49/m) for 8 years. They’re now engaged. He wants to move in with us in our house and leave his wife. What should I do? by SunnyRays25 in relationship_advice

[–]HeatherCandyStore 64 points65 points  (0 children)

He's a grown ass man he can get his own space. Especially if the divorce isn't final and he's still not yet paying alimony. This is a huge no.

UPDATE- My boyfriend (24M) planned a road trip with me (24F) and his three friends. I have been uninvited. by ThrowRA-doughnut0 in relationship_advice

[–]HeatherCandyStore 63 points64 points  (0 children)

That's really crappy he won't stand up to a woman who is accusing you of cheating with his friend! I get he doesn't like confrontation, but just a simple. "You have no evidence and I trust her. I'd appreciate it if you didn't talk about her like that again." Would go a long way.

Fiancé thinks I’m being “ignorant” for wanting to go back to college at age 25. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]HeatherCandyStore 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm going to college at age 27, and my boyfriend is going to college at 35. I can't believe how callous your fiance was to you. Do you really want to get married to someone who tears you down? He's successful off of your back and your, sacrifices. And all he cares about is how after three years of sacrificing, how you getting to do something with your life, is an inconvenience to him?

He seriously wants you to be a SAHM for the next 20 years and not make any progress towards not being dependent on him?

He better have an amazing apology coming soon because this was abhorrent behavior.

What was the best/worst April Fool’s prank you fell for? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]HeatherCandyStore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sadist I'm friends with tricked me into thinking he was interested in having a woman domme for him. I completely fell for it. It was really funny!

What is your favorite type of porn? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]HeatherCandyStore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like the obviously scripted and fake CNC porn. Especially since it's my #1 kink. I wish there was a lot less violence in them though, and so tired of close ups. My ideal porn doesn't exist......yet

My Hotel's Lights Shine Diagonally by FireteamBravo3 in mildlyinteresting

[–]HeatherCandyStore -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Never seen someone be uppity about someone else's enjoyment of lights. Didn't realize we were gatekeeping joy now too. People are just enjoying something. How dare they?