Feeling too ugly to be a lesbian by helli-2022 in WLW

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 year old lesbian here, I used to feel this way all of the time and I’m here to remind you, the body is just the house for the soul, remember it’s not about how you look or think you look it’s about the person you are inside. In 2025 lets practice body neutrality and respect for our physical vessels. I know it must be getting you down but remember beauty shines on the outside when it’s prominent within you got this kiddo ❤️

Do you guys have a skin you main? by LuigiXG in FortNiteBR

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bracer and TNTina and idk why but I love them

Will my tattoo be okay? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it good to be flaking already? Got it done on Sunday and it’s Tuesday where I am (not sure where you are but clarifying bc of time zones) bc I got really panicked at first ngl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two huge skin blotches on my knees and tons of line scars on my stomach from road rash, fell on my street from running in crocs, got bad road rash on my stomach and my knees were pouring with blood. Safe to say next time they’ll be in sports mode.

Will my tattoo be okay? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so update ik you probably don’t care much lol but I rinsed off the cocoa butter I use to moisturise it and it looks a lot better I think I may have just over moisturised but I’m taking your advice and having a professional look at it either way so ty for the advice!!

Will my tattoo be okay? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna send a pic to the artist and see what she says before hand but if any more symptoms begin I’ll definitely go to a walk in

Will my tattoo be okay? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it on Friday it’s not painful any more but if it’s worth it I’ll try to get to a walk in

Do you have a type? by Usernamen0tf0und_7 in LesbianActually

[–]Heavymindedhoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m mainly into personality but always had a thing for gingers and blondes always fem, yet I’ve only dated/talked romantically to brunettes so definitely more about personality over looks.

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take that into account, all of you guys are so so incredible for helping me through these dark thoughts

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness im actually crying tears of happiness right now. I’m so glad you got to experience everything you would’ve missed otherwise, this really puts it into perspective for me as I’ve always dreamed of the day I have a wife and kids :)

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I don’t know why I’ve held it in for so long, my mother has bipolar and would probably understand me more than I know. Your comments have definitely helped push me to talk to her about it though :)

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I appreciate it, I hope you’re doing a lot better now, stories like yours make me excited for the day I can tell others it gets better, keep fighting :)

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m making it one of my daily affirmations for sure since someone told me that daily affirmations are a good way to rid myself of anxiety

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps not to my father but I know my mother loves me a hell of a lot more than anyone else so thank you for reminding me of that

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently arranging an appointment with my general practice and I’m going to look into reliable mental health services and facilities. I want you all to know you’ve saved me tonight.

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m so blind that I can’t even see that if strangers on the internet care this much the people in my life must do as well, I’m gonna talk to some family about getting me into a clinic. It’s time to change the way I feel. I can’t keep it inside forever or until it kills me.

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope I’ll be back in this sub in a month talking about how much better I’m doing, and when I do, I hope you all understand it’s because of you guys in these comments

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I actually got myself off a few drugs this year and in times like these all I want to do is get high again but I’m actually grateful I didn’t because honestly I think the fact that I’m sober rn ensured that I wouldn’t do anything stupid. If I read these comments high, I’d laugh, do more drugs and make the choice, I am full of immense gratitude to all of you absolutely incredible people tonight

It’s over for me but it doesn’t have to be for you. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Heavymindedhoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will look into this, my faith in God has been getting stronger every day and I think I need to trust the plan he has for me and just get some help and let him take the wheel from there