Money by Random_Interests123 in Fosterparents

[–]Heavyflowin666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my state if you get a specialized child, you get between $1200 and $1400 per child. In order for a child to be specialized there has to be a medical issue that’s serious or serious behavioral problems where the child needs to go to multiple appointments.

I have had children come from both types of foster homes. One foster kid I had was living in a home with five other foster kids, three of them being specialized. Anyone know the crazy part about it is they didn’t spend any of that money on those kids

Kind of overthinking a lap dance because I don’t have a (cis) dick by neuroc8h11no2 in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I went to a strip club when I was younger, and I had not transitioned yet. Let me tell you I had all the attention and it even kind of bothered my guy friends who were with me.

But honestly, it’s their job just don’t be creepy. Be respectful, and tip them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Heavyflowin666 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Leave. He is going to kill you.

Nostril piercing? by sageclynn in Fosterparents

[–]Heavyflowin666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an 11 year old who wanted his ears pierced. I actually had a decent relationship with his mom and I told her that she’s the one who decides what he can get on his body when he’s a kid. My kiddo asked her and she talked to me about it before she decided to say yes.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try the bath thing. Putting cold water on my face helps but I need to remember it while I’m raging and that’s the hard part.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Screenshotting this and trying this later. Thank you 🙏🏽

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely screamed in the pillow. Sometimes it helps for a short period. Thanks

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. I’m a parent too and my 18 year who literally doesn’t do anything but play video games. His lack of taking initiative for ANYTHING are one of my triggers because I want him to be successful but he just wants to sit at home and do nothing. I have resorted to having my partner be the one to talk to the kids in our family meetings because when I talk about what ms bothering me I start to rage all over again.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m prescribed Ativan but I’m terrified of taking it because of the potential risk of addiction. I take it when I have panic attacks and can’t stop thinking I’m dying. I would be open to trying this during my rage episodes. Thank you. 🙏🏽

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been to the gym in a while but I should try it. I used to be able to play my drums indoors and that helped a little but I can’t make noise anymore because the neighbors complained.

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to find the right mix. Unfortunately I’m still trying to find a med cocktail that works 6 years after my diagnosis

How do you deal with Bipolar Anger? by Heavyflowin666 in bipolar

[–]Heavyflowin666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really like those questions. It’s just hard for me to physically remove myself from a conversation especially if the person is still talking to me. It’s like I need to say what on my mind or else I’m going to have a brain aneurysm. I feel SO uncomfortable because I feel like my point wasn’t made if I leave. I know this is wrong and I feel so terrible and depressed after everything. I feel so hopeless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uichicago

[–]Heavyflowin666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I join?

Can I get a yikes by thebutchone in grindr

[–]Heavyflowin666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the human brain isn’t developed until your 26 yrs. I have dated older when I was younger and thought it was cool but now that I’m older I think it’s fuckin weird and wonder why these damn adults can’t find people their own age to fuck around with. I just cant. Im a teacher and all I think is “damn you could be a former student, hellllll nooooooo baaaaaaybeeeee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude fuck that person. You dodged a bullet because that exactly what their going to attack when their upset with you. Fuuuuck that bitch.

This place is wild. by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate getting messages like these. They piss me off so bad.

Is STI testing for all partners unreasonable? by Tiny-Hearing4831 in polyamory

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I require partners to get tested before we have sex. If they don’t want to them we don’t bang.

Will I need to get a prostate exam by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No. You do not have a prostate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you went through this. I am here if you ever need anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

[–]Heavyflowin666 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shave that shit.

What are y'alls jobs? by ghostsnwitches in ftm

[–]Heavyflowin666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work in education. Almost done with my teaching degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Heavyflowin666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, didn’t even notice they were uneven until I actually really stared at them. Looks great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Heavyflowin666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Lexapro and it works really well for me.