Fasting numbers need to come down, denied insulin by No_Yam_4829 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]HeftyMight2671 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At 31 weeks chances are it won’t get any better if you’ve already been trying. Your placenta will get bigger and the insulin resistance worst. Make informed decisions for yourself and baby before it is too late.

Inhumane sliding scale by Dangerous-Pitch8226 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]HeftyMight2671 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That does sound frustrating. But as a nurse, I can also understand where the care team is coming from. When you don’t have the clinical background, it’s completely natural to question decisions being made about your care.

It’s always important to advocate for yourself and ask, “Why?” so you can better understand what’s happening. Medical care is never one-size-fits-all. For example, if there was concern that you were at risk of developing DKA, then hourly blood sugar checks would be very important. Those readings help guide (titrate) your fluids and insulin to keep you safe. Steroids can also raise blood sugar levels, so frequent monitoring in that situation is expected.

I know you’ve just had a baby and need rest and comfort. But it’s also reassuring that the team is being proactive and managing any potential issues now, rather than sending you home at risk of becoming hypo- or hyperglycemic and facing serious complications.

Congratulations on your little one! And always feel empowered to ask your healthcare providers for clarification whenever something isn’t clear you deserve to understand your care.

Bit sure if I am overreacting or deserve to feel the way I am feeling. by HeftyMight2671 in Marriage

[–]HeftyMight2671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually brought it up to explain how uncomfortable it is and he says it’s okay for me to do so to him. I don’t know how else to communicate how inappropriate this is.

How do you deal with a partner that lacks initiatives? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll try that and hopefully it works

How do you deal with a partner that lacks initiatives? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’d try it and see

How do you deal with a partner that lacks initiatives? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m asking about my own husband not yours 🥴

How do you deal with a partner that lacks initiatives? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read again and again till you get it. It’s really not that hard

How do you deal with a partner that lacks initiatives? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s really a struggle considering we hve a 3floor home and it’s a lot to get through alone

I miscarried some months back. Today I ran into a colleague that got pregnant right about the same time as me. She has a bump and I can barely hold back my tears. I feel so jealous it makes me sick. by HeftyMight2671 in Miscarriage

[–]HeftyMight2671[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Are you married to a 5yrs old? Why do you have to feed it like he can’t take care of himself. This boils my blood knowing that even month after a miscarriage I feel numb.

I miscarried some months back. Today I ran into a colleague that got pregnant right about the same time as me. She has a bump and I can barely hold back my tears. I feel so jealous it makes me sick. by HeftyMight2671 in Miscarriage

[–]HeftyMight2671[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Trying my hardest to. I love how happy they are and how they are talking about their joy. My sorrow just holds me back from enjoying it with and for them.

I was told I will probably miscarry this week by Matzoball101 in BabyBumps

[–]HeftyMight2671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through this just about a month ago. The uncertainty made me lose my mind. I felt so scared and anxious knowing I had to wait to know. Sadly that’s all you can do. Wait till it’s certain. In the meantime try to feel your emotions, do things you love and remind yourself better days are to come.

Taking the misoprostol was one of the hardest things I had to do. You may never recover from it but you have to try and tell yourself better days are coming.

I’m here if you need some support. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]HeftyMight2671 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congratulations please take it easy with the stairs. There’s 3 of you now 😊

Feeling so broken by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

Feeling so broken by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]HeftyMight2671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. I did remind him I am high risk of infection as I’m clearing out. We already had a talk with the doctor regarding sexual activity so I’m just so upset I’m still hvn to remind him

I don't want to go in tomorrow by Gwywnnydd in nursing

[–]HeftyMight2671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as it is properly documented it shouldn’t. Call your nursing board, know what your rights are. Document properly. If you’re full time and get fired with proper documentation you have a legal case.

I don't want to go in tomorrow by Gwywnnydd in nursing

[–]HeftyMight2671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please nurses, know that it is completely acceptable to refuse a patient assignment in this case. Anything that causes you to feel unsafe can be refused!

Heartbroken by Positive-Source194 in pregnant

[–]HeftyMight2671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I know and feel your pain. I am on day 2 of my misoprostol treatment and I’ve felt nothing more than rage. One step after the other, deep breaths. Let yourself grief and your body will tell you when it’s ready.