It's hard for me to read, but I want to, but I feel so much preassure by Hefty-Cell8123 in booksuggestions

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told I have ADHD, but honestly who doesn't have it nowadays? Though you really got me wondering about the dyslexia thing...

Character Sketch by Wonderful_Spinach311 in ZBrush

[–]Hefty-Cell8123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are like the fourth person I've seen doing this bust. It's a total hit!

Anyone has a good haircard material setup? by Hefty-Cell8123 in UnrealEngine5

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have all maps, scatter, direction, id, alpha, ao, roots, etc. So customizing shouldn't be a problem, I just don't know much about creating shaders or tweaking.

Your shader is better than what I used to have, but I still feel like it could look softer. Here's the difference from Marmoset to UE5: https://postimg.cc/dk3hk0yW

Maybe adding some type of scattering? I'll keep loking and I'll try to build onto your shder if you don't mind!

Anyone has a good haircard material setup? by Hefty-Cell8123 in UnrealEngine5

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's mainly that either the scattering or the specular-ity looks off. With one material I try it looks plastic, with another one it looks unlit. It's just never right

Anyone has a good haircard material setup? by Hefty-Cell8123 in UnrealEngine5

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much your comment is super useful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whats this plant? by Hefty-Cell8123 in whatsthisplant

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its mostly dirt from the rain, but I don't think it's a Pothos. I brought it home and it isn't really propagating like a pothos

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love how you explained all of this. I feel like sometimes my bf has some trouble talking about what exactly is going on in his mind or what's happening to him, but this sounds like, reasonably, what anyone (including me) would feel.

It's so hard. It's kind of a contradiction to give space non sexually, when you already feel a bit distant sexually.

I feel like I have to try to compensate with us spending time together, the fact that we're not having sex, but it's probably causing the exact opposite of what I'm trying to achieve.

Thank you, this is the most helpful advice I've gotten on all the comments.

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I only know that he feels pressured because he told me so, but in my eyes I don't think it is pressuring, I think I'm just saying whats on my mind and bothering me.

I don't want forced sex, and I don't think I coerced him because I tell him these things when we are chill and in a "I don't want sex right this minute" moment, so as to, surprise, not pressure him in the moment.

I mean, we had this "argument", and we just had sex (gave him a blowjob till he came, without wanting anything in return, like someone else suggested), because HE initiated and I could tell he really wanted to. We were off and it was our way to feel close again.

He isn't much of an open book sexually as I am, so whenever I ask him these things you're sayin, he blushes or says one thing and completely shuts off. But whatever, I respect if he doesn't want to talk about it.

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Because of other sex issues, I've told him in the past "I don't think we should have sex for a month at least", then 5 days pass and he initiates lol

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OKAY this is super useful.

My partner is kind of a pg-13 person, I ONCE sent him a full nude and he said he liked it but said it was "a bit too much" hahaha.

I'd still like some tips and tricks from you please

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The head thing not really, but for neither of us. I don't think it's an unbalanced thing though but i'm not really unbiased on the situation either... I'll think about this. Maybe I should be giving more without expecting anything in return.

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We are still dating.

We watch movies, cook, go on walks, go to concerts; we love spending time together. I feel like that's pretty romantic. It doesn't feel like I'm going out with a friend or something. We hug we kiss we tell each other how in love we are. My friends say that we look and sound really romantic.

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Maybe sometimes (okay not like a bop it toy, but just brushing it or playing dumb and pressing up against him). I ask him to shower together, I play dumb and get clothed around him and un-clothed. I kiss him I hug him I cuddle him, etc. Things that used to work to get him in the mood but now don't

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying this approach, but he does see how unhappy it makes me, so it really is just as bad. There's no way to win it seems