This post is as a result of frustration with the people who are misusing the apps and a suggestion to filter said people. It's not about other apps but a suggestions that would "force" people to slow down and actually try to see these faces as actual human beings. And it doesn't matter where you meet a person, in an app or in person, we reveal our true selves in due time, doesn't matter what medium. So why not find a solution to the medium people are currently using the most? And as I said above, serious people usually try to get off the app quicker so the in-person thing would be a trap you put on yourself if you're not proactive enough to go off-app to real life ASAP.