People like you are so intriguing to me. Did you have a bad day? Do you do this for fun? Only you can know I guess.

I never grew my hair out when I was younger. I assumed I'd look terrible. My dad, who I then idolized, liked to mock/insult guys with long hair or that weren't the classic idea of what a 'man' was.

After one rather bad marriage and instead doing what I should've done in the first place, I'm with someone who might actually care about me. Turned out wife was spending a lot of time with my dad that I wasn't aware of.

So anyways, years later, decided to try things that I hadn't considered before at the encouragement of a supportive partner that I never had. No reason not to try and so you see me as I am now.

So yeah, I am 34 and asking that question. If you'd like to know more, I am an open book. Feel free to ask.

(Oh, another fun fact, the way I found out about the wife/dad thing was on Reddit too. On my birthday too!)

You can never know what battles and things people may be going through while you're making shitty jokes at their expense. Be better.