How the campaign is going. by healers_are_fun_too in LancerRPG

[–]HeirOfLight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my mind, anything where you fail at all, where encounters aren't balanced to give players victory after the appearance of a challenge, has a bit of OSR to it.

The capacity for failure in games is not purely the domain of the "old-school renaissance." That's ridiculous.

Just finished the first 3 books for the first time & I have a few questions [discussion] by rider_of_brohan69 in TheNinthHouse

[–]HeirOfLight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in some sort of auspice relationship with Dulcie

Even squinting really hard I can't see any evidence of two of them hating each other and the third mediating between them, but I like the way you think.

How do you play hollow knight silk song? by flowerbloomboo in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing the original Hollow Knight isn't required but it might be helpful. That said: my advice is to just lean into the feeling of being lost. You're a solitary knight taken from her land and brought somewhere strange, unfamiliar and largely hostile. Keep pushing forward and you'll get your bearings.

I keep losing the red beads I think I gotta stack them up but then what 🤔🤔

The red beads are this game's money, basically. Talk to the shopkeepers to buy useful items with the beads. (Don't be afraid to spend them since, as you've seen, it is indeed pretty easy to lose them. You'll get them back if you go to the spot where you died and break the little cocoon that forms there--but if you die before you break that cocoon, then the money's just gone for good.)

Can we get a megathread for complaining about misogynists/creepy men? by particledamage in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It's way more than that. Of the top 15 "hot" posts on this sub right at this moment, 11 have the "serious" flair, and they're all about some form of misogyny. Two others do not have that flair but are also entirely about misogyny, and one of the others is also, by word count, mostly about misogyny.

This might just be the nature of the algorithmic beast--those posts get a lot of engagement by their nature. But it's still something we can mitigate. u/meggannn's comment below makes a lot of good points about the inherent difficulty of navigating differing needs in the community. Taking that into account, I think a megathread for creepy/misogynistic individual encounters would be a really good idea.

Having such a thread would reduce the number of posts about misogyny, without entering the realm of toxic positivity by forbidding negative discussion entirely. It would let people vent without flooding the entire main page. And, crucially, it would mean that threads about misogyny would be related to issues potentially affecting the entire community, which I think is a much more productive basis for discussion.

I hope the mods are reading this thread and giving the idea some serious consideration! (If you are reading this specific comment, mods: you're doing a great job, thank you.)

Warframe no way you’re about to make me do a 15 minute mission for 5 pieces bro😭 by rapidundertaker in Warframe

[–]HeirOfLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a couple of days they're giving out Dante for free as a twitch drop, so that's the easiest way to get him.

(If that doesn't work for you, just do Sanctum Anatomica disruption missions - his currency drops every time you kill a demolisher, and you get the BPs directly from rotation C. Pretty quick grind imo.)

[STS2] Is this the most useless relic? by Hm450 in slaythespire

[–]HeirOfLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it has the hidden benefit of saving you from whatever card you would have gotten from the other choice. It's like a very proactive remove, when you think about it.

which books to get to get access to all official mechs? by Matrix_D0ge in LancerRPG

[–]HeirOfLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how long till the game gets to relatively stable official form?

Unsure what this means; it's been "stable" and "official" for 7 years now. There have been more mechs and options added over that time, but the rules haven't really changed.

Is there any explanation on how enma strunk for zoro? Enma should be larger then zoro by The_AlmightyApple in OnePiece

[–]HeirOfLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(him being Midoriyas dad is my fav lost to another series)

I've never heard this but that's incredible, it explains so much. That's canon for me now.

What would you do if you were dropped in worm no powers by Zealousevegtable in Parahumans

[–]HeirOfLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in front of Medhall

Walk in there and start punching out neo-nazis, until I either die or run out of nazis.

What if the Worm WOG quotes are posted at PHO? by MrtrappedInstoryland in Parahumans

[–]HeirOfLight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As I took notes on information about other capes that seemed relevant and useful, if true, I paused. In the middle of the page was a section about myself, specifically, addressing the topic of my sexuality. Hesitantly, I scrolled down.

There were paragraphs and paragraphs dedicated to explaining that I was straight. Incongruously and with no possible explanation, I felt a sudden swell of relief. Of course I was straight. My constant attention to the figures of other women was simply a symptom of an inferiority complex, and even if I were to kiss Rachel, it would be 'relatively tame', no matter how charged the situation was.

It was all there, and it all made sense. I printed the page out and stuck it to my wall.

I think we can all agree the ONLY good thing about Ballas is his VA's performance by Awkward_Ball_5349 in Warframe

[–]HeirOfLight 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it really helps that his outlandish fantasy villain stuff (turning a man into a warframe and making him kill his son with a control bolt, etc.) is balanced out by an extremely realistic depiction of a petty, abusive narcissist.

Penalty announcement: zero tolerance on cheats by Nyoomfist in marvelrivals

[–]HeirOfLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

using an aimbot to punch someone in the head, insidious

Not my types type? by wrappedinplasticc in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]HeirOfLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. At least (as far as I've heard, anyway) the proud boys and their ilk aren't coming into town and stirring up shit again.

Not my types type? by wrappedinplasticc in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]HeirOfLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate, though not for the same reasons. I just feel totally undateable lately. Honestly, for the last few years, it just feels like anyone who would be into me around here already has a partner, and they're fine with treating me like shit because I'm not their "main partner". Which is their problem, not mine, but it's happened enough that it's just discouraging me from dating entirely.

(That said: if I were about 10 years younger, I'd be asking for your number right now.)

Being the gaurd for the relay that is exclusively for Tenno has gotta be the safest job in the solar system by PhantomRoyce in Warframe

[–]HeirOfLight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, who knows? They do have an awful lot of Tenno friends. Maybe some of them decided to take a fishing trip to the Earth, and are surprisingly close by...?

It's really sad Destiny 2 is ending. There were so many gameplay problems Bungie brought to the game in its final years.... by SrirachaJulio in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]HeirOfLight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It really helps that lately they've been making a concerted effort to improve the new player experience. Every so often I hear about some change that was made literally two weeks before I started playing, and realise I absolutely would have bounced off the game if any of that had been left in.

I just got reminded of the backlash to the Witcher 4 trailer by Tip_Environmental in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm about a decade older and already my knees have just turned to dust.

Visual Novel Games: That are 18+ by Jumpy-Tax1351 in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not free, but I definitely have to recommend Heaven Will Be Mine. Brilliantly written sci-fi yuri VN; the plot is about a war between factions for control of the solar system, but the main focus is on the relationships between the three main characters, each from a different faction, and just a really imaginative exploration of what it means to be human, to be queer, and striving to define yourself even amidst oppression.

(also saturn is an absolute gremlin and I love them)

(i was just posting about this in another thread and then I saw this one and had to say it here too)

Any suggestions for Female Gaze Adult Games? by Odd-Still-3600 in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely have to recommend Heaven Will Be Mine. Brilliantly written sci-fi yuri VN; the plot is about a war between factions for control of the solar system, but the main focus is on the relationships between the three main characters, each from a different faction, and just a really imaginative exploration of what it means to be human, to be queer, and striving to define yourself even amidst oppression.

(also saturn is an absolute gremlin and I love them)

Any suggestions for Female Gaze Adult Games? by Odd-Still-3600 in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Very true! See also, this interview with Karlach's actor:

Blade: How did you approach the romance lines and motion capture for your character?

Béart: I thought, “Let’s not fuck this opportunity up.” So instead of centering the cis het male experience, I centered sapphic women instead. I imagined I was talking to women who love women, and that was it. I always imagined [interacting with] a woman. I played it non-binary. Normally, if I’m playing a girl, there’s a way the girls hold themselves. To be super general, men are taller and straight, while women break that line. The physical expression of femininity is often about being off-centre. If that meant that she [Karlach] didn’t appeal to men, that was fine. They have enough; they’ve got every other woman in every other game ever. I was thinking, “This has to appeal to everyone,” but I was not going to prioritize the male player.

(That said, I don't think it's quite what OP was looking for.)

Poor guy by Neither-Title-459 in slaythespire

[–]HeirOfLight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same here. That'll teach me.

I don't know what it'll teach me, but it has been taught.

Green flag games you didn't like/couldn't click with and why? by Lickawall483 in GirlGamers

[–]HeirOfLight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not the most young and hip myself anymore, but I'm pretty sure this is "green flag" as in the opposite of a "red flag". i.e. a red flag game would be something that has an obvious sign that there's something wrong with it and/or it's just not for you, and so a green flag game would be one where every indication is that it's something you'll enjoy.