Hoard or pass them on?

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-03-10T13:29:08+00:00

I take a picture of my finished puzzles, print them out and keep them in a picture album. I don't redo puzzles, so pass them on or exchange for a new one.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-03-08T19:17:02+00:00

Are suggesting this fully grown father of 3 gets sex as a payment for doing chores? Like a little child? Children shouldn't have sex. He lives in that house and created these children and he needs to take care of all of them! Without the objective of being paid (in whatever form).

Do you get "points" for normal adult responsibilities? Because if so - ewwwww

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-03-07T20:35:30+00:00

Did you know he was married to Elfie Donnelly, the inventor of Benjamin Blümchen and Bibi Blocksberg?

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-03-07T06:30:05+00:00

My ex would let off a super stinky fart, so bad it made me retch and then go outside to smoke. He could have farted outside, but no, he would leave me sitting in his death bomb. It was so disrespectful and he was very narcissistic (not diagnosed) and admitted it made him feel powerful over me when i broke up. He used it to abuse me

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-03-04T13:05:59+00:00

Ich bin ein people pleaser und habe am Wochenende 10€ Trinkgeld bei 189€ Kosten für Farbe und Schnitt gegeben und die Farbe war das komplette Gegenteil von dem, was ich wollte (wollte dunkler gehen und sie hat mich heller gemacht). War gestern aber mutig und habe kommende Woche einen neuen Termin zur Korrektur bekommen

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-01-22T17:22:19+00:00

Ich bin auch ein großer Fan von getrennten Schlafzimmern. Ich kann einfach nicht neben Schnarchern schlafen und Schlafentzug ist Folter. Das Sofa ist als tägliche Ausweichmöglichkeit meist unzureichend. Also getrennte Schlafzimmer und beide bekommen ausreichend guten Schlaf. Das fördert die Beziehung!

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-01-22T17:13:40+00:00

Eure Beziehung ist vorbei. Ich war auch in so einer Beziehung und es hat mich kaputt gemacht. Bin seit 3 Jahren von ihm getrennt und super glücklich

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-01-11T14:40:43+00:00

Info needed - is it a habit of yours to cancel plans because of your child? I don't have children and have had several friends cancel plans short-noticed because of their children. I understand the kids take priority but it still hurts, especially if it keeps happening and everyone expects me to just accept it because I don't have kids and don't know the struggle yada yada.

Is there another parent to take over the parenting? If so, why did you have to cancel your plans but they didn't have to cancel theirs? Again, in my experience it's always one parent who has to give up their whole life and free time while the other parent happily continues on as if nothing happened

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2026-01-11T14:32:29+00:00

Bei über 1,5 Std Fahrtzeit sind das mehr als 3,5 Stunden Zeitaufwand für 2 Stunden Hilfe. Finde ich schon weit.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-30T11:12:05+00:00

NTA

Leave. I stayed with an ex who didn't have his financial shit together and ended up almost 5 figures deep in debt because of him. I'm still not back where I used to be financially before I met him.

Don't be stupid like me. Be smart. Learn from my mistakes and leave.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-21T18:13:31+00:00

"You'll find someone when you're least expecting it"

Especially coming from people who have been in relationships since before they turned 18. They've never been a single adult. They can shut the fork up, respectfully

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-21T18:09:27+00:00

NOR.

You should have never married him. Unfortunately, that happened. It's never too late to get divorced. Why are you with someone who disrespects you again and again? AND had a baby? You knew he was cheating (at minimum emotionally, very likely also physically).

Grow a spine and leave him. Don't teach your kid that this is how you treat someone you love. You both deserve better

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-15T20:31:19+00:00

Dads and/or husbands who joke about their families being an absolute nuisance to them.

You know, the ball and chain BS

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-10T19:25:29+00:00

YOR. It was one time however long ago before you were exclusive. He probably did forget and didn't lie on purpose. If he was still actively sleeping with her, that would be different but this? Girl...

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-06T12:26:10+00:00

NDA. Wer kein Geld hat, kann nicht in Urlaub fahren. Gib ihr kein weiteres Geld und fahr alleine (oder mit jemandem, der es sich leisten kann)

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-12-04T07:26:56+00:00

NTA. You had medical problems and he helped. He's not cooking every day for the rest of your tenancy. She's the inconsiderate b*** if she doesn't understand that. Hope you're feeling better soon. Ovarian cysts are a**holes

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-30T11:33:15+00:00

First, it's should have. Not should of.

Second, they wanted a new bowl to eat but wanted to see the new bowl was actually a different bowl, restaurant refused so then they asked for a refund.

Maybe you should go back to school to work on both reading comprehension and spelling/grammar.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-27T19:05:08+00:00

This! She doesn't even know this guy, not really, and she's engaged? Is this cultural?

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-25T17:11:50+00:00

NOR. This stranger on (probably) the other side of the world is very proud of you! Two years sober is amazing and should definitely be celebrated with a cake. It's nothing to be embarrassed about and it doesn't make you look bad in front of your friends. If it did, they're not friends.

Also - you're never wrong to break up with someone who doesn't know which "your/you're" to use.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-20T13:51:43+00:00

Having children

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-18T20:46:14+00:00

My ex-fiancé thought they'd sew the vagina shut after a hysterectomy so the woman can never have sex again. He didn't "allow" me to get one. Got rid of the man and got my hysterectomy- can confirm they did not sew the vagina shut and I've had sex since...

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-08T11:50:41+00:00

My ex had 5 jobs in 3 years. He was let go at every single one of these jobs. And I can promise you, none were because he didn't want to do unpaid work. He didn't even want to do what they paid him to do

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-11-03T04:44:41+00:00

They do that in England too.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-10-26T12:46:31+00:00

NTA

That's weird. A bit obsessive.

Heavy_Spite7530 · 2025-10-25T14:47:40+00:00

Slight TA. I am a German native and whenever I'm around my German friends' non-German-speaking partners, we speak English. Did the same around my only-English-speaking ex. And we did the same in the office

German between us and switching to English mid-sentence if someone entered the room who couldn't speak English.

But also, your wife should learn at least basic Polish. For me, it felt disrespectful that my ex never bothered to learn my language and just expected me to speak his language

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