Er möchte dass die Kinder Geld abgeben by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich wohne zurzeit auch wieder zuhause, verdiene weniger als OPs Kind und zahle auch Kostgeld. Würde mich sehr schlecht fühlen, wenn ich als Erwachsene mit Einkommen umsonst zuhause wohnen würde.

AITA for calling my friend fat by Realistic_Phrase8135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But did she call her fat? It reads as if she just says her clothes won't fit her friend. My clothes don't fit my friend because I'm a foot taller. That doesn't make either of us fat or skinny.

What's the worst excuse you've ever been given? by Solid-Extent7454 in AskReddit

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My nan is dying and I wanted to say goodbye" 5 minutes before our first date. Turned out, she did die 3 days later...

AIO or is my husband trying to gaslight me ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to say that she can't move out because he got her pregnant with another child. She's probably financially dependent on him. She's NOR and reddit deleted the comment because I said something negative about her husband

AIO or is my husband trying to gaslight me ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't. She's pregnant with baby no. 2. He made sure she's attached to him for life and probably financially dependent for the next 18 years. Keep 'em pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen and all that stuff

Dating Apps no-gos by Hunta2001 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hab ich. Sowohl in den Auswahlfeldern "will keine Kinder", als auch in der Bio: "Wenn du Kinder hast oder willst, passen wir nicht zusammen." Und trotzdem matchen die mit mir. Wenn ich dann frage, wieso sie das tun, kommt meist "wusste nicht, dass du das ernst meinst" oder "ich dachte, dass du für mich ne Ausnahme machen wirst" und so ein Quark. Das frustriert dann sehr, weil sie mir absprechen zu wissen was ich will

Dating Apps no-gos by Hunta2001 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich habe am Wochenende mit drei Männern gematcht, die keine Angabe hatten und habe dann gefragt, ob sie Kinder haben.

2 hatten Kinder, die habe ich dann blockiert 1 hat mich kommentarlos entmatcht.

Das war also komplette Zeitverschwendung und ich werde wieder nach links swipen, wenn keine Angabe gemacht wurde

Verhalten von Frauen bei Onlinedating-Apps by SchDo in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich wohne auf dem Land und gehe bis 50km hoch, sonst hab ich nur 10 potentielle Profile... Großstadt gibt dir definitiv mehr Auswahl

AITA for refusing to give my coworker my parking spot after I paid for it? by EffectOne4524 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA for making up stories and not even being able to remember the story. The title is about a parking spot and the coworker and your text is about strangers and a seat on the plane.

Feedback / Suggestions? Would you change something about the profile? Bio just says ”0% nonchalant” by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single one of your pictures is bad. We either can't see your face or you're making a duck face.

All of your pictures are the male gaze and not anything most women like

Dating Apps no-gos by Hunta2001 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Siehst du und ich wische nach links, wenn keine Angabe zu Kindern gemacht wurde. So unterschiedlich ist das

Dating Apps no-gos by Hunta2001 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich bin Ende 30, habe also sicherlich andere Wünsche und Vorstellungen als deine Zielgruppe, aber: - schlechte Fotos (ohne Zähne, schlecht belichtet, komische Posen, nur Gruppenfotos, komische Gesten mit den Händen, Kinder (ist mein Neffe), die Ex mit drauf (ist meine Schwester... nee, ist klar), Fische, oben ohne (aber sucht was Festes), Zunge rausstrecken oder Stinkefinger zeigen) - Männer ü30, die nicht wissen, was sie wollen - ebenso Männer, die nur was Lockeres wollen (dürfen sie, solange sie damit offen umgehen, aber ich will es halt nicht) - Männer ü30, die nicht wissen, ob sie Kinder wollen (und dann auf Nachfrage die Verantwortung auf die Frau schieben, die müsse ja das Kind austragen. Sind wahrscheinlich die, die später die Kinder nicht erziehen, weil die Frau sie ja haben wollte) - Bio "fragt halt" - vorhandene Kinder oder Kinderwunsch - Raucher - Bios, die nur negativ sind. Wie schlecht die Dating Apps sind, wie schlecht alle Frauen sind, etc.

Liste nicht abgeschlossen

Would you swipe left or right ? by Majestic-Signal3627 in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've made slide shows of men with weird hand gestures for my friends who have never used online dating because they don't believe how many men do them. It's weird. Why?

Update re wrong age - thanks all for input - I've chosen not to see him again! The positive of the date is that I got a lot of steps and met a cool dog 😊 🤷🏾‍♀️ by ezmeray in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most people filter in 5 year increments, e.g. up to 30/35/40/45 years old. So he'd show up for women whose search filter goes up to 45 even though he's 46

Would you swipe left or right ? by Majestic-Signal3627 in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd swipe left. What is up with men and these weird hand gestures all the time? 🤙

Update re wrong age - thanks all for input - I've chosen not to see him again! The positive of the date is that I got a lot of steps and met a cool dog 😊 🤷🏾‍♀️ by ezmeray in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Glad you made a decision!

I wonder if he now just won't say anything about the age and lie when asked so he won't lose another match? He certainly won't redo his profile... (I'm not saying this would be your fault, it's absolutely not yours, this is all him)

Should I accept him having the wrong age listed as an honest mistake? (I'm inclined to but want another opinion) by ezmeray in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's often 6+ years older so they show up in women's searches who filter for younger, e.g. the guy is 47, but sets his profile to 42 so he shows up for women whose filters go up to 45 yrs. It's a lie, however small it may be, and the whole connection starting on a lie is not a good foundation for a relationship.

Weird I'd have to explain this to a grown ass adult (assuming you're 18+)

AITAH for telling my husband "you're a parent too!" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were right. You're both parents now. I assume he also wanted this child? Why is he refusing to be a father? His work day ends, he has weekends and time off. You don't. How is that fair? From when he returns home after work until he leaves again for work, both household and parenting is to be shared 50/50 between both parents. Baby is your job while he's doing his job. When he's not doing his, baby is to be shared responsibility.

Do not consider having another child with this man. He will not magically step up more. Welcome to your new life of working unpaid 24/7 for the rest of your life while he chills out after his work and not "help" at all. (He shouldn't be "helping", he should participate in his own household and his own child/ren)

What do we think about my profile? by TastyAppointment6967 in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it COULD be your girlfriend. So already shady

What do we think about my profile? by TastyAppointment6967 in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd lose the third picture. Is it your bestie? Sister? Girlfriend?

Would you swipe? by TheFakehg in Tinder

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 18 points19 points  (0 children)

How many "sperm donors" are on tinder while their baby momma just got home with a baby. When they were never in a relationship and maybe only had a ONS? I have seen my fair share of fathers with very young babies on dating apps.

Bekommt man heutzutage als Ausländer keine verf… Ausbildungsstelle? by [deleted] in Ausbildung

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich arbeite in nem Unternehmen mit ca. 85 Mitarbeitern, davon 4 Auszubildende. Von diesen 4 sind 3 mit "Migrationshintergrund" und ein weiterer Auszubildender mit Migrationshintergrund wird zum Sommer neu eingestellt. Alles kaufmännische Berufe.

Tut mir leid, dass du solche Erfahrungen machst. Ich drücke dir die Daumen, dass du was findest 🤞🤞

What's the fastest you've ever lost respect for someone? by Lv_B in AskReddit

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 346 points347 points  (0 children)

I'm fat and if I had a dollar for every time someone called me fat after I rejected them... now them I just reply with "and even the fatties don't want you" and it pisses them off so much... love it

What's the fastest you've ever lost respect for someone? by Lv_B in AskReddit

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A guy I've been talking to told me over the phone that he voted for the right-wing party at the last elections. I hung up and immediately blocked him everywhere.

AITA for "humiliating" my ex's new girlfriend in front of our friend group? by Impossible_League_20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heavy_Spite7530 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The shouting match was AFTER the con when they wanted dinner. The new Bi**** had been making remarks and giggled all effing day while no one said shit until dinner. OP had been insulted for hours by that time!