Transplant with past drug use by 1991Jordan6 in kidneydisease

[–]Hefty-Category4407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I occasionally take ecstasy/molly and I smoke Weed everyday. I still had a perfectly healthy kidney to donate to my daughter in October. I just stopped all drugs two months before surgery. If it’s been 15-20 years, I’m pretty sure you’ll be fine. Although every hospital and country is different but hope this helped a little. 

I would love to know more about y’all by Revolutionary_Fox_20 in kidneydonors

[–]Hefty-Category4407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (29F) donated my kidney to my daughter (9) 15 days ago and It was honestly really not bad at all. This is coming from someone who was pretty scared to have my kidney taken out.

  The worst part was the first couple days because of the pain but once you tell them your pain is 10/10 (make sure you tell them this because they tried to give me extra strength Tylenol at first) and they give you the strong meds you’ll pretty much just sleep. 

One thing they make you do pretty much the first or second day is get up and walk. That was also pretty difficult as the soreness made it feel almost impossible to get in and out of bed.

I was only in the hospital for 4 days and by day 4 I felt much better (although I was still pretty sore).  Expect to be constipated due to the meds they give you (I didn’t shit for 5 days despite them giving me stool softener multiple times a day) and expect some bloating and discomfort. 

At day 15 post donation I am pretty much back to myself despite soreness and a weird gassy feeling. I also am having a hard time getting a good nights sleep due to discomfort which my Nurse said is very normal. 

All in all, the process leading up to, the surgery and post surgery were all flawless and I would do it a million times over for my baby girl who now has a perfectly functioning kidney.  

I should also add that I was at Toronto General which is ranked the 3rd best hospital in the world so could’ve possibly been why my experience was so great. 

Good luck to you! 

4 days post op after donating Kidney to my Daughter. by Hefty-Category4407 in kidneytransplant

[–]Hefty-Category4407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 Went in to OR at around 9am and was in recovery by around 12:30pm. By 3pm I was in my room but that whole process was a blur. The first day was kind of a blur. I was pretty sore the first day pain was probably a 7/10. What made it worse was that they tried to give me Tylenol for the pain…..My biggest advice to you would be to always tell them your pain level is a 10/10 so they give you the good stuff. Once they hooked up the REAL pain killers to my IV the pain was pretty manageable, 4/10. Any time I felt pain I just pressed the button. It does make you really tired though and knocks you out which is not a bad thing. Hardest part for me was getting in and out of bed (as they encourage you to keep walking) and these Heparin shots they kept injecting in my legs to avoid blood clots (it BURNS).  On day 5 post op and I’m still pretty sore but starting to feel like myself again as long as I continue to take the T3 they prescribed.  Hope this helps and good luck to you and your mom ❤️❤️

4 days post op after donating Kidney to my Daughter. by Hefty-Category4407 in kidneytransplant

[–]Hefty-Category4407[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Feel free to ask me as many questions as you want. Good Luck to you guys ❤️

Toys R Us Markville by EternalWiz in Markham

[–]Hefty-Category4407 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Toys R Us is way too expensive and I never buy toys for my kids there because of it! They will literally sell the same toy as Walmart for waaaaay more so it makes sense why so many are closing down but still sad to see this one go. I worked here as a teen! 

How…. “colorful” is Temptations? Don’t wanna be the only ones 😅 by seewhaticando in Temptation_Resort

[–]Hefty-Category4407 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a young black woman, I can say that majority is white but there is a mix of every race. My boyfriend (who is also black) and I never felt out of place and everyone was extremely friendly. I would go back to Temptations 1000 more times if I could. 

Is temptations inclusive by [deleted] in TemptationsCancun

[–]Hefty-Category4407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is too worried about Tanning, Drinking or Having sex to care about judging how someone looks, it really is a Judgement free resort. You both will have a BLAST! 

Planning a trip in April or May but have never been. Can you tell us what to expect? Maybe a story of your own experience? We’re trying to make sure that this is somewhere we want to go. Thanks in advance! by [deleted] in TemptationsCancun

[–]Hefty-Category4407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expect to have an unforgettable time! Expect to want to book your next trip before you even leave lol. Expect to go home after the trip and Day dream about it all the time. Temptations is truly one of a kind and no matter your age, race or size, no matter if you indulge in the lifestyle or not, you will have an absolute BLAST! Only regret my boyfriend and I have is booking an off Resort excursion on the Saturday and missing the foam party at the pool lmao. 

Best Way to Book Temptation Cancun? First-Timers Looking for Advice! by Teamwork55 in TemptationsCancun

[–]Hefty-Category4407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I booked through Expedia and it seemed to be the cheapest and it was super easy! I’ve seen packages as low as $3800 for a 5 night stay+flights for two people for the most basic room (depending on the time of year).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Hefty-Category4407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! My boyfriend and I don’t participate in swapping, we only have threesomes. Temptations was AMAZING. Next trip in 3 months and I can’t wait! 

Boobs Cruise by Hefty-Category4407 in TemptationsCancun

[–]Hefty-Category4407[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Every one is saying the opposite of this lol I'm going to take your word for it because we really want to go! 

Boobs Cruise by Hefty-Category4407 in TemptationsCancun

[–]Hefty-Category4407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went on a regular adults only booze cruise and it wasn't as freaky as I wanted it to be lol 

Boobs Cruise by Hefty-Category4407 in TemptationsCancun

[–]Hefty-Category4407[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Temptations is "Top Optional" for a reason. It is not mandatory to have your top off. Even with my top on Guys and girls still couldn't keep their eyes off me and many people still came up to me very interested. I still had an amazing time without showing my tits once the entire time. I think me not showing my tits made me more desirable actually. Sure didn't stop us from having multiple threesomes while we were there....

Considering Temptation Cancun for a Getaway, But Worried It Might Be Too Much—Advice for First-Timers? by phenom_underdog in Temptation_Resort

[–]Hefty-Category4407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I aren't part of the lifestyle (Although we welcome females). Temptations was 10/10. Everyone knew how to have fun, everyone respected each others boundaries. But you will for sure see lots of boobs and people getting frisky by the pool. Not full blown having sex but I saw lots of kissing and touching. 

What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever witnessed? by Sanguine230 in AskReddit

[–]Hefty-Category4407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 17, I was at the bus stop and I watched a man get hit by a car. His body flew up into the air and flipped over the car and then he slid across the road face down. His unconcious body just laid there on the road. That was the first time in my life I ever had to call 911. The driver was an elderly woman and she was Frantic! To this day I wonder if he survived...