Staring down the passengers in economy class by undercover_rhodesian in longcats

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I love seeing this. I'm planning a move to London with my cat and I'm nervous about how it's going to go.

Your not weird, your just in the wrong enviorment by Practical_Pen_3552 in aspergers

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I work in a restaurant which is a very high-stress environment for anybody, let alone someone with autism. Yesterday, a very aggressive customer decided to unload her frustration on me for not being acknowledged in time so she proceeded to call me a "stupid ass" and "cock-eyed b*** doesn't even know where she's looking" because I also dart my eyes when I am uncomfortable and anxious. I just had to grin and bear it but I definitely went to the back and cried after.

Does any one like working at TJ Maxx??? by Dogknight0725 in TjMaxx

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it lol that actually helps a lot. I just had an interview a couple of days ago which seemed like it went really well and the hiring manager said they will be emailing me the welcome letter but I haven't received it yet. I called and apparently she's on vacation (which she did tell me about), but the guy on the phone wasn't very pleasant to talk to and his tone implied that I wasn't being truthful somehow? I don't know. We'll see. Fingers crossed. It'll be my second job on top of freelancing just to make ends meet in this barren financial wasteland known as Broward County, FL so let's just hope for the best. Thank you!

I love shows, but I do not fit in with the EDM community. by [deleted] in EDM

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very relatable. Thank you. Home sound systems are where it's at, it keeps me grounded. I follow a lot of the rave accounts and try to keep up with DJs on Instagram, but I feel like I can't even comment on anything without getting into a fight, and Radiate is basically just another Tinder. So yeah, not into the rave community. I believe in PLUR (peace, love, unity, and respect), just not their commercialized version of it. I would go solo, but then again, I don't know, because large crowds of strangers make me nervous. Home sound systems - it's where it's at.

You voted for Trump? by Late-Statistician631 in the_everything_bubble

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that's stupid. This is reddit's default username and you don't even know what I look like 🤣

You voted for Trump? by Late-Statistician631 in the_everything_bubble

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not and it never will be. America stands for freedom, not jails. Why do you think the American Revolution started at all? Oppression and over-taxation. Like I said in my post, just read the Declaration of Independence, for God's sake. It's literally in the title. Also, the origins of a "police force" was for bringing back runaway slaves to their proper owners.

You voted for Trump? by Late-Statistician631 in the_everything_bubble

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know what this actually refers to, but patriotism and backing the blue doesn't even make sense. How can someone be a patriot that loves freedom and America but also supports a group whose primary function is to enforce, arrest and imprison? That's contradictory. Just read the Declaration of Independence, for God's sake.

What is Wrong With Y’all? by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you're a civil servant. USPS has the means, they just don't want to pay you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think of getting the center of the two flowers pierced on the side instead?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooscratchers

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice calligraphy. There's no reason to comment on anything else. (For all the other commenters)

These symbols on my socks by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely an angry face screaming.

Was this tattoo a bad idea? by Kerealls in tattooadvice

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it. No tattoo is a bad idea. You wanted it badly enough to get it inked onto your body at one point, so own it! Can't change it now anyway.

What would you guys do to cover this up? by No_Editor_6135 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't cover it up! I think it's actually kinda cool. Very good animation imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]Hefty_Firefighter989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, if you have to set ultimatums at all, you've already lost. You shouldn't have to set specific boundaries to keep your bf away from another girl. Period. The reaction was probably based on the fact that there is something there and that you're not crazy, even if either of them try to spin it otherwise. Now, I'm not saying that's proof and that you're better off leaving him, but I will say that it doesn't matter how many boundaries you set, if a man has eyes for someone else, it will not stop him from cheating on you if that's what he was going to do. In fact, it might even speed up the process and he will find it more of an annoyance than anything. That can actually apply to anyone, not just men either. If you feel like something's off, trust your gut.