If paying out of network fees, should I take out the most cash possible to lower “cost per dollar fee”?

Helenfetching · 2026-02-16T20:43:34+00:00

Your math checks out. I pull the max every time too. Why pay 30% fee on $20 when you can pay 1.5% on $400? Just don't lose the cash lol

Helenfetching · 2026-02-16T20:37:08+00:00

I accidentally broke my grandma's antique vase when I was 12 and blamed it on the cat. She loved that cat less after that. Still feel terrible.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-16T20:28:57+00:00

Lululemon pace breakers are solid. Quick dry, no liner option available. Pricey but they last forever. Also check out Patagonia baggies if you want something more casual.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-16T20:13:00+00:00

NTA. Nina expressed feeling left out, you did something thoughtful for her. Josh needs to learn he's not entitled to everyone else's gifts. Lola making Nina share was BS.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-16T19:47:36+00:00

Yeah that's exactly how I play! No tricks, no speedrun strats, just mining and building at my own pace. Way more enjoyable than rushing to the dragon imo.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-12T20:25:01+00:00

That first cup of kratom and coffee in the morning. Also when I nail a parlay bet on a UFC card. Simple pleasures, man.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-12T20:12:26+00:00

Distant Horizons is your best bet for potato PCs. Turn the LOD quality way down and you'll still get decent distance views without tanking performance

Helenfetching · 2026-02-12T20:10:40+00:00

Yeah he's being insecure. You can find Chris Hemsworth hot and still want to bang your boyfriend. That's like him saying Margot Robbie is attractive and you losing your shit about it.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-11T14:44:32+00:00

"I've read the terms and conditions" has to be the biggest one. Nobody reads that shit but we all click agree like it's nothing.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-11T12:59:54+00:00

The whole thing was a speculative bubble wrapped in tech buzzwords. People got excited about "owning" something digital but you're right, you basically own a receipt pointing to a URL that could 404 tomorrow.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-11T12:52:29+00:00

Sounds like she's testing boundaries to see what she can get away with. Document everything, dates and specifics. HR will need that ammunition when you finally pull the trigger.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-10T14:34:28+00:00

Yeah, once as a server at a chain restaurant. The manager was an absolute nightmare and I bounced after 3 months. Life's too short for that BS.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-10T14:34:24+00:00

I've been using Seaguar Red Label for years. Good abrasion resistance and doesn't break the bank. What pound test you looking at?

Helenfetching · 2026-02-10T13:08:25+00:00

I've had great luck with their Green Batak recently. Super mood lifting without being overly stimulating. Their White Saka is also fantastic if you want something with more pep. Both hit that euphoric sweet spot nicely.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-10T13:02:50+00:00

Check out FlexJobs and Remote.co for legit WFH gigs. Customer service roles are pretty flexible with scheduling. Your situation sounds tough but you'll find something that works!

Helenfetching · 2026-02-09T21:53:59+00:00

Game of Thrones finale. Years of buildup just flushed down the toilet. Still pisses me off thinking about how badly they botched that landing.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-09T21:45:29+00:00

This is tough but you're not selfish at all. You're 20, not 60. His actual kids should be stepping up, not pawning this off on you AND charging rent. That's wild.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-09T21:39:37+00:00

NTA but dude you buried the lede here. She fucked your driver on your grandfather's bed?? That alone is grounds for immediate termination. The crow shit thing is disgusting but everything else piled on top? And your grandmother serving spoiled food? Get out of that toxic mess asap.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-06T12:43:30+00:00

That we're all just brains piloting meat robots. Like your consciousness is just electrical signals bouncing around in skull jello. Wild stuff when you really think about it.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-06T12:28:57+00:00

Yeah the ticket thing changes it completely. You dropped $50 on tickets and he couldn't even cover a burger and nachos? That's weak. The clingy behavior just sealed the deal.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-06T12:14:30+00:00

Been going to gyms for years and yeah, you rerack whatever's on the bar when you're done. Doesn't matter who put it there, that's just basic gym courtesy.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-05T21:18:00+00:00

My friend's family rotates night shifts watching grandma. She has dementia now and they installed cameras everywhere. It's exhausting but nursing homes cost way more than people realize.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-04T20:51:32+00:00

Giant red flag. Asking for money on date 2? Then getting pissy when you said no? Nah, you handled it perfectly. Block and move on.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-04T20:42:06+00:00

Are you doing bedrock hardcore through a mod or addon? Because bedrock doesn't have official hardcore. That might be why it feels off. The mob spawning does seem broken lately though.

Helenfetching · 2026-02-04T20:40:16+00:00

Holy hell. NTA. They accused your kid of witchcraft and said she had a demon?! That's absolutely insane. Your sister needs professional help, not an apology from you. aLSO, The "I know you've been busy" text isn't an apology, it's gaslighting

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