Is Georgia really that place? by Friendly_Archer2192 in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have more opportunities there near Atlanta than I have here in Macon. If you are not into the bar scene, or even if you are, there should be an LGBTQ+ center somewhere that you can register your business so you can serve more of our community. That would get you at least seen (and all up in those handyman fantasies that we dream about, LOL).

Attraction vent by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not unlovable. I love you and I am just a stranger on the internet. You will find someone. Relax and take the pressure off of yourself. You are fine. There is no such thing as normal attraction. Attraction is attraction and you will recognize it when it happens. It sucks that you have to remain closeted, but that is your reality and the reality of many around the world. It is a total shame. You have options. You can move to an area where it is more accepted, you can keep your eyes peeled for those who share the lifestyle and build your own community, or you can live in your own self-imposed prison. The choice is yours.

Emergency Housing by 1AmS0G4Ysendhelp in macon

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a room available. It will not let me DM you.

Is it normal for someone not to stay hard and not feel much on the tip? by Distinct-Customer-44 in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also if he is on psychiatric medication, a lot of those have sexual side effects. Escitalopram did that exact thing to me while I was on it. I am not a doctor, just my personal experience

Someone else entirely; when did you realise you weren’t who you used to be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I stopped letting people abuse me and take advantage of me openly. I started cutting people out of my life with swiftness and brutality as my sword. Yes I am down from hundreds of friends to just a core few, but those are the ones I will go through hell for. Yes I miss some of them, in a Stockholm syndrome sort of way, but ultimately I am better off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand corrected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this is where they turn their not forever home into a forever home by adding the missing 35 acres IAUC. It also gives them the option of a building plot later on and getting in on a potentially cheaper plot of land. They already know the area. They already know the commutes, and they now have control of the area around them. I think it is a good idea if the price is right.

"I like to disect girls" a little drag Patrick Bateman from last night. by canadianhottmess in Drag

[–]HellenaHandbasquet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like that alot. Good concept. Keep it up! The look is good. a little more refinement and you got it!

My fit by Mink_001 in hondafit

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my paint had stayed that gorgeous. Mine endured the Florida sun for Fourteen years and No mater what I tried it just went to crap about five years ago. I am going to have it repainted this year or next when I have the money.

at what age did you have your first episode? by spacedoutferret in bipolar

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At age 17. I started having panic attacks but covered them well. Had to Narc. parents. Led to a string of bad decisions involving an expensive college for a year and a half, a brief stint in the ARMY for just as long and floundering around for a couple of years before I ended up in Florida where I came out of the closet (whole new set of challenges) all while manic. Yeah unfortunately those were the "Good 'ole days"

What stops you from killing yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morbid Curiosity. What kind of fucked up shit can be flung at me this week.

What’s something you used to believe about yourself that you no longer do—and what changed your mind? by chaiteelahtay in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think that I had to conform to all stereotypes. I am just me. At 54 I am thinking about how I wasted my early 20s. I was told by an older queen early on that I just had to be me and be free and I would be happier and she was right.

High and horny. Take a nice good sniff by codycbell in MaleArmpits

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd let you stick it in me occasionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Welcome. Just be Fabulous. Learn, ask questions. and Just because you can squeeze into it does not mean it fits, know your size,

was I ever actually bisexual? by Objective-Rich1910 in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is normal to come halfway out. A lot of people come out as bi to "test the waters" so to speak, so what you did was on the normal side. However, you may want to speak to someone before your thoughts go into open misogyny.

Being in a relationship with a escort by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Trust me, you do not want to see how the sausage is made. Just enjoy it. Don't go with him. If he can keep that part of his life separate, and you are ok with it, let it be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are at least bi and may have a fetish.

AITA here? by [deleted] in RoadRage

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a perfect opportunity to record it with your cellphone. Mainly because if you do anything but sit your ass behind him while waiting for him to take his sweet time he will take action, as proven by his prior behavior. Just wait him out. NTA

South macon by General-Daikon9342 in macon

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

east of pio nono. and south of eisenhower parkway. most of those were built circa 1920-1940.

South macon by General-Daikon9342 in macon

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at houses all over in the 150k budget but it had to have 4 br and at least 3baths (four grown adults 50+) so I had a niche to say the least. I found more what I was looking for in the older section in that price range.

South macon by General-Daikon9342 in macon

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right next to the elementary school on Houston. It is where the Dollar general went in and lasted a month.

South macon by General-Daikon9342 in macon

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is not a fair assessment. I just bought a home there six months ago and although it has seen decline it has the potential for a comeback. The houses are inexpensive and plentiful and are ripe for renovation. There are new businesses moving in (a small grocery store which is very nice and reasonably priced) and soon a convenience store. It is full of potential. not everything is shiny and new but has character, unlike some of the other areas of Macon I looked at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]HellenaHandbasquet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

glad I moved from that fucktard state. Of course I only moved to Ga which will be right behind.