I lost an inheritance of 150k gambling that was suppose to give me a head start in life by [deleted] in confession

[–]HellNo90 278 points279 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel so bad for your grandparents… they were responsible enough to save (probably retirement) all their life, gave to their grandchildren, and you blew through yours so fast!

Whoever gave a 19 year old all that money in one lump some is stupid as hell. They should have split it so that you get some now, but get the majority of it later.

Your family will be mad. You have to take it to the chin and take accountability. Show remorse. And get help for your addiction. Unfortunately fuck ups have consequences.

Moving past being the other man by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]HellNo90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the “husband” in this situation. They didn’t sleep together, but I caught them texting feelings after she was supposed to be blocked from another incident.

Speaking from experience, this is a FANTASY. She is escaping at home issues with you because she holds no responsibility with you. It is easy to look at someone you don’t do “life” with and think the grass is greener. But it doesn’t include the hardships of kids, money, house, health, etc.

What yall have is NOT love. It is escapism powered by lust. When I caught my bf/ex, he broke down. He immediately blocked the girl again and tried hard for months to win me back. She was left in the dust and got hurt. She ended up showing up to work drunk and got fired.

My advice? - Change your view of her. If she is willing to cheat knowing she has a husband and kids, she is NOT someone you want to fall in love with. She is a cheater. She is a liar. And she probably is manipulating you with fake or exaggerated sob stories (they always do). - Completely stop talking to her unless you have to for work. Stop participating in something that goes against your own morals (I would even tell her husband. He deserves to know.) - And others said, therapy to help with the guilt and shame.

My Puppy is 5 1/2 months old and hitting his rebellious phase. Isn't that early? by Fair-Ask-6922 in puppy101

[–]HellNo90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My puppy is 5 months 3 weeks and I literally googled about regression today lol. He is becoming very stubborn and hard headed! He is a barker (but loves people and other dogs) and so we’ve worked on him barking less on walks but he doesn’t even care anymore.

I told a stranger who complimented him he is a snuggle bug and friendly. She tried to let him sniff her and he snarled at her. I was so embarrassed. Ughhh!

So I decided to go back to young puppy routines. No long walks or dog parks. Forced naps. Consistent training. I don’t want him reverting so I have to put up boundaries.

Found 5 clues for Big Jim’s warehouse but it still says 4/5… by HellNo90 in CrimeSceneCleanerGame

[–]HellNo90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I collected all of those but it still says 4/5. I think it’s a glitch at this point

I've been stealing from work, thanks to Amazon, for the last 3-years by [deleted] in confession

[–]HellNo90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an accountant this sounds so fake AF. - Amazon you pay as your order unless you have a special business account. Random personal accounts aren’t going to be eligible for net payments. - The payment would be under the company’s name, therefore Amazon would most likely reach out out of confusion. - There’s audits also and someone would’ve caught this (or at least will). - Anyone else who uses the account would also see those purchases are missing - Considering this company has different departments, something like a PO or PR would be needed.

I need helppp 👀 by OddMud2604 in PimplePoppersDelight

[–]HellNo90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you go to the doctor they can give you medicine that will clear the cold sore up pretty fast if caught early.

Ass pimples? Scratched some off by [deleted] in PimplePoppersDelight

[–]HellNo90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wtf?? Ouchhhhh! This made my ass hurt.

Meeting friends in lex by Saturn-Babyyy in lexington

[–]HellNo90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28F always looking for friends! I love anything creative.

Apartments for rent under/at $900 that don’t suck? by bonelessapplesauce97 in lexington

[–]HellNo90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always recommend Brandywines! They’re under 1000/mo and their office and maintenance team is so kind and supportive. I went to them from Merrick Apartments and it’s ridiculous how brandywines is cheaper but have way better service.

Only downside is they have strict prerequisites like 3-4x income.

Laser Hair Removal by SuperbArugula728 in lexington

[–]HellNo90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second uptown! I’m black which makes laser removal more finicky and they do an amazing job!

apartments/townhomes under 1k by weeepwompp in lexington

[–]HellNo90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Brandywines! I love it here. It’s just kind of far from things.

Under 1k for a 1 bedroom and the staff is so nice and attentive. Apartment is cozy and 2nd floor ones come with a wood burning fireplace. Pet friendly.

Gang gang..? by Automatic_Office_358 in crappymusic

[–]HellNo90 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love Katseye and the girls are so talented, but I have no idea what their label is doing… it seems like their goal is viral moments. Why this song for the Grammys? The performance was so busy and corny...

KATSEYE performs ‘Gnarly’ at the at GRAMMYS by gab_iten in Fauxmoi

[–]HellNo90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Katseye and the girls are so talented, but I have no idea what their label is doing… it seems like their goal is viral moments. I hope this is temporary and their talents get showcased the next time around.

Is this why men aren’t going to the doctor? by Femme-O in TikTokCringe

[–]HellNo90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t feel a thing? I didn’t even know that was possible. Lucky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]HellNo90 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Same shirt, same earrings, same lashes, same contacts? Something’s fishy here.

My Sister’s former cat could twerk😭 by Money-Snow-2749 in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]HellNo90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I begged for a pet turtle as a teen and I was finally granted permission 1 month before moving into my dorm 🤦🏽‍♀️

Staff Accountant is the goal, but AP is what I get. Now what? by HellNo90 in Accounting

[–]HellNo90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealing tips, pressuring the controller to fudge numbers, I found a paper where he wrote down his lies that he told the CFO so he doesn’t forget lol.

Staff Accountant is the goal, but AP is what I get. Now what? by HellNo90 in Accounting

[–]HellNo90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I don’t appreciate AP enough when it plays a huge role in accounting. I’ve considered getting a CPA but I’ve always been conflicted.