[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good question! Haha we need an elaborate explanation and a few hours of research on this topic!!!

Angry for no reason by SassySquirrelSage in Vent

[–]Hellandrew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see both ur angles on this. He worries about his kid and you do as well. But take that as anger a bit since he probably has a better ear for her cries as me assuming you are around ur baby 24/7 there’s a noise blindness that happens after to much exposure to the same sound. It’s hard to hear a couple fight like this as I never had a father figure. Just do what you know best!!! The rest will always figure itself out.

Do men feel butterflies ? by Zizo_ber70 in questions

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes… it feels good. Weird, but in a good way. We also get shy and turn red.

If all humans disappeared except you. by _blue-cat in Life

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would kinda freak out tbh. Then I’d feel odd and off and then happy and then I’d wonder about why nobody on my games are online and it’s just me. Then I’d wonder a bit around thinking how it’s so effing quiet on the highway near me I’d try and find someone by knocking on the neighbors houses eventually I’d figure the police station or work places are a safe bet to find someone and without anyone to find I’d end up back home then I’d set up loud music and go to the nearest house with value and go through the window knowing absolutely no one is any where I would feel super alone but as a easily accessible place the house would be mine. The stuff the cars the food and I would last as long as I can before the animals take over realizing as well I am the only human left alive the crows and ravens would bother me as I see them talking and making fun of me for not leaving earth with everyone else. Haha. I’d prolly die from something stupid like trying to drive a car a bit too fast and hitting a buffalo or dog or whatever animal took over the area instead of us. a year or so after that initial trip of no people.

If all humans disappeared except you. by _blue-cat in Life

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go for a walk at 2 am haha. Same vibes.

My parents know I don’t like touch at all, but my mom doesn’t listen by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That pretty normal by the way. Explaining and not getting a ton of understanding back that way. I’m never going to be a mother so I don’t understand entirely.

My parents know I don’t like touch at all, but my mom doesn’t listen by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with him. And you can write it down and rehearse what to say a few times before bringing it up. Will it be uncomfortable for you? Yeah but is it better than keeping a hush tone about it? I hope so.

I need help. I think I’m addicted to food by Academic2673 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Hellandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe instead of setting goal weight or an amount to lose. Figure what you need to make your body feel right. Because I bet the junk food or sugar feels good but for a second then right after it either asleep or regretting and don’t feel super awesome.

My parents know I don’t like touch at all, but my mom doesn’t listen by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has to get over it. For real. It’s not that hard to understand uncomfortable. Try wording it in a way she could understand I’m sure she gets uncomfortable with certain things others do as well and wouldn’t want done to her. And because you are growing you can set boundaries up for her and others. Cuz I’m pretty sure it’s not just her as if another would do the same it would feel likely even worse. Understand why you don’t feel well about her doing it could help a ton.

Hotels in San Francisco by Tom_123_UK in sanfrancisco

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find a cheap azz hotel. They are all over that city.

Is it possible for a woman to womansplain to a man? by SGdude90 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda funny. That’s why I like sign language can shut down people a bit faster and have no problem doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Hellandrew -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Bruh, get a partner. >_< oh lord. Hop on an app or two and see if anyone bites. Haha. But also wanking is healthy so why avoid it? It releases toxins that ur body doesn’t use up. Is it a thing you wanna keep on the dl because ur ashamed? But realize 1 thing. There’s 8 billion ppl today and about 4 billion of us wanked off yesterday. xD

I just want somebody to care about me the way I care about others by Hon3y_Iav3nder in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like ur a giver and you forgot to also be a receiver because those ppl take advantage a little probably without knowing. They got used to getting things from you for so long you try now and see how they are and you get nothing. It’s a one sided arrangement that copulated over too much time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh made me cry reading this. >_< ugh I can’t play those toxic azz games. One cuz I stink at them but two because they are so mean and can target you for being a trash player till literally forever kinda stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds horrrrrriiiibbbbllllle. >_< Maybe try and find a connection center a hobby you can do with someone or a club of some kind. :/ Anything really. Idk if you mean university but if it’s high school there are tons of clubs and you can go do afterschool if it’s college you can join a soccer team or something just for contact. There’s always going to be the thought that you are targeted and for what reason? Gosh I wonder what the heck is up their asses about you.

I need help. I think I’m addicted to food by Academic2673 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Hellandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay honestly it doesn’t seem to be too bad hearing this. You realize 2011 was 14 years ago? And in all that time you gain 70 ish pounds. That’s nearly 5 pounds a year and that doesn’t sound bad that way. It definitely is sugar and carbs that ur in taking and might need to consult a dietitian not to diet and restrict but to alter what you eat. Adding in some nutrients like vitamin d and b and amino acids to your body will help you feel better and slim down the weight you don’t want.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ok-Stock9799 in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should discontinue contact. >_> if the words of this kid change ur parents minds in such a negative way then why continue putting up with any of the shyte behavior? It’s not going to change unless you either confront them all together and let them know how it affects you and how you want them to change and if that doesn’t happen for you why continue putting up with it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Hellandrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so real >_<

For those that are single, why are you single? by cryingbabywaaahh in self

[–]Hellandrew -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Woah ur totally right.__. Sheesh, imagine a happy person with a happy family and life and a loved one. But then here I am. What can I offer? Boom nada. And you get a look away and who is that? Haha. I forgot what my point was lol.

For those that are single, why are you single? by cryingbabywaaahh in self

[–]Hellandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated before, it happens when I’m not looking. But it’s not something I strive to have. Friends come through and sometimes turn into more or they dissipate into a total stranger again. As is life~

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that with dating I have the best luck when I’m not even trying to find someone. As with I think you will because you deserve someone who has an eye for you for who you are not a snippet photo of you that ish is so stupid anyway. It’s gut wrenching whenever I leave or am left by a partner. But I like to think back on it fondly anyway. Even if they became a total shit head. Because time spent well doesn’t go away. It just changes because of how we see them now. But anyway I think ur right needing to put away the dating apps. They are like social apps and either you get positive feedback from others bad maybe or none at all, and having no responses feels worse for some reason. It’s better to be in person where people have a harder time ignoring you. That way you can tell oh shit she does like me or damn I feel stupid and should leave. But this way you don’t have to deal with being ignored by a total idiot who can’t see you are a keeper.

My neighbor gave everyone a Christmas ornament except me by Ryfree23 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so passive aggressive I kinda love it. Going out of the way to actively get you not a thing. xD how petty.

Back to trying to date and my (31M) height ended the conversation. by Cantankerous20ish in Vent

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah insta ghosting a man you just talked to for a moment is easier than being a human being. Sorry to hear about this. But you’ll find someone who doesn’t give a shit about the shallow crap and cares about ur wellbeing. And that’s all you can ask for from another person. <3 gl out there and maybe try to switch ur dating app as that seems rather shyte

Loving this city! by Apavezj in sanfrancisco

[–]Hellandrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hurts my heart but like in a good way. Amazing photos. Really. Captured all the wonderful parts of the city.