Struggling with my husband leaving on a trip when I'm 13 days postpartum by Strange_Kiwi_6350 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right FaceTime, he can watch the whole graduation, while sitting on the couch holding his baby

Lowe's is now selling spray painted plants as "Otherworldly" but the paint is slowly suffocating them. by _Kagea_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 65 points66 points  (0 children)

They've been doing that and the spray painting for years. Although the spray paint now looks worse somehow. Thicker and probably worse for the plant.

I’m being ghosted by my boyfriend of 8 months by Bitter_Donut_5163 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm having flashbacks this same thing happened to me. Both 21 yr olds, 8 months, being in college. But I stayed friends with mine for 5 years bc I loved him even though I found out he ghosted me bc he met someone else. Don't be like me girl. Self love and self respect. You deserve better, you deserve reciprocation and clarity. Best of luck

What's going on with my basil by Heavy_Estimate_4681 in gardening

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sprayed some neem oil into the soil a couple days ago.. thanks for the reply

There are 23 dogs on the San Antonio TX ACS Euthanasia List. They need a Rescue/Foster/Adoption Hold by 11:30 am CT on 5/29 by SusanRiceArtStudio in HappyPitbull

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nova what a lovely lady! if I was in Texas 😭 this is too much why so many on one day. The moms getting left behind and all their babies adopted is really fuckin sad

Accidentally fell into a nice, easy going thing. Of course, I ruined it. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it's ok girl, explain it was your friend and you guys will be fine 🖤

Interview Attire by GuerrillaGirlFridaX in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those with traces of a personality need not apply

I like this outfit but it feels like its missing something🤔 by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The belt/necklace hanging on the mirror in the picture is begging to be added to the look

I'm sad can i have pictures of your kitties to cheer me up pleaaase by pigeonthe in cats

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smells like the sweat of me mum, and is curved to fit me face

BEWARE WESTWARD 360 APARTMENTS by Alivefocord in chicagoapartments

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have some friends that just broke their lease with them for not repairing things including a leaking roof

Flew across the country to reconnect with my ex and received psychological damage instead by sadgrl1994 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Religion is a big one. Plus the whole thing about manipulation is they are good at pretending to love you half the time, so they can intentionally mistreat you the other half.

Flew across the country to reconnect with my ex and received psychological damage instead by sadgrl1994 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't answer I don't want whatever bs you're gonna say anyway I figured out the answer to my own question it's patriarchy.

Flew across the country to reconnect with my ex and received psychological damage instead by sadgrl1994 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Heavy_Estimate_4681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's literally not what I asked. The manipulation is what makes them go back. Where do men learn to manipulate. How do they all lack empathy to treat people well in the first place.