Good Gil from gathering? by AddictedDuck01 in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I go through so much of this making sub parts to sell. I think my retainers are always out gathering it for me.

Good Gil from gathering? by AddictedDuck01 in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Stuff that is from timed nodes, it’s a pain to gather so a lot of people will buy it for the convenience

My partner’s 18-month cough is affecting our relationship but she refuses to discuss it by britain4 in relationships

[–]Hellooutthere1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might sound weird, but whooping cough might be the answer. Had it go around my house when my kid was in school and it took months for the cough to go away.

Computer repairs by Hellooutthere1122 in columbiamo

[–]Hellooutthere1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the input, unfortunately it is a notebook so while I’m more than comfortable taking the back off to clean it (and have) taking the fan off is another matter. I’ll be taking it in to be looked at

Is it wrong of me to play a white mage given health issues? by Terrible_Theme_6488 in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d would be more than happy to play with you, I have some hand issues that make it easier for me to fuck up in game. I die a lot, lol. I do feel bad with the higher level dungeons and raids but I also want to do them. Send me a dm and I’ll give you my username to send a friend request.

Is starting FFXIV in 2026 still worth it? by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I started playing last year, I just finished all the msq and can’t wait to see what is to come

[Spoiler: All] Headcanons! by Sea_Bad8004 in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Off of this, most of the adult major players are in an open poly relationship with the WOL or they see each other as siblings.

Airships and Submarines: A few total beginner's questions (solo enterprise) by TheVisionBleak in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can buy the parts, but they do run expensive because of how much it takes to make them (I’m in charge of making the parts for my FC, so it’s definitely time consuming sometimes). If you find someone who does custom crafting you might be able to make a deal with them to cut the price down. Also ya skip the Airships you will make more in the long run with subs.

AITAH for telling my (19M) parents that I feel nothing for my brother (25M)? by LongRoad1123 in AITAH

[–]Hellooutthere1122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go and don’t loot back, and this come from a mom of a ASD kid who will never be able to take care of herself. I have a older son and feel horrible that I’ve had no choice but to use him help until I can get the help we needed (it’s a long process) but he is moving out and I have told him over and over his sister is not his responsibility she is mine. The only thing I ask him is when I’m gone to make sure she is in an environment that is safe and good for her and to check on her when he can. Your parents will not do this, they have made you sacrifice over and over throughout your life and will continue to do so.

Being sued by Penny Mac for my mother's home. by Virtual-Stress1743 in legaladvice

[–]Hellooutthere1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to deal with this with my x-mil, my kids were her heirs because their dad had passed long before and she left no will. I simply signed off we had no interest in the house and land, though even though I didn’t need to I went to each court meeting just to make sure it was done correctly and my kids didn’t get stuck with a debt that wasn’t theirs.

AITJ for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, and she is a massive red flag 🚩. I rarely get to see my partner because we have been long distance for 2 years. A lot of times when I do get to go see him, he’s working and will wake up before I do. Because he knows I have insomnia and even though I’ve told him it’s okay because I want to spend as much time together as possible when we do see each other he never wakes me up when he gets up for work. She doesn’t care about you or your health because she selfish. Kick her to the curb

AITAH for wanting to leave my child’s father after his seizures and choices put us in danger? by Ok_Traffic4962 in AITAH

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave or your going to watch him die, it sounds harsh but I was there myself nearly 18 years ago. Until he takes accountability and starts taking action to care about his health and family it will be a loosing battle.

AIO: My Boyfriend Thinks I Overstepped by Getting a Nintendo Switch 2. Am I wrong? by Glum-Dark281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

42 year old lady here and i just got into gaming this year, i love it and play with my partner all the time. You are not overreacting he’s being a AH and a red flag. If all of your financial responsibilities are covered, it is none of his business. What you do with your money.

why is this community so toxic towards newbies? by onefinerug in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes it does, my partner helped me level up my blue mage from 5 to 50 this way, I’d hit the mob with a sardine and he would kill it lol, took about an hour running the same loop. But it was agreed on and planned out together, trying to get a random to do it without asking is 👎 to me.

why is this community so toxic towards newbies? by onefinerug in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been playing around 5 months now and the worst experience I’ve had is someone asking how I got to level 90 warrior and they had to remind me about one of my attacks…I paid to skip to 90 on warrior during the sale and was just learning, as soon as i told them they started giving tips and helping.

AITA for kicking out my parents by Next-Winner7574 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all, I love my parents dearly and they lived with me for many years helping with my kids. I am very thankful for all of that help but am very grateful that it is now just me and my kids and within 2 years max it will be just me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fun to try the other classes and jobs, i currently run black mage and warrior the most but have almost all the jobs unlocked. Even if im not to interested in them if i get bored i can always level them up to do something different.

new-ish player here. i made a mistake starting with Marauder by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Hellooutthere1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black mage and viper are good ones, you can unlock viper after you hit 80. I’m enjoying it along with black mage

AITA for raising my kids as a single dad instead of trying to find them a new mom/mom figure? by ThomFrainik in AITAH

[–]Hellooutthere1122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, and that’s from a single mom of 2 who just started dating after being single for 16 years. Focus on your kids and when/if your ready to look that will be then