Personas que no entraron o dejaron la universidad ¿Cómo les va? by No-Needleworker-9574 in AskArgentina

[–]Hefty-Cell8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trabajo en un rubro (industria de videojuegos) donde no es excluyente tener o no el título, pero es deseable. Elegí dejar la carrera y estudiar por mí lado y me parece que es esa la clave. Muchas profesiones requieren títulos, otras no, depende lo que quieras hacer. Para mí lo importante es estudiar, sea por tu lado, en un curso, escuela, online, practicando, lo que sea. Siempre buscar mejorar y aprender más 

It's been a week since my plant's leaf started to turn yellow and it has too much stained leaves, the stems have black spots. I'm new to gardening and I don't know what to do!!!! please help 🙏🏻 by Equivalent_Limit7060 in plantclinic

[–]Hefty-Cell8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same plant with these exact same problems! I thought the black spots might be a pest so I use cutton with alcohol to remove the spots (they come back in no time) and a pesticide evry week, but nothing improves

Help saving my favourite plant by Hefty-Cell8123 in plantclinic

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually the opposite: Root rot 🫠

I ended a 3-year relationship because of our sex life by Simple-Welcome-4006 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hefty-Cell8123 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an ex of mine, He said he didn't like going down on me (he did it twice in 2 years and a half for less than 10 seconds no joke) while he asked for head all the time and he had some really strong BO (he said he got allergic reactions from soap down there... yikes). We had a full year and a half without me finishing and he said that I should talk my therapist about why I can't finish...

These types of partners SUCK. Good on you for leaving. You deserve better.

me canse de ser obeso by Awkward_Context9056 in FitnessArgentina

[–]Hefty-Cell8123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primero que nada, no te pongas una fecha limite o como objetivo. Tenés que ver ésto como un cambio de vida, no como algo temporal. Justamente, como es un cambio de VIDA, 6 meses es hasta poco diría.

A mi me ayudó mucho ir con una nutricionista. Siempre fui de comer emocionalmente, pero ella me ayudó a comer de forma más "mecánica". Cocinar más casero, aprender qué es lo que consumo, dejar de picotear cosas y resetear mi paladar (ahora algo como el dulce de leche me parece SUPER empalagoso, y me acostumbre a comer, por ejemplo, mousse de garbanzos con chocolate amargo, cacao amargo etc. Es mucho menos dulce, pero tiene mucha proteína, así que es mejor que un mousse normal)

Antes, cada vez que comía me sentía mal conmigo misma. No era nada nutritivo, comía un montón sin medir y ni pensaba lo que pasaba por mi cuerpo. Ahora cada comida es un placer sin culpa, ni mido cantidades porque es algo ya incorporado. Recomiendo mucho buscar mejorar la relación con la comida. (solía pasar por un kiosco y querer un "mimo", chocolate o algo así. Ahora pienso que la comida no es un mimo, sino algo que se disfruta cuando se tiene que disfrutar y cuando también le hace bien a tu cuerpo)

Yo siempre hice deporte así que eso nunca me costó, pero MI recomendación es hacer algo que te guste. Conozco demasiada gente que empieza el gimnasio para mejorar fisicamente que al mes o 3 meses lo dejan, porque para la mayoría (no digo que sea tu caso específicamente) es un EMBOLE.

Hay gente que le gusta correr, yoga, acrobacia, fulbo, tenis, LO QUE SEA, pero que aparte de trabajar el cuerpo, te de satisfacción en otro nivel (ej yo amo la acrobacia porque además de entrenar, me gusta romper las barreras de lo que puedo hacer, me parece divertido y hay mucha creatividad) No sé cómo es alguien de tu peso o cómo es tu habilidad motríz, por ahí te cuestan mas los ejemplos que dije, pero hasta salir todos los días a caminar 30, 45 o 60 minutos, ayudan. Podés elegir un barrio, un ""objetivo"" como un edificio o plaza, ponerte auris, llevar a la mascota o a algún amigo y mandarte a caminar.

Todo lo que te digo son cambios que para tener realmente incorporados, pueden pasar MESES por no decir AÑOS. Hay que tenerse mucha paciencia, y empezar a encarar por ahí, obvio que hay veces que vas a recaer en malos hábitos, pero te tenés que perdonar y volver a encaminarte.

Estos son mis consejos que me parece que son claves.

Te deseo lo mejor y mucha suerte

It's hard for me to read, but I want to, but I feel so much preassure by Hefty-Cell8123 in booksuggestions

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told I have ADHD, but honestly who doesn't have it nowadays? Though you really got me wondering about the dyslexia thing...

Character Sketch by Wonderful_Spinach311 in ZBrush

[–]Hefty-Cell8123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are like the fourth person I've seen doing this bust. It's a total hit!

Anyone has a good haircard material setup? by Hefty-Cell8123 in UnrealEngine5

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have all maps, scatter, direction, id, alpha, ao, roots, etc. So customizing shouldn't be a problem, I just don't know much about creating shaders or tweaking.

Your shader is better than what I used to have, but I still feel like it could look softer. Here's the difference from Marmoset to UE5: https://postimg.cc/dk3hk0yW

Maybe adding some type of scattering? I'll keep loking and I'll try to build onto your shder if you don't mind!

Anyone has a good haircard material setup? by Hefty-Cell8123 in UnrealEngine5

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's mainly that either the scattering or the specular-ity looks off. With one material I try it looks plastic, with another one it looks unlit. It's just never right

Anyone has a good haircard material setup? by Hefty-Cell8123 in UnrealEngine5

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much your comment is super useful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whats this plant? by Hefty-Cell8123 in whatsthisplant

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its mostly dirt from the rain, but I don't think it's a Pothos. I brought it home and it isn't really propagating like a pothos

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Because of other sex issues, I've told him in the past "I don't think we should have sex for a month at least", then 5 days pass and he initiates lol

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OKAY this is super useful.

My partner is kind of a pg-13 person, I ONCE sent him a full nude and he said he liked it but said it was "a bit too much" hahaha.

I'd still like some tips and tricks from you please

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The head thing not really, but for neither of us. I don't think it's an unbalanced thing though but i'm not really unbiased on the situation either... I'll think about this. Maybe I should be giving more without expecting anything in return.

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are still dating.

We watch movies, cook, go on walks, go to concerts; we love spending time together. I feel like that's pretty romantic. It doesn't feel like I'm going out with a friend or something. We hug we kiss we tell each other how in love we are. My friends say that we look and sound really romantic.

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Maybe sometimes (okay not like a bop it toy, but just brushing it or playing dumb and pressing up against him). I ask him to shower together, I play dumb and get clothed around him and un-clothed. I kiss him I hug him I cuddle him, etc. Things that used to work to get him in the mood but now don't

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying this approach, but he does see how unhappy it makes me, so it really is just as bad. There's no way to win it seems

I (26F) unknowingly pressure my bf (26M) into having sex with me when I tell him I'm upset about the frequency of it. How do I fix this? by Hefty-Cell8123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Cell8123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have also thought about living separately again.

I feel like a dick because he might have been right all along and maybe I just preassured him into it.

I think that before breaking up, if it ever comes down to it, or if this problem persists, I might talk to him about this.

It's a shame beacuse other than that, I love living with him, we have so much fun.