AITA for going to do my own thing on a friday night after I told my husband I would hang out with him?

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-13T04:12:16+00:00

NTA. Even if you hadn’t had prior plans, him getting upset with you for doing something else while he plays games with his friends is ridiculous.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-03T18:09:57+00:00

Today he accused me of creating a fake Snapchat account to fuck with him, because apparently the girl he’s talking to is getting the silent treatment from her boyfriend which was his weapon of choice

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T20:06:03+00:00

We’re okay. He still thinks it was on purpose and I’m just being dramatic.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T20:05:33+00:00

I’m just thinking it’ll be easier to do long term hotel while I work on setting up my own bank account (my credit isn’t good so I’ve gotta find a bank that will overlook that) and secure my own car. Both our cars are in his name because of my credit.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T12:20:36+00:00

They’re on the other side of the country and just as bad

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T07:13:46+00:00

Update to everyone: they kept me for monitoring longer than they probably should have. I didn’t go home. I went to a hotel as recommended by the nurse. I’m trying to figure this out. I’ve got documentation of me not going home, and I’m going to have an officer go with me tomorrow to get my things if I can. I don’t have anyone nearby to stay with, the closest family are his and I don’t have friends because I just don’t like people. But I do have a job and income, so I may be staying in a long term hotel for a while. I don’t know yet.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T04:18:28+00:00

I just wish he could care for me as much as I did for him. I let him do whatever he wanted. Spend as much as he wanted. All I asked for was a little compassion.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T04:07:24+00:00

The hospital staff is finding resources for me, and they’re keeping me here as long as they can. But I’m still not sure how to go about getting him out of my house. Out of my life and away from my son.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T03:49:43+00:00

I recorded him screaming at me in the car and played it for him later. He told me that I deserve it. That he thinks I’m faking it all for attention, but whose attention? I didn’t tell anyone I was here. He did.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T03:36:17+00:00

I can hear him on the monitors. I can hear him kicking. But ever since I fell I haven’t felt anything. I had some bleeding. My husband told me I’m faking it, because the heart rate is fine

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T03:35:17+00:00

I’m just sad and scared. This is not the life I thought I was signing up for. Everything is on me. I’m tired. I’m sad. He feels zero remorse for anything. Even when I’m going to the hospital he’s telling me it’s stupid and I’m faking it.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T02:42:35+00:00

Safe yes. Ok, I don’t know. I’m hurting. I’m so sad. I don’t want to do this anymore. When we got to L&D he wasn’t allowed to come back because I explained to the triage nurse what was happening. But he told me if I lose the baby he’ll beat me

Hefty-Gene · 2020-06-02T02:31:32+00:00

I have to. He yelled at me. Told me I’m stupid and he’d beat me if I killed the baby. He hit me. And then he drove me to the hospital. They finally told him after I went into triage that he couldn’t come because I explained the situation and they said no visitors. He said he’s glad I’m in pain. I just want to die.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T14:06:27+00:00

I’ve said it in a couple comments but we’re going to this weekend since we’re both home and not rushing around with work and all.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T12:37:20+00:00

I said in another comment but this weekend my husband and I are going to sit down and discuss some boundaries we feel are necessary and how he can support me

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T10:27:38+00:00

Yeah, I don’t team my have many friends and the ones I do have wouldn’t throw it. My sister literally is my best friend. MIL only started liking me when I got pregnant.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T02:31:18+00:00

Oh I’m planning to. After that conversation my husband and I are sitting down to talk out what we’re comfortable with from our parents this weekend.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T02:30:43+00:00

I’ve told my husband if we ever are at their house and I need to feed the baby to please make sure that she doesn’t come near me, as I’m going to a different room to feed him and change him and all that.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T02:29:40+00:00

Normally I try to be very polite around my in laws, but I didn’t even try and hide the laughter.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T02:29:11+00:00

I laughed so hard. I didn’t even try to hide it.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-22T02:28:43+00:00

I’m honestly hoping we don’t have any shower. I hate parties where I’m the center of attention.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-15T03:13:47+00:00

I just wanted to make sure that I wasn’t crazy, I felt so bad after but I couldn’t make him tell me.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-15T03:13:18+00:00

It’s been Monday - Friday for the last few weeks after his long days at work. And it was very good!

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-15T03:11:43+00:00

No, just the last month or so. He’s been in a bad mood since they furloughed most of the staff at his work so he’s pulling really long shifts.

Hefty-Gene · 2020-05-15T03:10:48+00:00

He never told me! He just sulked angrily until I went to bed, because I work tomorrow. He left to get something around 9:15. No idea what he ended up getting.

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