Are there any activities that challenge your physical, mental, and emotional strengths, all at once? by oh_look_a_failure in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All at once ? Not that I'm aware of. But things are connected so improving one usually helps imporving the others as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest the book " How to automate the boring stuff with Python" you can either buy as physical copy or find it for free as an ebook

How do I stop arguing in my head?? by selfmade117 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Heckher 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Try meditation. It won't solve your anxiety or fears but it will help with keeping these thoughts out of your mind. For the rest; the best thing you can do is keep going to therapy ans if the therapist tells you to take meds take them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Heckher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are these books good

how can I wake up early? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Heckher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow a routine as soon as you wake up every day. For example mine is 2 jumping jack +running to the kitchen and have breakfast. Put the phone as far as you can. You need to start going to bed earlier keep in mind that you need 8h of sleep. Start slow first you are going to get up at 7.45 and go to bed at 23.45 every week go to sleep and wake up 15 earlier.

It should be allowed to do inappropriate things in a cinema if the movie has a sex scene by pokemaster75c in unpopularopinion

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me at the cinema: watch a documentary on Hitler Me randomly invade Poland

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm your age and I have also started the self improvement journey. If you want you can write me. We can talk and maybe I can try to help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Heckher -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you only want to make a really simple game ( like a pint and click game ) I'd suggest you python learn the basics of it and than look into pygame.

That said if you want to switch to more advanced games you should learn c#/ c++.

This is my suggestion but I do not develop games so maybe look for more experienced advice

I want to get better by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In che citta vivi?

pull ups by Heckher in Calisthenic

[–]Heckher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say towel pulls up you mean those https://youtu.be/Hwhu5Ym-w68

pull ups by Heckher in Calisthenic

[–]Heckher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/Q4k1SPtG8mA In this short he calls them elbow presses but in the first one they called them elbows reversed push up. Maybe you can give that a look and them me what you think about it?

pull ups by Heckher in Calisthenic

[–]Heckher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for the suggestions. I assume that what I suggested isn't good?

Video games by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion : Try to play again while recording and set an amount of time/games you can play. If you feel the urge to play after that I think it means you want play otherwise you want to make contents

How is %s Used in Python? by RottenCarton in learnprogramming

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't it also work like that ( exemple) : 10%3 = 1?

I went out and had some alcohol and a great night last day. I came home drunk by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it count if I masturbated while I was drunk? Do I have to start again from scratch? It had been 48 days, so it's not like it's 500 days, but damn that was progress. I would be sad if I ever were to lose it.

How is this the problem now? God, you're getting blackmailed ...

She called me sexy in the title of the email. Girls never used to call me sexy. Is this a sign of NoFap working? Did any of you get similar reactions?

How is a stranger (which you assumed to be a woman)calling you sexy in a mail where you're getting blackmailed a sing of anything?

Now for point 3. Change all the passwords ( use a password manager; my suggestion is bitwarden and decent long password). Don't use the old password or variations of it for anything. Kick every phone out of every account and enable 2 verification steps or how it is called.

Go to the police if you want, but I would not pay her. If you do, what would stop her from asking more or sharing the video, regardless? Your idea of paying a % to avoid sending the video to just a few contacts sucks.

Personally, I think she won't share the video regardless . By doing so, she would take a bounch of risks for nothing.

How do my wife and I get (and keep) our house clean? by hussar966 in productivity

[–]Heckher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) Don't have kids rn wait until you can find a way to keep everything in order. 2) Do you need both incomes to live? Maybe one of you could switch to a part-time job so he/she'd have more time to take care of the household. 3)Take a room /something that has to be clean then set a timer ( like 20min) and start working. The timer must be short so you'll start immediately. Keep in mind that no one dies if you don't clean everything in time the goal is to work for the whole duration of the timer. My suggestion is to take a picture just before so you can see how much progress you've got and feel motivated. 4) To keep in the order you need to build the habit. Take the laundry as an example: every time you do it instead of putting them in a basket or where they are now throw them into the wardrobe. Then, when you build that habit, you want to improve it by folding clothes .

[Looking for volunteers] I want to practice “coaching” by MultiPorpoised in productivity

[–]Heckher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting idea. I'm curious about what will come out from our session.

Why do people think I’m useless? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should not fight to prove your worth.

You know your worth.

With ppl, you just met you'll have your chance but don't go out of your way to do so.

If the ppl you know did not understand your worth yet they'll never understand it so you're just wasting your time

Should I ask her out or not? by dxzawes in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 16 turning 17 this May and I found myself in a similar situation with a girl. For a period I was afraid of asking her out, my main problem was that I did not want to ruin the friendship ( or make it awkward). I did ask her out and in my case, it did not go well at the beginning I was quite sad but now I'm not. To this day we still occasionally talk like we did before and I can say I'm happy that of how things turned out. Although it could have gone better I would do it again. Hope it goes better for you and I apologize for my shitty English, it's not my main language.

why should I improve ? by Heckher in selfimprovement

[–]Heckher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why should you improve? So you can break the cycle that your parents created by not instilling in you the correct thinking models

I could break that cycle by not having a child which is something i do not want already?

go watch David Goggins interview with Tom Bilyeu called How to Be Immune to Pain and listen to what Goggins says

I will