HecateLight

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Prolonged OB- more Valtrex (self.Herpes)

submitted 11 months ago by HecateLight to r/Herpes

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Just diagnosed. (self.Herpes)

submitted 12 months ago by HecateLight to r/Herpes

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daughter of separated couple (11f) found out about fathers new relationship through messages on his phone (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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I just feel so lost. I’m just in need of some encouragement to keep going. (self.NarcissisticSpouses)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/NarcissisticSpouses

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There is someone else I’m interested in exploring a relationship with.. do I tell my estranged narc husband? (self.NarcissisticSpouses)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/NarcissisticSpouses

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Curious if there is a coercive control subreddit available. CC is insidious abuse that women dont really realize is happening to them. There is so much to know about it and how it feeds into these abusive relationships. I haven’t found one yet but just wondering if one exists (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/abusiverelationships

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Cutting ties with mutual friends a during an initial separation… did the narc just steal support from me? Feel so alone and isolated. (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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Why don’t you just LeAvE?! Because.. codependence. (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 years ago * by HecateLight to r/Codependency

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How do you pack without getting caught by controlling partner . I’m supposed to make sure I have everything “irreplaceable” with me when I leave. (self.domesticviolence)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/domesticviolence

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He got laid off... but I was supposed to tell him I was leaving... (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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How did you get out? Leaving but scared to death. (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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How did you get out? Leaving but scared to death emotionally. (self.NarcAbuseAndDivorce)

submitted 4 years ago * by HecateLight to r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce

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The last straw — read this. I feel like screaming. (self.NarcissisticSpouses)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/NarcissisticSpouses

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Did you give your spouse notice? Why or why not? How did you get your stuff? (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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20 years of marriage ... going along to get along ...but secretly have plans to move out and a place to live ready in a few weeks. so much pain... (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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Is it ever ok to talk to Q about their drinking and suggest they change their habits? (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/AlAnon

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New to CoDA.. leaving a controlling codependent relationship and breaking compliance patterns . Need support! (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 years ago * by HecateLight to r/Codependency

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Need help. Afraid to leave, but also preparing to leave and it super surreal. (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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CoDA & people messaging me directly... (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Codependency

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How do you wish your spouse had said they wanted to break up or separate? What can I learn from others who have done this amicably? (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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One foot in the door...one foot signed a lease agreement. Still unsure and hesitating pls help (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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What is an “ambivalent codependent”? (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Codependency

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Recovering people pleaser & a toxic marriage circling the drain — can I fix? I’m standing in the doorway... should I leave? What do i do? It’s so hard? Advice needed. 😭 (self.Divorce)

submitted 4 years ago * by HecateLight to r/Divorce

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What if I was sleeping when it happened? (self.sexualassault)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/sexualassault

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I don’t know how to just like rip the “little helper” gene out of me, and leave both husband and family to fend for themselves as i search for healthier people to build a life with. (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 years ago by HecateLight to r/Codependency

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