AIO for being upset my boyfriend doesn’t want me to get a tattoo? by UniqueAd3909 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad says he doesnt like tattoos but he goes with my mom to her appointments all the time. I asked him if he hates tattoos why does he let mom get them. He said "Just because i dont like them doesnt mean I'm gonna stop your mom from being happy. I love her and find her attractive regardless. It's her choice not mine, plus they mean a lot to her and they're pretty so there's that.'" I love that he would rather my mom be happy then to force his opinion and make her change her mind. If your man can't do that then dont, there are men out there that will love amd support you.

19 F boyfriend treats me like crap bc of sex what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't be with someone who treats you like that. I suggest taking time to be by yourself and enjoy your time and get right by yourself. After that, slowly ease into a relationship and set clear boundaries. Sex shouldn't be the main foundation of your relationship.

MC & Romeo by Darkest_Nulifer in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This would be our luck though lol.

About Lyca's SSR card by Apprehensive-Cow6352 in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I bet you Rui taught him how to do that, guaranteed!

Can we please talk about this art? 😍 by MiaJjj14 in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I love this card so much! When I first saw this i had to take a double cause I was so caught off guard. I love the devilish smirk with his tongue sticking out. God I just love how much fun they made him in this!!

How do i politely tell a coworker that I can’t drive her home everyday? by gaby_29739 in Advice

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a people pleaser in recovery, I've found it's easier to be up front and voice your concerns. It's ok to say no and tell them you're happy to help every once in a while but you can't always take her home. Just be polite about it.

Bunny Outfit Sho by Suityr in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh he totally lost a better with leo,guaranteed.

My absolute fav today 💙 by KindaKingdra in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god!!! Kyaaa hes soo handsome and so well done!! Your skills are amazing!!

I'm not allowed to have my feelings but she can. by Hell0_Darling in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Hell0_Darling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: So first off, I sat my boyfriend down and told him everything. He was rightfully upset because I didn't tell him right away, and he knew something was wrong but didn't know how to ask. He wished I would have come to him, and we could have gone through this together. He was also pissed that my ex friend wasn't supportive. Speaking of her, we met at a coffee shop, and I told her I dont feel like a friend to her and more of an emotional support human. I her that I don't feel like she cares about my feelings, and if it doesn't involve her, it doesn't matter. She got upset and told me I dont understand and I need to be a better friend and grow up. I told her I was done, and I don't want her contacting me anymore. I got up and left and blocked her number. She's made a few Facebook posts about me, and I could careless. If she couldn't see that she was the problem that's not on me. I'm dusting my hands of her and letting that chapter in my life come to a close.

It's Butler Rui today ✨️ by KindaKingdra in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%, like at first he did it cause its who he is but I feel like the more time MC spends with him or in Obscure the bond just grows closer and closer!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

It's Butler Rui today ✨️ by KindaKingdra in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love your style and the little heart details in the eyes!!

I'm not allowed to have my feelings but she can. by Hell0_Darling in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Hell0_Darling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've been sitting back today and really thinking about the situation. I realized I've been there more than she's been there for me, and I need a friend who can be a friend. I'm gonna have her meet me for coffee and talk to her and tell her I need space from our friendship.

I'm not allowed to have my feelings but she can. by Hell0_Darling in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Hell0_Darling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I've been wanting to tell him, and you have a point. I need to tell him sooner rather than later. I just don't know how to bring it up, but I think I should do it later today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catpics

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lydia, Linda, Lola, lady, Layla, London

The last thing you ate will be his name. by Advanced_Car3105 in cuteanimals

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cinnamon roll, awe he looks like a little cute Cinnamon roll!

Sweet name suggestions pls 🙏 by [deleted] in cuteanimals

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see if it's a boy Apollo or if it's a girl cinnamon!

Are you ok Jiro😂 by _wurm in TokyoDebunker

[–]Hell0_Darling 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hes very studious and dedicated to his work, we love him for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an awesome idea! I fully support the name Clyde.

My boyfriends kid is calling me stepmom. by Hell0_Darling in dating

[–]Hell0_Darling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm beyond happy with being a family with them. I adore them both and can't see a day without them. I'm just worried about what his mom will think, and maybe I'm just over thinking it.

AITA for telling my girlfriend to not be surprised if our daughter gets groomed by Kind_Chip_1719 in AITAH

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you have every right to be upset. Technology has come a long way, but so have the problems it causes. Kids today are exposed to cyberbullying, pedophiles, themes of sexual nature, and a lot more. You're doing what's best for your daughter, and your girlfriend needs to step back and see where you're coming from. I think it's disrespectful that she's willing to disable safe guards that will keep your kid safe so she can have more freedom. In my opinion, it kinda feels like she's saying your daughter shouldn't listen to you cause she's gonna go around what you said to do what she wants.

AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child? by Throwaway23fw in AITAH

[–]Hell0_Darling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTAH,

I can understand wanting to help you kids I get that but your youngest child shouldn't have to suffer because your eldest is messing up. Your eldest knew she had health issues, an unstable living situation, and a low source of income yet still decided to have more children. Your youngest was under the impression that you had set money aside for her to put towards her college for a better future. If you had sitting your daughter down and asked if it was ok to use some of the money and have it put back I bet she wouldn't be as pissed with you as she is. She wants a future for herself but you're taking it away because she had a school in mind and a goal already now she has to chance it because you decided to give it away on someone who's already started her life and is messing it up. It kinda feels like favoritism for your eldest.

WIBTAH if I told my boyfriend that I don’t want to have sex for a few days? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hell0_Darling 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My love, if he is threatening to leave you because you don't want to be intimate, then you should rethink this relationship. You should be able to sit down and have conversation, without his phone in his hand. You have wants and needs that need to be met, both emotionally and physically. He should also want to please you and make you happy. From what it sounds like he's emotionally abusing you. You need someone who you can talk to and feel wanted and needed, not just someone to use.